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AHLUNGOR
25-11-2019, 01:23 PM
Lots of people have started threads asking how to pick up, as there are so many variables, perhaps we should invite all the pick up gurus here to share their success stories so that all us lesser mortals can admire and learn.

However, to put things into perspective I think we should include some basic intels:

1. Venue of pick up
2. Your age range , ethnic background eg Asian, Aussie White, others
3. The girls age range and her ethnic background.

As it will be very interesting to see say a 50 year old Caucasian picking up a 20’s old Asian girl in say the Ivy?

Or a 20 something Chinese student pick up a white Milf in the casino ! No ?

Thanks for sharing !

As for myself, never tried and had No success in Australia ! Enough said , just waiting to be jealous and admire....... haha

Cheers

bevis90
25-11-2019, 02:05 PM
Of course it works, if you know how to talk to girls you can of course pick up girls

AHLUNGOR
25-11-2019, 02:13 PM
Of course it works, if you know how to talk to girls you can of course pick up girls


Thanks for replying bevis90,


As posted, I'm sure you have lots of success, that's why am asking if you can share your success stories. and if not too much trouble, your age range and the types of girls you have been picking up ? That's what I was asking for.

Cheers

liminal
25-11-2019, 03:21 PM
Lots of people have started threads asking how to pick up, as there are so many variables, perhaps we should invite all the pick up gurus here to share their success stories so that all us lesser mortals can admire and learn.

However, to put things into perspective I think we should include some basic intels:

1. Venue of pick up
2. Your age range , ethnic background eg Asian, Aussie White, others
3. The girls age range and her ethnic background.

As it will be very interesting to see say a 50 year old Caucasian picking up a 20’s old Asian girl in say the Ivy?

Or a 20 something Chinese student pick up a white Milf in the casino ! No ?

Thanks for sharing !

As for myself, never tried and had No success in Australia ! Enough said , just waiting to be jealous and admire....... haha

Cheers

Good luck getting gents here to put out their vital stats

Previously put forward a list ... no respondees

Is it coyness shame paranoia or other that is stopping the punters....

AHLUNGOR
25-11-2019, 03:52 PM
Good luck getting gents here to put out their vital stats

Previously put forward a list ... no respondees

Is it coyness shame paranoia or other that is stopping the punters....

Plenty of members have shared these infos: Like I'm white and in my 50's ! or I am Asian and in my 20's new to punting ! It's not like people's is gonna steal your identity or something...............lol

The Fonz
26-11-2019, 01:26 PM
Lots of people have started threads asking how to pick up, as there are so many variables, perhaps we should invite all the pick up gurus here to share their success stories so that all us lesser mortals can admire and learn.

However, to put things into perspective I think we should include some basic intels:

1. Venue of pick up
2. Your age range , ethnic background eg Asian, Aussie White, others
3. The girls age range and her ethnic background.

As it will be very interesting to see say a 50 year old Caucasian picking up a 20’s old Asian girl in say the Ivy?

I'm sure its been done for 50 yr olds and even older. John McAfee could walk in there and take his pick.

CountryPunter
26-11-2019, 10:52 PM
Ok, I'll share my story. Slight variation to what Bro AHLUNGOR is asking about but a pickup anyway.
I'm a cauc guy in my 50s although could get away with claiming to be mid to late 40s.
Earlier this year, through boredom and a bit of loneliness I joined a Thai dating site. After I put up a few pics had heaps of women chatting to me.
Eventually I found an Aust based Thai girl. Aged in her early 30s. So we chatted on the site for a while and then exchanged ph. nos. Shared a few photos and got to the stage we were texting quite a lot each day. Might add I only gave her my punting ph no.
Arranged to meet her in Sydney one weekend. She was a really sweet attractive girl. Took her to a football game and then out to dinner.
Did I fuck her......no. She was looking for a loving relationship and I had no intention of hurting her by just using her. I actually felt like a real jerk for letting the situation get to the stage it did.
So I stopped things before it got too serious. Told her I was too old for her, our cultures were too different, and best if we moved on. I sincerely hope she finds someone special.
My main point is, I demonstrated to myself how easy it was for a cauc guy to pick up an Asian girl on a dating site.
Not something I'm particularly proud of and I got out of that site and will never return.
So now I stick to punting and know I'm not messing with anyone's feelings.

faruk
27-11-2019, 06:33 AM
Ok, I'll share my story. Slight variation to what Bro AHLUNGOR is asking about but a pickup anyway.
I'm a cauc guy in my 50s although could get away with claiming to be mid to late 40s.
Earlier this year, through boredom and a bit of loneliness I joined a Thai dating site. After I put up a few pics had heaps of women chatting to me.
Eventually I found an Aust based Thai girl. Aged in her early 30s. So we chatted on the site for a while and then exchanged ph. nos. Shared a few photos and got to the stage we were texting quite a lot each day. Might add I only gave her my punting ph no.
Arranged to meet her in Sydney one weekend. She was a really sweet attractive girl. Took her to a football game and then out to dinner.
Did I fuck her......no. She was looking for a loving relationship and I had no intention of hurting her by just using her. I actually felt like a real jerk for letting the situation get to the stage it did.
So I stopped things before it got too serious. Told her I was too old for her, our cultures were too different, and best if we moved on. I sincerely hope she finds someone special.
My main point is, I demonstrated to myself how easy it was for a cauc guy to pick up an Asian girl on a dating site.
Not something I'm particularly proud of and I got out of that site and will never return.
So now I stick to punting and know I'm not messing with anyone's feelings.

what site is that?

AHLUNGOR
27-11-2019, 08:42 AM
Ok, I'll share my story. Slight variation to what Bro AHLUNGOR is asking about but a pickup anyway.
I'm a cauc guy in my 50s although could get away with claiming to be mid to late 40s.
Earlier this year, through boredom and a bit of loneliness I joined a Thai dating site. After I put up a few pics had heaps of women chatting to me.
Eventually I found an Aust based Thai girl. Aged in her early 30s. So we chatted on the site for a while and then exchanged ph. nos. Shared a few photos and got to the stage we were texting quite a lot each day. Might add I only gave her my punting ph no.
Arranged to meet her in Sydney one weekend. She was a really sweet attractive girl. Took her to a football game and then out to dinner.
Did I fuck her......no. She was looking for a loving relationship and I had no intention of hurting her by just using her. I actually felt like a real jerk for letting the situation get to the stage it did.
So I stopped things before it got too serious. Told her I was too old for her, our cultures were too different, and best if we moved on. I sincerely hope she finds someone special.
My main point is, I demonstrated to myself how easy it was for a cauc guy to pick up an Asian girl on a dating site.
Not something I'm particularly proud of and I got out of that site and will never return.
So now I stick to punting and know I'm not messing with anyone's feelings.

Thanks for sharing CP, you have a good heart mate , all the best to you and happy punting.

Dating site though, it’s a totally different ball games as you would started with a profile, pictures ? Which may or may not be genuine, a few texts/messages/emails ? to fish around before getting a hit/match and more exchanging or message in which certain degree of rapport and understand /or lies could be established before both parties are comfortable for the next step, meeting face to face for the first time in public places. Oh,I suppose more exchange of photos and may be even webcam before meeting ?

I think this thread and many others are talking specifically about picking up girls in public places in person , clubbing or in bars so face to face, up close and personal - no where to hire. Hence the importance of including age and ethnic background as first impression is everything in this kind of game isn’t it ? Dating sites without such contact first up in personal - very different cattle of fish.

Yeah, punting is much much easier and time and cost effective for us more matured men (and married !)

BTW, just curious, since you didn’t have sex with the Thai lady out of your good heart, did you end up going for a punt and in particular looking for a Thai fix ? I would........ haha

Cheers

CountryPunter
27-11-2019, 11:47 AM
Haha....think you and I think alike Bro AHLUNGOR. Yep, dropped the Thai girl back at her apartment, then got straight on the phone to a private Thai WL that I see quite regularly on my trips to Sydney.
Turned up at her place about 1am and stayed a couple of hrs. So yeah, drained the balls and didn't feel bad about it.
Would have felt a real arsehole if I'd put the pressure on the other girl for something she wasn't ready for.

Get the point about picking up in bars/clubs etc. I never had much luck with that. Don't have the 'gift of the gab' like some guys. Guess that's what makes punting such a good option. Get to bang hot women that I would never have a chance with in real life.
Hindsight is a wonderful thing, but if I knew then what I know now I would have lowered my expectations. Rather than chase the hottest women that all the guys are after.....go for the next level down. Those girls will be just as keen and with a bit less competition, 'average' guys like me would probably have more luck picking up.
Bit of a tip for those of you still out there looking to pick up.

doubles
27-11-2019, 02:36 PM
I am an early 50's cauc guy. Married almost 20 years but the wife has no interest in intimacy. I gave a 28 year old Chilean girl my "card" at work back in September and we have had some coffee/lunch meet-ups. The last one the good-bye hug was pretty long. She has also told me she likes to swim naked. I asked her if she wanted to go check out Cobblers Beach this Monday and she said YES. I will let you know how it goes.

ellison
27-11-2019, 02:47 PM
Nice. Well done for keeping your marriage together. Could I suggest you remove all the evidence. Take a photo of her card then throw it out from your wallet.
Tell her your mobile is a work phone, so not to send inappropriate texts
Keep all texts to a minimum, keep them innocent. Its tempting to send naughty texts or photos but dont do this if your partner or family access or open your phone. Ring each other to leave no traces. Delete non work related texts and call logs. Rename her contact name on your phone to 'John' or another man's name

liminal
27-11-2019, 03:19 PM
Yes more manageable to say hunny I swing both ways , when she finds the Last text from ‘john’

aussiegaigin
27-11-2019, 03:56 PM
I worked in the Japanese tourism industry for around 20 years 1980-90s. Had access to thousands of girls during that time, so easy to pick them up (think "fish in barrel"). Girls working locally on short term visas, tour escorts coming in for a few days, even the occasional tourist. 20-30 age gap didn't seem to bother them. I got lots of referrals.

Even 5 years ago, met this Asian chick at a trade function. Turns out she was J born K girl, worked in local government in Japan. She had a posting to Sydney for a couple of years, and I quickly got her lined up for a date. She was married and her husband visited every couple of months for a weekend of shagging. We had dinner and a few drinks, and we soon ended up at her place. She was quite voracious, and I got invited back for a repeat but I let her go after that.

liminal
27-11-2019, 04:22 PM
what site is that?

Most likely Thai Friendly

YI88
27-11-2019, 04:29 PM
She has also told me she likes to swim naked. I asked her if she wanted to go check out Cobblers Beach this Monday and she said YES. I will let you know how it goes. I have done that a few times. Once you have swum naked there is no going back. BUT public nudity or bushwalking skinny-dipping are not arousing. They say you never see a boner in a nudist colony.
Then again you might get lucky. A Filipina I was seeing got bored with nude beach good behavior and hauled me off to a slightly quieter spot among the rocks. I must say the risk made it a great fuck. Another time we wriggled a few metres under the bitou bush. We were hard at it while watching the feet and ankles of beach goers passing down the only clear track.

ellison
27-11-2019, 06:20 PM
I never picked up.a woman at a beach, but taking a lady to a beach is a great way to get close to her. Finding a beach with a secluded area is definitely an aphrodisiac. Many women love the idea of love by the water. Just need a sunny afternoon, not many people around, a beautiful view, a bit of hand holding, and it often progresses naturally
By the second date by the water, good things often happen. Much better than taking her to a movie. In my experience, if she is agreeing to go to the beach more than once, thats a very good sign

ellison
27-11-2019, 06:26 PM
I worked in the Japanese tourism industry for around 20 years 1980-90s. Had access to thousands of girls during that time, so easy to pick them up (think "fish in barrel"). Girls working locally on short term visas, tour escorts coming in for a few days, even the occasional tourist. 20-30 age gap didn't seem to bother them. I got lots of referrals.

Even 5 years ago, met this Asian chick at a trade function. Turns out she was J born K girl, worked in local government in Japan. She had a posting to Sydney for a couple of years, and I quickly got her lined up for a date. She was married and her husband visited every couple of months for a weekend of shagging. We had dinner and a few drinks, and we soon ended up at her place. She was quite voracious, and I got invited back for a repeat but I let her go after that.

You must have had a great life in those days
I need to retrain in tourism

aussiegaigin
27-11-2019, 06:33 PM
You must have had a great life in those days

When I think back on some of the things that happened, I don't believe it. I can understand if others don't. And to think I was getting paid for it hee hee.

ellison
27-11-2019, 06:34 PM
Ive dated a voracious Japanese lady and never have had another lady who loves sex so much. A few Thai girls came close and would go further though

asiafever
27-11-2019, 07:30 PM
I'll post some successes and horrendous failures from my many years experience.
Age: Approx 16. Saw a blonde hottie out in the surf, thinking quickly I got a mate to give me one of his ciggies (I don't smoke) and grabbed my surf board and paddled out to her. Bobbing around in the fairly tame surf I turned to her with a damp, flaccid cigarette poking out of my mouth and said "Excuse me, you got a light?". Girl burst out laughing and conversation immediately was off to a flying start. Girl commented "THAT was original!" Succes rating, 8/10. We agreed to meet up that night, a few underage drinks and a good old fashioned pash session but no more.

Age: 24ish. I was out at a pub and the song Stacie's mum was playing, as it was popular at the time. A friend introduces me to her friend Stacie. Foolishly I thought it would be funny to comment on the song "Stacie, lovely to meet you, apparently your mum has got it going on."
"Actually she's dead..."
"Oooohhhhhhh..."
...
In the distance a cricket chirped, a baby cried, a glass dropped.. Finally I said "It was lovely to meet you, I'm going to go and flush my face down the toilet.."
Success rating: 5/10. I drove her home because I felt like an utter cunt, but got a little kiss session in the car out of it but no more as she was going away to London later that week. To add insult to injury the gods of Karma gave me a flat tyre on my way home.

Age: 27. I had been at a mates birthday all day and was absolutely rooted. We were at a bar in the City. Suddenly I saw this hot Asian girl. My energy levels immediately spiked and I walked over to her. "Hi, my name is (name) what's yours?"
"(Insert name)"
"Lovely to meet you ...., I hope you don't mind me saying, you are by far the most beautiful girl I remember seeing anywhere, ever, I had to come over and speak to you and find out your name."
"Oh come on, that's way too corny!"
"Nope. The absolute truth. Thank you (name) I hope you have a lovely evening." Went to walk away..
"Here.(Reaches in to bag). Take my card. Maybe we can have coffee some time?"
"That would be lovely.."
Success rating. 10/10. We married 1 year later, and while that marriage later went to total shit and we separated, it gave me my daughter so...

I could add dozens of success stories of pick ups at bars, clubs etc that ended in either relationships or sex, they were all pretty standard "Hi, how are you?" Or random conversations started..

ellison
27-11-2019, 07:51 PM
Age: 27. I had been at a mates birthday all day and was absolutely rooted. We were at a bar in the City. Suddenly I saw this hot Asian girl. My energy levels immediately spiked and I walked over to her. "Hi, my name is (name) what's yours?"
"(Insert name)"
"Lovely to meet you ...., I hope you don't mind me saying, you are by far the most beautiful girl I remember seeing anywhere, ever, I had to come over and speak to you and find out your name."
"Oh come on, that's way too corny!"
"Nope. The absolute truth. Thank you (name) I hope you have a lovely evening." Went to walk away..
"Here.(Reaches in to bag). Take my card. Maybe we can have coffee some time?"
"That would be lovely.."
Success rating. 10/10. We married 1 year later, and while that marriage later went to total shit and we separated, it gave me my daughter so...

Thanks for sharing your interesting stories.
Im still coming to terms with my ex relationships. Is there any way to avoid the drain on relationships once children come along?

asiafever
27-11-2019, 08:02 PM
Thanks for sharing your interesting stories.
Im still coming to terms with my ex relationships. Is there any way to avoid the drain on relationships once children come along?

Probably not the right person to ask that one. Our r'ship went in to sharp decline after our kid was born, and I'm still single some 10 years afyer we split. Have had a few relationships in the interim, only 1 or 2 I would consider serious. Everyone is different I guess, some relationships get stronger after kids, mine didn't.

asiafever
27-11-2019, 08:17 PM
As for my failures, there were plenty, and some were glorious while others were brutal. In the end, we are all just a bunch of cells trying to communicate with another bunch of cells. Don't over think It, don't act desperate. If you can make a girl laugh, that's good. If you can make a girl smile, that's better.

RoyalFlush
27-11-2019, 09:16 PM
God F damn, I just had dinner at Pepper Lunch on George St 10 mins ago. Sat beside 2 cute girls. One had bull ring on her nose, the second one is much hotter, looked korean.
The ring nose girl commented in my direction, "he is shy". I look behind and it was just a glass window. Second time, she looked at me again. I smiled back this time. Ask them what did they order? Both were super warm. The prettier one was more engaging.
Then they pretty much had to leave straightaway, I was contemplating whether to go out and get their number, after 30sec, I left my food to find them, but they were nowhere to be found. God damn, I'm gonna slap myself later for being a pussy and indecisive.
Right, success stories. Will post something soon, stay tight.

ellison
27-11-2019, 09:18 PM
God F damn, I just had dinner at Pepper Lunch on George St 10 mins ago. Sat beside 2 cute girls. One had bull ring on her nose, the second one is much hotter, looked korean.
The ring nose girl commented in my direction, "he is shy". I look behind and it was just a glass window. Second time, she looked at me again. I smiled back this time. Ask them what did they order? Both were super warm. The prettier one was more engaging.
Then they pretty much had to leave straightaway, I was contemplating whether to go out and get their number, after 30sec, I left my food to find them, but they were nowhere to be found. God damn, I'm gonna slap myself later!
Right, success stories. Will post something soon, stay tight.

Nice story. Were they uni students or office workers?

RoyalFlush
27-11-2019, 09:24 PM
No idea, it was a brief chat. But that ring girl certainly was looking for a dick. Oi movie time.. ttyl !

ellison
27-11-2019, 09:26 PM
No idea, it was a brief chat. But that ring girl certainly was looking for a dick. Oi movie time.. ttyl !
Your story is very interesting. You must be a good looking guy. These opportunities dont come often. You need to maintain a positive mindset and have a few ready conversations to turn to. The main issue is always when you have 2 women, one feels left out, and how do you ask for the phone number of the hot one without upsetting the other lady

YI88
27-11-2019, 09:31 PM
The main issue is always when you have 2 women, one feels left out, and how do you ask for the phone number of the hot one without upsetting the other lady
Get both numbers. The hard part is remembering which one is which when you feel like making a call.

Peterpecker
28-11-2019, 12:31 AM
Came close a few weeks ago. Randwick pub. Watching the Rugby. Got chatting to a late 20s Auustralian woman who is a keen fan. It was all looking good, hair pruning, where are you staying etc etc, until her very loud sister from Canberra turned up....

RoyalFlush
28-11-2019, 01:12 AM
Location: Event Cinema George St

I approached a J girl and asked if she is here today to watch a Jap Film Festival movie. She said yes and we talked a bit about J movies. I told her I am watching something else, but I asked her if we could catch up a bit later for dinner today if she was free. She said she got something on, but happy leave a raincheck by giving me her number. Below is our first text messages. She is a "semi-" ABJ, so her English is good.
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Date location: Yakiniku Yokocho (Jap BBQ), 6pm

At the first moment of meeting her, I hugged her very tightly (To test softness of her breast, as I am a certified breast tester). I caught her smiling after we parted. I ordered the first few dishes, and told her to order the last few ones that she liked. It was a touch screen pad, before she makes her selection, I guided her hand to touch the screen. We spoke about our work and as mentioned before in one of my previous posts, I made a sexual remark about mayonnaise and creampies. After dinner, I asked her if she would like to go and walk a bit, to digest the food. We walked towards darling square. At the traffic light, I found another opportunity to hold her hand; while the red light is flickering, I held her hand and we ran across the road. We got ice-cream afterwards.

After ice-cream, I asked her if she liked to eat mangoes. She said she likes mangoes, durian, rambutan etc. So I asked her if she would like to come to my house to eat mangoes as I have lots of it. She agreed. We walked back to my car and drove home.

At my home, I asked her to take off her shoes and wash her hands. I never wash my own hands when I get home, but this time, I guided her to the basin, and I helped her washed her hands. I told her hygiene is very important. I asked her if she could help me cut some lemons, we are going to make some lemon lime bitters. We took the drink and went back to the sofa to play God of War on PS4 (not really). As she was drinking the lemon lime bitters halfway, I told her to put down the drink. She said "What?" So I help her put down the drink by leaning my whole body across hers and started kissing her neck afterwards. Here comes the shit talk..

She: This is too fast. I am not ready for this
Me: Things can happen very fast

She: I have period
Me: No problem, I dont mind. I can part red seas.
She: we might get infection
Me: Really? Can we fuck first and Google that later?

She: I didn't expect this to happen.
Me: It is happening now, just enjoy it and let me do the man's job

So I am playing with her clit, stripping her down, sucking her tits while she continue to protest. About 30mins later, I took her to the bedroom and seal the deal.

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I am meeting her again next Tuesday.

RoyalFlush
28-11-2019, 01:38 AM
The main issue is always when you have 2 women, one feels left out, and how do you ask for the phone number of the hot one without upsetting the other lady

I came across this issue a few times. I reckon the strategy is during conversation, you gauge which girl is more warm to you and you steer the conversation to the warmer girl 70-30% so as to not make it too obvious, then get her contact afterwards. My sense is telling me to get one of their numbers, not both. Otherwise, you won't get any because they might think you are too player, which can work against you.

Best way to find out is to put the hypothesis into test!

faruk
28-11-2019, 06:16 AM
I am meeting her again next Tuesday.

Aren't you married bro?

ellison
28-11-2019, 06:36 AM
I came across this issue a few times. I reckon the strategy is during conversation, you gauge which girl is more warm to you and you steer the conversation to the warmer girl 70-30% so as to not make it too obvious, then get her contact afterwards. My sense is telling me to get one of their numbers, not both. Otherwise, you won't get any because they might think you are too player, which can work against you.

Best way to find out is to put the hypothesis into test!

Its interesting you dont give the more attractive woman your number. I agree its best to only get one number so you dont look like a serial number collector. And get her number, not just hand out yours. She is more likely to be interested if you have worked to get her number

So the J girl didnt have period? Whats parting the red sea mean (literal not biblical)?

From all the texts it looks like she was keen - you invite her to your home and she is happy

Dettol
28-11-2019, 07:13 AM
“So I am playing with her clit, stripping her down, sucking her tits while she continue to protest. About 30mins later, I took her to the bedroom and seal the deal.”

^ Ay, is it just me that thinks this is rape ?

AHLUNGOR
28-11-2019, 09:03 AM
Aren't you married bro?

Mate , he obviously is single if he can take the girl back home to eat his man go......... haha

AHLUNGOR
28-11-2019, 09:05 AM
Thanks for sharing that brother RoyalFlush!

That’s exactly the story I was looking for, good on you mate, I wish I was single and young again !

So, You are a certified Breasts tester............. same here........ haha

Cheers

faruk
28-11-2019, 10:10 AM
“So I am playing with her clit, stripping her down, sucking her tits while she continue to protest. About 30mins later, I took her to the bedroom and seal the deal.”

^ Ay, is it just me that thinks this is rape ?

Not in 1990.

Yes in 2019.

faruk
28-11-2019, 10:11 AM
Mate , he obviously is single if he can take the girl back home to eat his man go......... haha

Or a good story teller bro

AHLUNGOR
28-11-2019, 11:42 AM
Aren't you married bro?

Actually , you could be right there. I went back to have a look see, RF did say he’s getting married a few years back, may be it did or didn’t happen?

Good reading on this occasion just the same !

We are looking for punting related entertainment here, and that’s entertainment to me. So take it easy every one .

Cheers

RoyalFlush
28-11-2019, 12:00 PM
I can remember what I wrote 9-10 years ago when I first joined this forum. Naturally, I remember what I wrote a couple of months ago about my marital status. Yes I am married but it's a complicated affair and we are currently living separately at the moment.
Only 2 types of girls can possibly lock me down. It is not the good, pretty housewife that I have now, but either a girl in the top 1-5%, CEO or business owner level, or the female version of me. All other girls are no challenge to me. I have met the first and got dumped by the second, these 2 girls have profound effect on me. It's fucking complicated, it's hard to explain and I have no interest to explain to anyone. Neyo's song "Miss Independent" best describe it!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k6M5C-oKw9k

And I know exactly what kind of man I eventually I want to become. I am far from reaching there yet, but I am working towards it.

F0x
28-11-2019, 12:38 PM
*waiting for admins to rename this site to Pickup99*

Dettol
28-11-2019, 01:42 PM
Not in 1990.

Yes in 2019.
Wait , what?

*looks at your username*

Oh, nevermind. Carry on.

ellison
28-11-2019, 02:15 PM
Its always fun on these threads, waiting for the first person to lay judgement. We are all here to learn and support.

For some men punting keeps marriages together, and quite a few guys on here tell me their wives agree they just dont want sex anymore

Generalisations, but men love sex well into their 60s - 70s. Its a direct measure of their potency. Money and security are important but not fulfilling on their own. Women will often settle for security and family, and thats job well done for them in 90% of cases

Im trying to work out what lady I want to stay with longterm.
The main reason for long term relationships is to raise children, not necessarily to have a sexually compatible long term relationship

We would all love a lady with lots of money, nice body, who will never lose interest in sex. But its hard to predict a womans likely long term desire

My instinct is to find an intelligent lady, who looks up to me, and I can sense she has a long term need to pamper her partner. I obviously would look up to her as well, if she has those right qualities.
Many intelligent women unfortunately wont look up to you after a certain time, this is an issue.

Unfortunately, maybe 20% of couples, if that, are good matches for each other. Am I too pessimistic?

faruk
28-11-2019, 02:19 PM
Its always fun on these threads, waiting for the first person to lay judgement. We are all hear to learn and support.

For some men punting keeps marriages together, and quite a few guys on here tell me their wives agree they just dont want sex anymore

Generalisations, but men love sex well into their 60s - 70s. Its a direct measure of their potency. Money and security are important but not fulfilling on their own. Women will often settle for security and family, and thats job well done for them in 90% of cases

Im trying to work out what lady I want to stay with longterm.
The main reason for long term relationships is to raise children, not necessarily to have a sexually compatible long term relationship

We would all love a lady with lots of money, nice body, who will never lose interest in sex. But its hard to predict a womans likely long term desire

My instinct is to find an intelligent lady, who looks up to me, and I can sense she has a long term need to pamper her partner. I obviously would look up to her as well, if she has those right qualities.
Many intelligent women unfortunately wont look up to you after a certain time, this is an issue.

Unfortunately, maybe 20% of couples, if that, are good matches for each other. Am I too pessimistic?

No judgment here, I was pointing it out because the story would be unbelievable if he was married (taking a girl home)

YI88
03-12-2019, 08:56 PM
Location: Event Cinema George St

I approached a J girl ... 68944

I am meeting her again next Tuesday.
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YI88
03-12-2019, 09:00 PM
... Cobblers Beach this Monday and she said YES. I will let you know how it goes.
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