Asian pickup places in Sydney?

[PunterBoy]

Can you recommend some good spots in Sydney to pick up Asian women 25-35 y.o?

I reckon temporary overseas Asian women or students would be easier to pick up, as the Australian born ones have a long check list and too demanding?

I don't mind overseas gold diggers or visa brides.

Ideally I just want to walk into an "All Asian" venue and work the crowd.

Don't care how bad their Engrish is as long as they can suck a dick.

Bar, clubs, karaoke bars etc.

(Please don't say "Hurstville" or shit like that, it's not very specific or useful)

[halfway]

Try the casino, or sports clubs in the west.

[ellison]

The Shark Hotel in CBD still busy?

[des888]

OPM, Embassy, LVL

[scanboy]

C bar or MR B’s

[bevis90]

Cheers, starbar , mr b , embassy Hilton

That’s roughly places you can pickup , had success at each.

[woodcock]

Cabramatta, bankstown, chatswood

[cmk76]

Tongli... Ashfield...

[hornedone]

A few Hongkongese might suck cock for a visa these days, with their homeland falling into violence and disarray.

[ellison]

Are there any good looking Hongkongers

[Bangetsu]

Sanctuary hotel on a Friday/Saturday night

[harmsup_jai]

Luxury handbag stores

[F0x]

Luxury handbag stores

Dying mate 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

[donkeykong]

Sanctuary definitely a good place to pick up, especially in the smoking area

[storry_teller]

That’s very offensive, heartless, and brainless statement. That thought is a reflection on people who has no pride and dignity.

A few Hongkongese might suck cock for a visa these days, with their homeland falling into violence and disarray.
To answer: maybe Chinatown night market, Puddy market in Central. Also Burwood: drink shops, restaurants...

[Meng]

That’s very offensive, heartless, and brainless statement. That thought is a reflection on people who has no pride and dignity..

So you’re getting offended at that little statement? Go read some of the ARs and comments there. If you found that offensive then maybe this forum isn’t meant for you.

Frankly speaking I don’t care either way why people say here as it is a punting forum. Political correctness takes kind of a back seat here.

[RoyalFlush]

Anywhere really where you see any pretty girls.

Supermarket
a) "have you tried one of these kombucha thing?"
b) choose to line up behind a pretty girl. comment at her shopping basket "hey.. looks like you like eating healthy"

Train station while waiting for the train
"Are you excited about the new rail? Do you know when it is going to be operational?"

Waiting at the traffic light
"I just had to come up and talk to you, you look really cute, whats your name?"

Restaurants
a) "That looks good, what did you order?" Ask to point at the menu. "Can I have a try?" Proceed to stealing her food.
b) Flirty look... stealing glances, smiling... I finished my food first, then went outside to walk a bit and bumped into her again (It was deliberate, I was timing it perfectly) "I saw you at the restaurant, and wanted to talk to you. Where are you going? Can I have 5 mins, lets walk a bit together"
c) looking at the menu, a cute girl came beside me to inspect the menu together. "do you know you can get 25% off by downloading this app?" Then touch her hand when directing how to download the app. "Are you eating with anyone, wanna eat together?" Instant date
d) Sit boldly across a girl who isn't sitting with anyone (when there are empty seats available). "I want to sit here, is it ok with you?" Instant date

Movie theatre
a) While inspecting the movies, "Have you watched this show?" You can expand a lot and agree to meet up later.
b) Just talk to the girl beside you, if you are lucky. I always get the aisle seat for this reason.

Even walking from chinatown to casino. Just talk to anyone.

[ellison]

Anywhere really where you see any pretty girls.

Supermarket
a) "hey have you tried one of these kombucha thing?"
b) choose to line up behind a pretty girl. comment at her shopping basket "hey.. looks like you like eating healthy"

Train station while waiting for the train
"Are you excited about the new rail? Do you know when it is going to be operational?"

Waiting at the traffic light
"I just had to come up and talk to you, you look really cute, whats your name?"

Restaurants
a) "That looks good, what did you order?" Ask to point at the menu. "Can I have a try?" Proceed to stealing her food.
b) Flirty look... stealing glances, smiling... I finished my food first, then went outside to walk a bit and bumped into her again (It was deliberate, I was timing it perfectly) "I saw you at the restaurant, and wanted to talk to you. Where are you going? Can I have 5 mins, lets walk a bit together"

Even walking from chinatown to casino for example. Just talk to anyone, easy.

All respect. But does this stuff seriously work in 2019? Sounds creepy. Women now are very discerning. They know there are serial psyxhos on the streets, especially in big cities.
Women can instantly filter over a hundred horny guys from Tinder before you can say "I saw you at the restaurant, and wanted to talk to you. Where are you going? Can I have 5 mins, lets walk a bit together"

Is the whole pickup scene still holding ground against the rapid dating apps phenomenon ?

[RoyalFlush]

I gave up on the dating app. It's not for me.

You will find all forms of rejections along the way: Giving me the hand, Sorry I have bf, Walk quicker and ignoring etc

Then they are other girls who light up like a christmas tree when you talk to them, almost like they are waiting for a guy like me to appear before them. Then there are girls in a rebound phase, looking for a fling. Or been out of relationship for a while, or just like bold guys to make the move, or bored with their current bf, or independent girls who are sexually liberated, or tourists who is about to return to their country. Many different types of girls in various situation.

I try not to disappoint them.

Just try it. You will be surprised that the percentage of girls who will open up warmly is pretty high.

[ellison]

I gave up on the dating app. It's not for me.

You will find all forms of rejections along the way: Giving me the hand, Sorry I have bf, Walk quicker and ignoring etc

Then they are other girls who light up like a christmas tree when you talk to them, almost like they are waiting for a guy like me to appear before them. Then there are girls in a rebound phase, looking for a fling. Or been out of relationship for a while, or just like bold guys to make the move, or bored with their current bf, or independent girls who are sexually liberated, or tourists who is about to return to their country. Many different types of girls in various situation.

I try not to disappoint them.

Just try it. You will be surprised that the percentage of girls who will open up warmly is pretty high.

Fair enough. Maybe we should start sharing notes. Im happy to experience that "Christmas tree lightup". However Im betting its 25 rejections for every 1 lightup

[liminal]

I gave a gorgeous sassy African (insert Asian) woman flowers

Just saw her ahead of me , as, she was headed to her car I dashed round the corner and nabbed flowers out front of the supermarket , went to car , knocked on window , I smiled ,pointed at flowers

she opened the door

I said something lame like you are gorgeous and these are for you

She smiled - polar ice melt

I walked away , and went to shop paid for the flowers and grabbed a few things

she sat in the car and as I walked out slowly drove past , stopped , gave me her number

It does work

And also doesn’t

Shirt fronting certainly doesn’t

[RoyalFlush]

Initially the approach to lay ratio is not that good. As you get better, you will start to pick up which girl is interested in you, hence your ratio improves. As with anything, humans get better with practice.

[storry_teller]

I showed this to my girl friend. She laughed and said: it’s creepy, and pervert. She was in approached by few those ways. What she thinks is uncomfortable. “Stay away from me, pervert or loser”.

I once went for dinner with my friend in a Thai restaurant and he was single at that time. Pointed out a pretty girl and he asked a waiter to pass her a message that if she gave him her number, he would give her $200 cash, also tipped the waiter $50. Unfortunately, that girl said no.

My idea: guys should get a bit of photography skills, and of course a reasonable camera. Girls love to have nice pics of them.

Anywhere really where you see any pretty girls.

Supermarket
a) "have you tried one of these kombucha thing?"
b) choose to line up behind a pretty girl. comment at her shopping basket "hey.. looks like you like eating healthy"

Train station while waiting for the train
"Are you excited about the new rail? Do you know when it is going to be operational?"

Waiting at the traffic light
"I just had to come up and talk to you, you look really cute, whats your name?"

Restaurants
a) "That looks good, what did you order?" Ask to point at the menu. "Can I have a try?" Proceed to stealing her food.
b) Flirty look... stealing glances, smiling... I finished my food first, then went outside to walk a bit and bumped into her again (It was deliberate, I was timing it perfectly) "I saw you at the restaurant, and wanted to talk to you. Where are you going? Can I have 5 mins, lets walk a bit together"
c) looking at the menu, a cute girl came beside me to inspect the menu together. "do you know you can get 25% off by downloading this app?" Then touch her hand when directing how to download the app. "Are you eating with anyone, wanna eat together?" Instant date
d) Sit boldly across a girl who isn't sitting with anyone (when there are empty seats available). "I want to sit here, is it ok with you?" Instant date

Movie theatre
a) While inspecting the movies, "Have you watched this show?" You can expand a lot and agree to meet up later.
b) Just talk to the girl beside you, if you are lucky. I always get the aisle seat for this reason.

Even walking from chinatown to casino. Just talk to anyone.

[liminal]

I showed this to my girl friend. She laughed and said: it’s creepy, and pervert. She was in approached by few those ways. What she thinks is uncomfortable. “Stay away from me, pervert or loser”.

I once went for dinner with my friend in a Thai restaurant and he was single at that time. Pointed out a pretty girl and he asked a waiter to pass her a message that if she gave him her number, he would give her $200 cash, also tipped the waiter $50. Unfortunately, that girl said no.

My idea: guys should get a bit of photography skills, and of course a reasonable camera. Girls love to have nice pics of them.

you do realise the irony here? 😊’

[ellison]

I once went for dinner with my friend in a Thai restaurant and he was single at that time. Pointed out a pretty girl and he asked a waiter to pass her a message that if she gave him her number, he would give her $200 cash, also tipped the waiter $50. Unfortunately, that girl said no.

This reeks of desperation. Good looking women get randomly propositioned at least once every day. You have to be confident, not desperate, and also lucky (if she is single). But offering money for a phone number is very desperate . Offering to take their photo, and keeping a copy on your phone or camera, is very creepy. Only if you use their phone would they even consider this offer

[storry_teller]

No, I mean girls like to take pics so it’s a chance to make friends with them. They, surprisingly don’t think it’s creepy much as long as you don’t take pic of them in bikini or nude, lol. Let them think that they are in your camera by accident.
True, my friend was desperate at that time because he had bad experience with his ex that made him feel not confident about himself. He, another time tipped a masseuse $100 while I just gave $20 (legit massage) as he wanted to impress her.

This reeks of desperation. Good looking eomrn get randomly propositioned at least once every day. You have to be confident, not desperate, and lucky if she is single. But offering money for a phone number is very desperate . Offering to take their photo, and keeping a copy on your phone or camera, is very creepy. Only if you use their phone would they even consider this offer

[Raybo]

I have 2 grown up daughter's and they have had many of their friends over my house over the years. I also have a few close friends of the female variety.

It would be fair to say that all of them would think it was a bit weird or even creepy if a random guy tried to start some conversation with the intention of getting their number or going on a date, whilst they were out shopping, on public transport or the like. My guess is there is a stranger danger element to it all.

They may feel a bit different about it if they were at a pub/bar/club or a concert or rave/dance party but this is also where the real whackjobs think they can ply their 'trade' as well, and girls do have a knack for sensing this.

Most of them have been on dating apps and have met guys this way. I guess that it is the accepted way to meet new potential partners or suitable casual relationships these days.

[ellison]

For those that dont know, there has been a growing 'pick up' community online. The largest group is RSD (Real Social Dynamics). These groups hold international meetings which teach single men how to approach women. A cold approach is where you talk to a random woman on the street or in shops or where they work
Its probably creepy and now with dating apps and messaging apps, women probably have little patience or need to be approached randomly. The problem is that many men are more brazen now, and will start randomly talking to many women in an afternoon. As a result, women are now getting sick of all the unwanted approaches
Of course if you are tall and good looking, then go ahead and chat up women. Women do respond, but more women don't like it

Punting is great. You can ease your bodily needs to the extent you dont need to feel or act desperate. You become more confident and appealing to women as a result

[Jamez11]

The VAST majority of women still don't get approached.

Women generally don't mind being approached, assuming she finds him attractive, she is available and their is a genuine and fun interaction. If a girl is attracted to a guy she will stare and make very deliberate eye contact, flick her hair quite aggressively or even smile back if you smile at her. She wants you to approach!

This is where going to gym consistently over many years working on getting wider shoulders, small waist (six pack) and strong legs and glutes, basically an athletic build. A good diet, clothes that fit and good posture will all help with initial attraction then good banter/emotional connection usually does the rest.

Also approaching girls that are age appropriate. So best not to be a 40 year old hitting on a 20 year old lol.

[rooter]

Asking guys who pay for sex for tips on picking up women?
Hilarious!
It's like asking someone who orders take-away for cooking recipes ;)
There are reasons why punters are punters.
Most are either too old, or too ugly, or too shy, or too creepy, or too lazy to pick up pretty girls. Or some or all of the above.
Me, I am too old, too ugly, too lazy.

[Raybo]

This is where going to gym consistently over many years working on getting wider shoulders, small waist (six pack) and strong legs and glutes, basically an athletic build. A good diet, clothes that fit and good posture will all help with initial attraction then good banter/emotional connection usually does the rest.

Unfortunately for the women I know that have met a lot of these guys due to the initial attraction, the good banter and emotional connection is sadly lacking because the guys are so into themselves! 🤣🤣🤣

[Raybo]

Asking guys who pay for sex for tips on picking up women?
Hilarious!
It's like asking someone who orders take-away for cooking recipes ;)

I haven't got a clue about picking up girls, only what girls and to some extent some guys tell me. It would have to be 20 years since i picked up a girl!

I wouldn't say I can cook either, which is why I follow recipes!

[Dettol]

No such thing as creeps or perverts. Only uglies.

[ellison]

Im reminded of the time my past girlfriend had gone to the local council swimming pool for a swim. She told me when she got home, that a guy with a child randomly approached her next to the pool, and she felt strange. Women are getting approached all the time. She asked me was this normal, and I told her that this situation was creepy

[Meng]

The moral of the story is if you’re handsome and have a good body then go for it. It may come off as weird but not creepy.

If you’re a 40-50 year old balding fat old man approaching a a girl half your age then it’s creepy. Unless of course you have money.

Stick to dating apps and punting guys.

[RoyalFlush]

Im really LOLing myself here. If you ask a girl if she likes to be approached, of course the answer is going to be No! It's common sense. Do you expect her to say I like to be approached? She might as well say Im easy, Im a slut.
Just think about it for a sec, all courtships are initially approaches right? A man has been in his social circle for a while, he finally picks up his courage to ask the girl out for a date (approach). A guy and a girl got some chemistry going on in a friend's birthday party. Guy decides to risk it and ask for the girl's number (approach). The difference is speed with pick ups.

Women tend to compartmentalise a lot of their emotions. For example, if you ask a woman how many ex-bfs did she have, she is going discount the guy who fucked and dumped her as one night stand encounter as never being happened. Similarly, a princess who got picked up by a charming prince on a horse is going to say "he is the man of my dreams, this is all FATE, we are DESTINED to be together from the start." When actually it is another kind of pick up.

Then you get women groaning and complaining about their singlehood status, "oh no men has never made a move.." or "if only he talks to me.."

As a man, just go and get what you want. Isn't that what being a man is all about?

[annintofu]

girls know how much they are worth.
looks aren't that important these days.
if you are loaded, should be easy, otherwise, good luck finding a free fuck.

[liminal]

This is hilarious .. mostly ... and exposes the furphy and flatulence that inhabits the mores and excesses of our febrile minds...

presume less... try more ..

I do not see any moral to this tale , excepting the majority of comments here are by guys who do not , or cannot , or have not

No offense meant ,

Carry on

[Jamez11]

They say you learn something new everyday, I had no idea furphy and mores were even words yet alone what they meant.

I guess I'm +1, and the day is still young.

[des888]

Asking guys who pay for sex for tips on picking up women?
Hilarious!
It's like asking someone who orders take-away for cooking recipes ;)

Hahahaha agreed

[ellison]

Hahahaha agreed

There are many guys on here who date and also punt on the side

[rooter]

There are many guys on here who date and also punt on the side

Yeah but once you become a regular punter your picking up days are over.
You lose the edge, the hunger, the thirst. You get fat, lazy, spoilt etc ...
It's like the transition from a hunter gatherer civilisation to a agricultural civilisation

[aussiegaigin]

They say you learn something new everyday, I had no idea furphy and mores were even words yet alone what they meant.

I guess I'm +1, and the day is still young.

Important words in Ozlish.

[Dettol]

A common belief of creeps and perverts... you.
Just calling it what it is brah.

It’s also the reason why those girls keep trying to get away from you everytime you come near them but I’m guessing you already worked that one out. :)

[ellison]

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2019/nov/05/pickup-artists-teaching-men-approach-women-industry-street-harassment

Thanks for this article. Who said cold approaches were a good thing?

Female journalists words, as she watched men approaching random women in the street:

'As a young woman who has experienced street harassment throughout my life, it is an extraordinarily uncomfortable thing to observe

I know that, on a fundamental level, women do not want to be approached in this way by strangers on the street. Not when they are running errands, or chatting on the phone, or on their way home from work. We want men to leave us alone.

I think I am witnessing street harassment

This behaviour has a profoundly negative impact on women

It’s often excused as flirting, or seen as good-natured. And on the individual incident level, I can understand why you might think that: someone came and spoke to you in the street, what’s the big deal?

For many women, these aren’t one-off experiences, but are repeated constantly, often from childhood. They add up.” She sighs. “I don’t think men live with this experience of being intruded upon and having people feel entitled to your time.”

But they are denying women the chance to exist in public spaces without being treated as objects of desire. Just to be free, without lying to strange men, saying you have an imaginary boyfriend or lying about a place you need to be to avoid the harrassment'

[annintofu]

Wow, I almost feel sorry for you that you think men and women engage purely on a transactional level.
You're missing out on a lot of fun mate.

No need to feel sorry for me, I had my share of fun in my 20s (there were maybe 5 - 6 girls over the years; overseas, not in AUS) and yes those experiences were much better than punting, i agree.

But reflecting on why they decided to go out with me, i can confidently say the weight of different factors could be broken down into:
60% - economic reasons: well paid stable job; career-wise a bright future ahead; good education →　ability to advance & earn more
20% - personality: honest, respect for them, compatible with their personality
10% - family background: similar to theirs
10% - looks & appearances: (slightly below?) average but nothing obviously wrong.

I came into contact with them from business or friends(never in a bar), and every time it was the girl who gave clear signals of her interest first and I never had to go out of my way to learn any pickup tricks.

In the 2020s, my belief is that economic reasons will weigh even more (maybe 70-80%).

One classic way a love story unfolds is like this:
1. a pretty but naive girl finds a guy with good looks and a funny way of talking, but not much else, and somehow got sweet-talked into dating him
2. a few years of frolicking, beach going and overseas trips, they were madly in love and got married
3. the initial fun fades and the burden of raising a family makes the girl sulk every day
4. she starts blaming the guy for not being able to give her a better life that her female friends (who married smart and prosperous guys) enjoy
5. with 3 kids and no life of her own, she became a bitch that he could hardly recognize
6. they stopped having sex and he resorts to punting
7. either loveless family life or divorce awaits them

In this day and age, with social media, books, tv shows, doramas & internet news, most girls know this bad result and have become much smarter. Yeah, there are still naive ones, but lets face it, they are a dwindling minority.

P.S
I speak from experiences in Asian countries, maybe Aussies/Europeans/Americans are different? i don't know. Caucasian bros here please enlighten.

[ellison]

One classic way a love story unfolds is like this:
1. a pretty but naive girl finds a guy with good looks and a funny way of talking, but not much else, and somehow got sweet-talked into dating him
2. a few years of frolicking, beach going and overseas trips, they were madly in love and got married
3. the initial fun fades and the burden of raising a family makes the girl sulk every day
4. she starts blaming the guy for not being able to give her a better life that her female friends (who married smart and prosperous guys) enjoy
5. with 3 kids and no life of her own, she became a bitch that he could hardly recognize
6. they stopped having sex and he resorts to punting
7. either loveless family life or divorce awaits them

Nice thoughts. Is it fair to say majority of men always have an interest in sex, but that woman can complete turn away from it?

With women choosing to have children later in life, and grandparents then often too old, or no longer around, I don't know how people can raise multiple children on their own, and work as well to pay all the bills, in dual income families

[Jamez11]

You must be really scraping the bottom of the barrel if you're looking at an article authored by a feminist from a lefty out let.

Must girls are not the perpetual 'victims' who hate men and are socially and sexually repressed like most feminists today.

Ask a group of women if its an issue if a man politely and respectfully approaches her in the street, especially if she finds him attractive which she let him know by her body language. Has a fun and light hearted conversion and asks for her number and feels just as comfortable saying no as she does yes.

[F0x]

Must girls are not the perpetual 'victims' who hate men and are socially and sexually repressed like most feminists today.

Ask a group of women if its an issue if a man politely and respectfully approaches her in the street, especially if she finds him attractive which she let him know by her body language. Has a fun and light hearted conversion and asks for her number and feels just as comfortable saying no as she does yes.

I agree,

Women dont mind being approached. Do you honestly think that Women spend hours doing themselves up to have nobody notice? They are trying to get attention and compete against other women.

Its just the WAY they NORMALLY get approached which gives them the shits.

The article even hints at it. Like going up to a girl and "asking for directions" then switching it to complimenting or negging her, basically trips every single bullshit detection system they have. You just outright lied and showed a very clear ulterior motive to her. If you lie about something so basic as simply wanting to talk to a girl, she is naturally going to assume all other discussion is bullshit too.

The other issue is the outcome dependency these approaches usually have. Another name for it: desperation.

The guy will act like this girl is their only chance at pussy ever. Like every approach is survival of their Penis.

And this happens over. And over. And over again for an attractive woman. And directions, then switch is probably one of the more "nice" ways they get approached. You can imagine then all the other outright sexual comments or packs of guys trying to crowd her etc and no wonder women will put up a bitch front and seem unapproachable.

Just be normal. Hell, Disney movies have showing the "secret" to picking up women for ages.

EDIT: Hilarious, the poster above made a reference to Disney as well, total coincidence didnt see that post before I posted

[F0x]

In the 2020s, my belief is that economic reasons will weigh even more (maybe 70-80%).

6. They stopped having sex and he resorts to punting.



There definitely is a species of female who are gold diggers. I know personally of a couple who actively encourage their daughter to marry for money not for love. The couple are very well off as well.

But I would call these species limited. Again, women will put this front up as a way to keep stupid Beta males away from them simple as that.

If you really believe women are all about money, good luck ever having a meaningful relationship brother. Leave a thought for you:

You are what you think.

Also to point 6, he got funds for punting but not to support fam? 🤣

Happy Saturday.

[storry_teller]

There definitely is a species of female who are gold diggers. I know personally of a couple who actively encourage their daughter to marry for money not for love. The couple are very well off as well.

But I would call these species limited. Again, women will put this front up as a way to keep stupid Beta males away from them simple as that.

If you really believe women are all about money, good luck ever having a meaningful relationship brother. Leave a thought for you:

You are what you think.

Also to point 6, he got funds for punting but not to support fam? ��

Happy Saturday.
It’s quite cheap to have time feeling like king, or perfect partner.

[ellison]

I know personally of a couple who actively encourage their daughter to marry for money not for love

Very sensible advice in a very expensive city like Sydney or Melbourne

[PunterBoy]

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2019/nov/05/pickup-artists-teaching-men-approach-women-industry-street-harassment

Did nobody pick up on the obvious race issue here?

As the picture in the article implies, at least one of the guys (Raj) seems to be of Indian heritage. An Indian looking bloke chasing white skirt in the heart of London? Lolz..

How many couples do you know where the guy is Indian and the girl is white?

[PervySage]

Did nobody pick up on the obvious race issue here?

How many couples do you know where the guy is Indian and the girl is white?

In England / UK ? ... it’s not that uncommon, many mixed couples when I was last there.

One of my friends of Indian heritage lives in London is married to a Spanish girl.

[ellison]

Some of the recent news coming out of India is disturbing. Its a media beat up probably

[rooter]

Pick up "artists" are basically just vermin and pests.
They have the same worth as rats, flies, or cockroaches.
Women have a right to go about their lives without being harassed by losers.
They have a right to go to work, walk down the street, have a drink, catch up with friends, earn a living, have a meal, ride a train or bus etc without being harassed by some loser.
And the guys who sell these "courses" to sad pathetic losers with low self esteem are parasites.
They demean the losers who sign up and pay money for their courses and they demean the women who are harassed by these sad losers. They demean humanity.
And for fucks sake lets stop calling these scumbags "artists".
Harassment is not art.

[Shoryureppa]

Pick up "artists" are basically just vermin and pests.
They have the same worth as rats, flies, or cockroaches.
Women have a right to go about their lives without being harassed by losers.
They have a right to go to work, walk down the street, have a drink, catch up with friends, earn a living, have a meal, ride a train or bus etc without being harassed by some loser.
And the guys who sell these "courses" to sad pathetic losers with low self esteem are parasites.
They demean the losers who sign up and pay money for their courses and they demean the women who are harassed by these sad losers. They demean humanity.
And for fucks sake lets stop calling these scumbags "artists".
Harassment is not art.

Don't see how paying for sex is any better. Why pay when you can have it free? I do enjoy both
However... After work on a Friday night... if you are at a bar and you see a beautiful woman, are you saying you would not say hi/talk to her? From experience everybody loves a chat with quality banter. Pussy is pussy. The ends justify the means.

Humans are a social race. If this is your logic men and women should ignore each other and never have any interaction with each other. Sounds like a boring way to go about it :(

[Dettol]

Pick up "artists" are basically just vermin and pests.
They have the same worth as rats, flies, or cockroaches.
Women have a right to go about their lives without being harassed by losers.
They have a right to go to work, walk down the street, have a drink, catch up with friends, earn a living, have a meal, ride a train or bus etc without being harassed by some loser.
And the guys who sell these "courses" to sad pathetic losers with low self esteem are parasites.
They demean the losers who sign up and pay money for their courses and they demean the women who are harassed by these sad losers. They demean humanity.
And for fucks sake lets stop calling these scumbags "artists".
Harassment is not art.

You are not harassing if you approach a girl who signals she wanted you to.

Only lames barged in or worse, doesn’t take a hint within 10 seconds of interaction that they need to back off.

[wilisno]

Well, at least half the married couples started from one taking the initiative to approach the other, there’s nothing wrong with trying to chat up the opposite sex, just don’t make it too clear that your ultimate intention is to get a free root ! ;) ;) ;)

[konfuzion]

Real bad when a man tries talking to girl when that girl with her boyfriend. This is rude no respect can end up in big fight.

[Tavs]

They always think the world owes them. Remember one instance years ago when I was out with a female friend of mine and this 18yo sat next to her and begun feeling her up. She moved to the other side of me and the 18 yo moved too. I put my arm around my friend and this guy grabs my arm to move it away so he could keep feeling her up. I grab his hand and move it off her breast and the 18yo jumps up and starts challenging me to a fight. The bouncer comes over and asks what is going on. My friend explains what happened and the bouncer says to me ‘there is a special place out the back if you want to deal with him’ so I get up and the 18yo sees I am built and double his size, squeals and sprints out of the club.

[konfuzion]

They always think the world owes them. Remember one instance years ago when I was out with a female friend of mine and this 18yo sat next to her and begun feeling her up. She moved to the other side of me and the 18 yo moved too. I put my arm around my friend and this guy grabs my arm to move it away so he could keep feeling her up. I grab his hand and move it off her breast and the 18yo jumps up and starts challenging me to a fight. The bouncer comes over and asks what is going on. My friend explains what happened and the bouncer says to me ‘there is a special place out the back if you want to deal with him’ so I get up and the 18yo sees I am built and double his size, squeals and sprints out of the club.

This is very rude and disrespect I don't know why some men do this they don't care about other man maybe they drunk.

[ellison]

Touching a woman inappropriately in a nightclub is sexual assault

Here is another example that went to court

https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.smh.com.au/national/nsw/cowboys-player-scott-bolton-pleads-guilty-to-common-assault-after-touching-woman-s-thigh-20190107-p50pxx.html

In this case, a woman touched could also have called police to charge a man with sexual assault after touching her in a nightclub

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2626787/amp/Mitchell-Pearce-hook-woman-centre-early-morning-Kings-Cross-nightclub-incident-declines-press-charges.html

If a man causes a woman to be upset, particularly if the man touches her forcefully, he can be charged by police. Nightclubs have CCTV

[downzones123]

This is very rude and disrespect I don't know why some men do this they don't care about other man maybe they drunk.

I can't figure out how some human being can be so fucked up and has no manner at all. Brothel exists for a reason, why criminalise yourself?

[PunterBoy]

I can't figure out how some human being can be so fucked up and has no manner at all. Brothel exists for a reason, why criminalise yourself?

Tired of paying for sex. It's not the money that concerns me, it just doesn't excite me anymore. Been going at it for 10+ years now.
My new game is picking up, fucking them and breaking a few hearts along the way. It's the drama. I thrive on it. It feels real.

[jesus-chan]

Depending on the age group. On the younger side definately Sanctuary Hotel on Friday or Saturday nights. If your're into EDM, go to any trance/hardstyle event and there will be Asian chicks tweaking and looking for someone to be a bae.

Happy hunting

[Jireg]

C bar or MR B’s

Seconding this - very specifically for Thai girls. (C Bar = Chamberlain Hotel in Thai Town)

[aussiegaigin]

I am not suggesting Asians are involved in this racket:
https://www.smh.com.au/culture/books/much-loved-bookstore-kinokuniya-targeted-by-pick-up-artists-20200125-p53unj.html

[annintofu]

I am not suggesting Asians are involved in this racket:
https://www.smh.com.au/culture/books/much-loved-bookstore-kinokuniya-targeted-by-pick-up-artists-20200125-p53unj.html

Asians is too broad a category. My experience with Chinese(inc HK & TW) and Japanese culture suggests that pickup artists' techniques are usually looked upon with great suspicion and hostility. Yes, there will always be exceptions and jerks who boast about their success in seducing naive young girls, but there are 100 times more untold stories of failure and embarrassment. Wonder who is the dickhead that took their male troops to the jap bookstore. They should be visiting shops to release their energy.

About 2 years ago, I was sitting on the train, and noticed two Japanese students sitting in the row before me. Later an aussie guy sitting in the row before the girls looked back to strike up a conversation in broken Japanese. He looked about 35-40, and said his wife was japanese and they go to Japan every year and love the country etc, the girls were quite puzzled and mechanically said yes, sure etc. Later this guy stood up to get off the train and tried to shake hands with the girls who reluctantly shook his hands and their smile looked very much forced. The guy wore a T-shirt emblazoned with the name of a well known Aussie software company.

After the guy left, the girls started talking about him in japanese with a lot of disdain (who's that dude? who cares, so obnoxious, can't believe an uncle-like man would try to pick up school girls on a train, i'd call the police if this was in Japan. etc). To be sure, the guy didn't seem to be trying to pick up the girls, but he was very very interested in talking to them, yet the girls were horrified by his approach.

[aussiegaigin]

About 2 years ago, I was sitting on the train, and noticed two Japanese students sitting in the row before me. Later an aussie guy sitting in the row before the girls looked back to strike up a conversation in broken Japanese. He looked about 35-40, and said his wife was japanese and they go to Japan every year and love the country etc, the girls were quite puzzled and mechanically said yes, sure etc. Later this guy stood up to get off the train and tried to shake hands with the girls who reluctantly shook his hands and their smile looked very much forced. The guy wore a T-shirt emblazoned with the name of a well known Aussie software company.

After the guy left, the girls started talking about him in japanese with a lot of disdain (who's that dude? who cares, so obnoxious, can't believe an uncle-like man would try to pick up school girls on a train, i'd call the police if this was in Japan. etc). To be sure, the guy didn't seem to be trying to pick up the girls, but he was very very interested in talking to them, yet the girls were horrified by his approach.

I can't comment on aspects of this particular case but a lot of J girls are often quite chatty with foreigners. Many places over there I've been to, there are lots of school kids on excursions, and they actually hassle foreigners for conversations to practice their basic English. Being able to speak even a few words of Japanese gets them really excited. I've done tour work with J school groups in Australia and a similar pattern emerged. Naturally, I wouldn't get too close to the kids, but there were usually some older attendants with them that were fair game.

One of my favourite "adventures" was quite a few years ago when I went to Cairns for a short holiday. I'd only been there a couple of days when I met a colleague from Sydney who offered me some work, so booked up a four week stay. One day I went out on a boat cruise to the reef, and got chatted up by a couple of J OLs. I obviously scored well, because they invited me out for dinner that night. Went to a upmarket seafood place, they certainly liked their wine. Afterwards, walked them back to their hotel, they invited me in, but was wary of being compromised by two drunk girls. However we arranged to meet again the next night for something less "formal". That night, only one of the girls turned up ("my friend is sick") so we had a couple of drinks and ended up back in my room for the night. She wasn't real experienced but she went home happy the next morning. They flew out later that day, so I never saw either of them again.

A couple of days later I was in a cafe having some lunch, when this J girl wanders over to my table "do you remember me?". Ummm?. "I was a waitress in the seafood restaurant. What were you doing there with those girls?" I explained how we had met, and they invited me. "Oh, can I invite you for dinner too?" Why not?; she turned up at my room about 10 PM that night after work, we went for a couple of drinks, and I had a bed mate for the rest of my time there.

I've a few other "unbelievable" experiences with J ladies. Just gotta love them.

[hornedone]

hot Cairns weather and a few wines and those Japs are dropping their panties and ready to ride Aussie cock!

[Pleck]

That’s weird, the last few times you’ve told this story it was a threesome.



http://www.aus99forum.com/showthread.php?55524-Has-any-bro-pick-up-waitress-worksin-the-restaurant&highlight=Cairns+Japanese

Do you really believe most of the stuff you read?

[hornedone]

No doubt the Japanese
gals' boyfriends or hubbies do not satisfy them... withered small cocks with unkempt overgrown pubes... No wonder why they like hard local cock when here on vacation!