URGENT: I suspect a SMOKIN HOT work colleague is a former ML, should I ask if she still moonlights

[liminal]

A junior colleague recently ‘graduated’ has commenced work.

Over the last few weeks since she’s started And as the weather warms her attire appears to be far less appropriate for the work place and more akin to that of my favourite ML.

There are other signs that telegraph to me that she Must have worked a few shifts.

Should I ask her?

[lonely heart]

Unless you want to get fire, no....

[jordan69]

Unless you want to get fire, no....
This is funny.

Thanks bro:D

[hornedone]

How did you come to the conclusion? Leopard print panties visible? Ample supplies of tissues on her desk? The baby-oil scent?

[exstar]

One arm more toned than the other?

[BlackToad]

Give her $50 and see how she reacts.

[PervySage]

A junior colleague recently ‘graduated’ has commenced work.

Should I ask her?

Yes!

Also suggest she will make more money doing ML work and you can line up heaps of customers for her if she gives her number to you.... which of course you must post on this forum.

You might lose your job but you would be a hero on the forum😁!

[Brothelcreeper]

A junior colleague recently ‘graduated’ has commenced work.

Over the last few weeks since she’s started And as the weather warms her attire appears to be far less appropriate for the work place and more akin to that of my favourite ML.

There are other signs that telegraph to me that she Must have worked a few shifts.

Should I ask her?

You should :

1. Get her phone number
2. Fall in love with her
3. Then when you find out she really does work in a massage parlour you should reach out to the forum for advice on why she gave her number to you and is it OK to fall in love with a girl that works in a massage parlour.

[lonely heart]

You should :

1. Get her phone number
2. Fall in love with her
3. Then when you find out she really does work in a massage parlour you should reach out to the forum for advice on why she gave her number to you and is it OK to fall in love with a girl that works in a massage parlour.

I have a better idea...

1. Follow her and take pic and video if confirm if she is WL / ML.
2. Then quietly try to get where she live and family situation.
3. Bang!! Show her what you know... free sex till you drop.

Obviously i mean it as a joke. You are getting in to criminal territory if you do what I said.

[Brothelcreeper]

I have a better idea...

1. Follow her and take pic and video if confirm if she is WL / ML.
2. Then quietly try to get where she live and family situation.
3. Bang!! Show her what you know... free sex till you drop.

Obviously i mean it as a joke. You are getting in to criminal territory if you do what I said.

Thanks for your illegal advice LOL

[jordan69]

I have a better idea...

1. Follow her and take pic and video if confirm if she is WL / ML.
2. Then quietly try to get where she live and family situation.
3. Bang!! Show her what you know... free sex till you drop.

Obviously i mean it as a joke. You are getting in to criminal territory if you do what I said.
Bro, you’re hilarious.
Hopefully the boys finish reading your comments instead of partially read :D

Thanks for the advice

[toysrus]

Over the last few weeks since she’s started And as the weather warms her attire appears to be far less appropriate for the work place and more akin to that of my favourite ML.


Mad detective skillz dude.

Summer is coming and girls are looking more slutty in Sydney, must be ML.
O_o

[hornedone]

She wear g-string like most other girls in Sydney?

[335i]

Over the last few weeks since she’s started And as the weather warms her attire appears to be far less appropriate for the work place and more akin to that of my favourite ML.

If that was the sign, then I work with a lot of former MLs!

[GoldfishMan]

A junior colleague recently ‘graduated’ has commenced work.

Over the last few weeks since she’s started And as the weather warms her attire appears to be far less appropriate for the work place and more akin to that of my favourite ML.

There are other signs that telegraph to me that she Must have worked a few shifts.

Should I ask her?
Casually ask "I need a HAND with this JOB!", and observe her reaction.
Seriously though, to preserve your income and ensure future ability to see MLs, just go to your favourite ML and let your imagination run wild. It's all in your head!

[AHLUNGOR]

A junior colleague recently ‘graduated’ has commenced work.

Over the last few weeks since she’s started And as the weather warms her attire appears to be far less appropriate for the work place and more akin to that of my favourite ML.

There are other signs that telegraph to me that she Must have worked a few shifts.

Should I ask her?


Mate, anything to do with a female co-worker, either just flirting or sexually intended will almost always ended in disaster !

What exactly do you expect to get out from this ?

1. If she is indeed a current or ex ML, you try to get some free extras from her by what? blackmailing ?

2. If she is not, only bad things would come out from anything you may attempt !

Worst case, she is indeed still a ML and you went to see her in the shop and got what you want, then the situation will reverse ! she got you by the balls so to speak, you want your other colleagues or family and friends to know that you visit a massage parlour? You may end up having to see her in the shop every week, pay more and get less just to buy her silence.

And if you are in a more senior position at work, then it's even worst, I'm sure you can figure that out yourself ?

is this worth it ?

[max_power]

Friday night drinks then move in for the kill

[gentlescream]

Newbie question. Does ML mean "massage lady" and WL "working lady" (full service)?

Correct! Gosh - so long since I first learned those terms.

[gentlescream]

Nowhere near enough to get to that conclusion. I'd say get her social media account first and then you can maybe close in. Never a guarantee, but a start.

[liminal]

Newbie question. Does ML mean "massage lady" and WL "working lady" (full service)?

Along with SB mostly indistinguishable.

Update :


I’ve had pause to think further on this and many thanks gents for your thoughtful replies. It’s been a great help. I realise that workplace and sex is a volatile mix , and have had varied experiences.. and I know many of you , from experience or wisdom , caution against ....but remain curious .

Over the last few days had further opportunity to banter with this gorgeous Thai , while making an early coffee , along with Some other colleagues.

The few times any conversation teetered toward what she did during her student days for work , she was vague or mentioned a business in the sector. . I know one of the partners and gave a call. never was such a girl , unless she was ABC .

Work Drinks tomorrow night , so hoping it’s a warm evening and we get to further the conversation. .. no idea what I’m expecting , if anything .

However my spidey senses are tingling... and still getting the I’ve been a ML vibe. Hard to explain .. but wasn’t there a recent thread about been accosted by a ML on a train... don’t you guys ever get that clear feeling ?

[Kit985]

I have a better idea...

1. Follow her and take pic and video if confirm if she is WL / ML.
2. Then quietly try to get where she live and family situation.
3. Bang!! Show her what you know... free sex till you drop.

Obviously i mean it as a joke. You are getting in to criminal territory if you do what I said.

Or
4. Make sure you done none of above.lol

Btw this is funny lol

[PervySage]

However my spidey senses are tingling... and still getting the I’ve been a ML vibe. Hard to explain .. but wasn’t there a recent thread about been accosted by a ML on a train... don’t you guys ever get that clear feeling ?

Peter Parker was a dork.

Not all Thai girls are ML / WL... One of my previous managers was a Thai lady and definitely "doable"...but seriously intelligent lady.

If this girl was an ML.. she is clearly trying to move into a normal job why not let her do it?

As a Punter you know that if she was an ML she won't want to get involved with a Punter.
Why not buy her a drink, and do things normally and get to know this "gorgeous Thai girl"

Knowing if she was an ML or not does not do you any good and for her if u ask enough questions A few things happen:

1) she will know you are a Punter
2) She will get upset someone dug up her past
3) if you mention to anyone at work and this gets out.. You will have a HR situation on your hands.

On the other hand play it cool and see if she is interested and go from there and both of you have a good time..?

[Happyman2018]

I guess u just want 2 bang her
Otherwise y cares if she a wl or not

[krnboy]

I guess u just want 2 bang her
Otherwise y cares if she a wl or not

Or just horny as Fuck

[asiafever]

Not sure what difference finding out would make, but try these on for a start.
1. Grab at your shoulder/neck, say something like "It's really tight, this office needs someone who knows how to massage, I'd gladly pay.!" Watch in horror as Bob from the mail room, with B.O. and a body like a dropped lasagne, offers his expert services instead... including hj...
2. Ask her if she did any work to get through Uni, when she says she worked "part-time" you can feign momentary hearing difficulty and say "did you say part 2? Don't mind if I do, standard $50 ok?"
3. Tell her you don't have a gf. If she says "Why not? You are very handsome boy." BINGO, we have a winner.

Social media won't tell you a lot, unless she is lazy most girls will have separate accounts, some even have the accounts set up in their full working alias names and try to gather followers, if she's working in a company that account will be long deleted I would suggest.

[BuryYourDead]

liminal, stop being a fucking creep.

Maybe you have punted too long, and are seeing all Asian women as potential ML/WL.

This is absolutely ridiculous, and for you to check up on her is borderline obsessive.

Leave the poor lady alone.

Or better yet, put your dick on the chopping block, get a sexual harassment claim against you and lose everything... due to your "utter and total creepiness ".

[storry_teller]

Yeah, you can ask so your colleagues will be able to confirm that you’re such a creepy pervert

[storry_teller]

Not sure what difference finding out would make, but try these on for a start.
1. Grab at your shoulder/neck, say something like "It's really tight, this office needs someone who knows how to massage, I'd gladly pay.!" Watch in horror as Bob from the mail room, with B.O. and a body like a dropped lasagne, offers his expert services instead... including hj...
2. Ask her if she did any work to get through Uni, when she says she worked "part-time" you can feign momentary hearing difficulty and say "did you say part 2? Don't mind if I do, standard $50 ok?"
3. Tell her you don't have a gf. If she says "Why not? You are very handsome boy." BINGO, we have a winner.

Social media won't tell you a lot, unless she is lazy most girls will have separate accounts, some even have the accounts set up in their full working alias names and try to gather followers, if she's working in a company that account will be long deleted I would suggest.
Then you’re ready to receive sexual harassment complaint from HR department. Good luck, perverts

[asiafever]

Then you’re ready to receive sexual harassment complaint from HR department. Good luck, perverts

I thought the fact the post was made as a joke was implied..

[liminal]

Again gents interesting reading ... keep the feedback open and flowin.

Perhaps this should have been posted in the whats your depravity thread

[asiafever]

If I'm to be serious for a moment, what do you hope the outcome is and what gain is there to finding out?
If it turns out she was, then what?
If it turns out she wasn't, would you be disappointed?
Also how would you be 100% sure without asking her outright, and if you do ask her you must be prepared for the backlash that would accompany. It seems this is a no win situation. So if you like her, pursue as you would any normal girl and forget all the ml stuff. On the off chance she was a ml and has left that all behind, then chancea are that is EXACTLY where she wants to keep it, in the past.

[londonlife]

Give her $50 and see how she reacts.That is hilarious!

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[BuryYourDead]

If I'm to be serious for a moment, what do you hope the outcome is and what gain is there to finding out?
If it turns out she was, then what?
If it turns out she wasn't, would you be disappointed?
Also how would you be 100% sure without asking her outright, and if you do ask her you must be prepared for the backlash that would accompany. It seems this is a no win situation. So if you like her, pursue as you would any normal girl and forget all the ml stuff. On the off chance she was a ml and has left that all behind, then chancea are that is EXACTLY where she wants to keep it, in the past.

Ka pai bro.... ka pai

[des888]

liminal, stop being a fucking creep.

Maybe you have punted too long, and are seeing all Asian women as potential ML/WL.

This is absolutely ridiculous, and for you to check up on her is borderline obsessive.

Leave the poor lady alone.

Or better yet, put your dick on the chopping block, get a sexual harassment claim against you and lose everything... due to your "utter and total creepiness ".

Agreed with this 100 percent

[wilisno]

Sick puppy syndrome ! ;) ;) ;)

[SexyBoi]

Guys really won’t stop fantasizing about sexual relationships in the office or place of work with girls who they think that they have a sordid past and they would certainly give in if pushed. Just like in a porn movie, some dudes are stuck in this dreamworld..,Even if they know that is just that - a fantasy!

[AHLUNGOR]

Guys really won’t stop fantasizing about sexual relationships in the office or place of work with girls who they think that they have a sordid past and they would certainly give in if pushed. Just like in a porn movie, some dudes are stuck in this dreamworld..,Even if they know that is just that - a fantasy!

There is an entire genre from the Japanese porn dedicated to this sort of fantasy : where an ordinary guy who has no chance of picking up or usually got bullied or look down upon by usually very sexy and big tits women around him like co workers，neighbours, sister in laws, cousins and aunties ! would visit a soap land or 回春 rejuvenated massage parlour ( the only place he could regain some respects and his manhood ! And there she is, the most nasty of those above mentioned women would be serving of course ! What else he’s the king now and get to cream pie them all as stated in the title : 真性中出，無套內射，顏射，面接，吞精 meaning : BBFS, no condom cum in pussy, cum on face, cum in mouth, swallowing!!

What follows was that via blackmailing he gets to fuck these women any time, any where and cream pie and the works ! Free of course !!

Now , you guys can live the fantasy like me watching JAV harmlessly or go for it in real life and ruin your career and your life , totally your choice ........ lol, it’s a free country - but sex in NEVER free !

[Azninvasion85]

Man this is the perfect thread to relate to. Similar to what I experienced today. Was at a family mart at near Roseville station (hill st aka the non main road side.) When a Chinese girl walks in, in a Burberry trench coat wearing pink shower slippers and asks the boss if they have air freshener spray and wet wipes... proceeds to buy 3 cans and 2 boxes... when she went past me she smelt like she just had a shower however wad in full make up. Fake eye lashes, heavy blush, mascara the works!
I was going to check and see which shop if there was one nearby that she worked at. However.she disappeared from the street... I also could not see any massage shops nearby.. I was thinking to myself that I should have stalked her lol.

[Fair dinkum]

Man this is the perfect thread to relate to. Similar to what I experienced today. Was at a family mart at near Roseville station (hill st aka the non main road side.) When a Chinese girl walks in, in a Burberry trench
I was going to check and see which shop if there was one nearby that she worked at. However.she disappeared from the street... I also could not see any massage shops nearby.. I was thinking to myself that I should have stalked her lol.
LOL. Thanks, I have similar occasions during shopping.
This forum started to create more imagination punters.

[PervySage]

LOL. Thanks, I have similar occasions during shopping.
This forum started to create more imagination punters.

Lol agree too much imagination.

but young girl in make up all dolled up buying air freshener and wet wipes haha that’s a give away.

[Idurian]

Any update if OP went through and still working at his job? Lol

[liminal]

Who has not had a leery fantasy and coworker perve .. step backwards but be careful not too Tread on the used tissues as you go

As for me , happily employed, though did have a fun chat and drink with said girl last week. Did it reveal (all) her past . Not necessarily though opened up some other possibility

Would I could I should I have a drink with a younger co worker. Why not . There is no imbalance as I have no bearing onher work nor have any supervisory advisory capacity relating to her

I’ve had ‘relations with colleagues before . Messy ? Not IME. though always a first opportunity

[Broncoshead]

Thanks for the advice

[PervySage]

Who has not had a leery fantasy and coworker perve .. step backwards but be careful not too Tread on the used tissues as you go

As for me , happily employed, though did have a fun chat and drink with said girl last week. Did it reveal (all) her past . Not necessarily though opened up some other possibility

Would I could I should I have a drink with a younger co worker. Why not . There is no imbalance as I have no bearing onher work nor have any supervisory advisory capacity relating to her

I’ve had ‘relations with colleagues before . Messy ? Not IME. though always a first opportunity

Fair enough. So are you still trying to work out if she is an ML ?

[soembody]

gonna need some pics to verify for you sir

[Louisa18ChardRoad]

Peter Parker was a dork.

Not all Thai girls are ML / WL... One of my previous managers was a Thai lady and definitely "doable"...but seriously intelligent lady.

If this girl was an ML.. she is clearly trying to move into a normal job why not let her do it?

As a Punter you know that if she was an ML she won't want to get involved with a Punter.
Why not buy her a drink, and do things normally and get to know this "gorgeous Thai girl"

Knowing if she was an ML or not does not do you any good and for her if u ask enough questions A few things happen:

1) she will know you are a Punter
2) She will get upset someone dug up her past
3) if you mention to anyone at work and this gets out.. You will have a HR situation on your hands.

On the other hand play it cool and see if she is interested and go from there and both of you have a good time..?

Love this answer!

Just let her be

[Louisa18ChardRoad]

liminal, stop being a fucking creep.

Maybe you have punted too long, and are seeing all Asian women as potential ML/WL.

This is absolutely ridiculous, and for you to check up on her is borderline obsessive.

Leave the poor lady alone.

Or better yet, put your dick on the chopping block, get a sexual harassment claim against you and lose everything... due to your "utter and total creepiness ".

Another great answer

[Raybo]

Love this answer!

Just let her be

I was going to ask for your thoughts on this thread. You must be a champion at compartmentalising all the various aspects of your life! I wouldnt imagine it would be easy at times!

[Louisa18ChardRoad]

I was going to ask for your thoughts on this thread. You must be a champion at compartmentalising all the various aspects of your life! I wouldnt imagine it would be easy at times!

I think I said it in my thread - you have to be mentally strong to be able to compartmentalise stuff (and that goes with anything!). If you over think, get everything mashed together that’s when problems start and you begin to lose your sanity.

If someone at work (my CBD job) asked me if I’d be up for sex for money etc, I’d be incredibly pissed off and will be going to HR. How dare you come at me like that in an office scenario, when I (or anyone) never gave an inking that I/they are in the industry and you are just going by how she/I dresses, ethnicity or some fantasy. That’s someone’s life you are messing with.

How would a guy like it (especially with a wife, kids etc) get a WL who brings it into their outside world and wreck peoples opinions of him and his life?

[liminal]

We were at a work function recently, in conversation I was asked by said colleague... if I’d ever had paid sex. I was quite comfortable in my answer. Is there an issue ?

[local]

We were at a work function recently, in conversation I was asked by said colleague... if I’d ever had paid sex. I was quite comfortable in my answer. Is there an issue ?

hehe, I was once propositioned by a work colleague, and thought "hang on, I'm not gay"... turns out that he was originally a she and was only waiting for the final op...
And none of the other "guys" knew...

[BuryYourDead]

We were at a work function recently, in conversation I was asked by said colleague... if I’d ever had paid sex. I was quite comfortable in my answer. Is there an issue ?

Lol, righto then dreamer.
This gets more and more depraved with age.
Like a spoiled, vinegary Shiraz.