What are your ML dating experiences

[jump4life]

what are your experiences in dating a ML?
Have anyone ever have a successful relationship with one.

[aussiegaigin]

Do a search for dating. Hundreds of suggestions in multiple posts on this topic.

[woods23]

Where is BC? His going to kill( fck) some one soon:fire:

[Riff888]

Not this topic again.

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[Budgyboy]

Why do you want to know jump? Are you considering it?

[AHLUNGOR]

Not this topic again.

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Interesting thing is, the OP is not a newbie, he’s been around since 2013 !

[aussiegaigin]

Interesting thing is, the OP is not a newbie, he’s been around since 2013 !

And only 3 posts, all questions

[jump4life]

Interesting thing is, the OP is not a newbie, he’s been around since 2013 !

Hahaha. Yeah been on this forum for ages but now I feel like I had fallen for a ml so I'm just wondering what's it like. Told myself these years not to get myself into this mess but can't help it with this 1.

[PervySage]

Hahaha. Yeah been on this forum for ages but now I feel like I had fallen for a ml so I'm just wondering what's it like. Told myself these years not to get myself into this mess but can't help it with this 1.

There is lots of material on the forum I think a thread with this topic or similar comes up every couple of months.

I have not dated an ML, but got close to a couple I suppose. Here are some thoughts on the topic.

Firstly I think if you treat ML as a genuine person then you will definitely see a different aspect to them, such as their problems, why they are doing this job etc are you prepared for that ?

Almost all threads in forum on this topic will warn you of the various dangers Of dating An ML or WL. Things like most successful ML are probably getting asked out a lot, by people who are wealthy etc, they will have contacts of guys who exist in all sorts of parts of society...and in the room who knows what is going on?

so can you handle all of the things which is in the life of an ML?

Regardless of age most experienced MLs have learnt to read & manipulate guys far more then compared to a relationship with a “normal” girl

Also are you looking for a genuine friendship / relationship or thinking this is going to lead to free sex ?

And if it goes far enough, what next? Will you sponsor her ? Etc etc


And yeh... write some ARs !!!

[halfway]

I have plenty of experience,

My dates tend to last 45 mins - 1hr and I spend between $110 and $200 on them each time.

I would say that 95 % of the time I'm happy with my date. :love:

[mikael66]

Expensive dating ML/WL. Gonna cost you at least >$500 for the each date alone. Maybe more if you go to shopping. lol.

[Raybo]

Hahaha. Yeah been on this forum for ages but now I feel like I had fallen for a ml so I'm just wondering what's it like. Told myself these years not to get myself into this mess but can't help it with this 1.

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Sounds like you already know what you should do.

[Budgyboy]

I'm with Raybo run and keep running, $$ is all their after off you.

[yug]

And the reality is all these advice will go over his head because his head is cloudy at the moment.
Dead giveaway is this statement:


... but can't help it with this 1.

Get ready for heartache, loss of cold hard cash, emotional distress, and eventually plenty of regrets.
And in the end, you will be another sob stories in million others.

I am sure someone is gonna step up and say encouraging words like: "They are humans too"
That's exactly what is wrong about it. We humans are messed up and you are about to go camping in the territories of most messed-up people with excess baggage as far as eye can see.
What do you think will happen?

Another classic I usually hear: "You only live once bro"
Yeah, all the more reason NOT to go into something that will waste your time and make you come out all bitter in the other end.
You only live once so live it right.

[Bunty4]

Mate....if you are ready to stop imagining what your ML is doing with other punters or vice versa then that is step 1. MLs have very complex emotions and are in extremes. Too many people have intimate contact with them and leave them with extreme emotion swing. Of course you will loose a lot of cash which you could use for other punts....but when one feels like you are currently nothing matters. Make sure you feel no regret when it all ends.

I wish people on this forum named their MLs who they have been burnt with or who they are chasing...we will all then know how many are dating same ML at one time.

[B J Hunter]

The odds of success are slim, I’m sure there’s the odd punter or 2 that may have made it through. But as a gambling man the odds are not in your favour. All the advice from bros who have been there or know someone who has is “just don’t do it”. It will end in tears and they won’t belong to the wl/ml. Yep I’m sure plenty of us have thought she’s the one, I wouldn’t mind hooking up on a personal level outside of the (rnt) office, think about the free sex. Like a lot of punters have said, that free sex will end up costing way more than a once or twice a week visit to the rnt shop in the long run when she inevitably disappears without a word one day for another ‘lucky’ punter just like you and your left in heartache with your psychologist/ councillor bills.
Keep it simple and keep the fun at the rnt shop. She may be a great chick, but man you gotta listen to your big head and not Your little head on this one!

[cuteguy]

I'm with Raybo run and keep running, $$ is all their after off you.

Best advice.:shout:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-uovgVEBa-A

[asiafever]

By now you have probably already made up your mind one way or another, and you already hinted that you weren't really asking, more like telling what you were going to do.
Having said that, let me add to the chorus in advising you against the venture.
Speaking from experience, yes there can be good times, happiness, even love, but invariably it all comes crashing down in a steaming pile of shit. The last time for me left me totally devastated, and quite cynical, but I learned my lesson and have since changed my punting routines entirely. They say experience is a harsh teacher, but fools learn from no other..

So, in short, don't do it to yourself.

But I have a feeling you already have, in which case, good luck to you sir, I sincerely hope it works out and proves us all wrong.

[ML_Lover]

Just to put a different viewpoint...

I’ve casually dated 5 ML’s over the last 2 years - including 2 famous / highly popular ones on this forum. None have ever asked for anything significant - Only the current one has asked for money - just $100/night (just a token amount as “I am not her real boyfriend’.)

As long as you treat it like an adventure rather than true love, it’s a lot of fun. I’m an older guy, so sitting on the beach / park / bar with a hot 20 something is great fun. Sure they dump you after a while (typically 3-4 months with me) but hey, there’s always more ML’s to hunt...

[asiafever]

Just to put a different viewpoint...

I’ve casually dated 5 ML’s over the last 2 years - including 2 famous / highly popular ones on this forum. None have ever asked for anything significant - Only the current one has asked for money - just $100/night (just a token amount as “I am not her real boyfriend’.)

As long as you treat it like an adventure rather than true love, it’s a lot of fun. I’m an older guy, so sitting on the beach / park / bar with a hot 20 something is great fun. Sure they dump you after a while (typically 3-4 months with me) but hey, there’s always more ML’s to hunt...

Casually is the key word here for sure. If you both treat it as such then all should be ok. As soon as emotions get involved, from either party, that's when in my experience it gets messy.
I'll agree I've only been asked for money once, and only had one other girl who expected me to pay for every thing, but that was cultural rather than typical stereotypes of ml's.
But I detected emotions in the OP hence my advice on the negative.

[hornedone]

Do they tease you on dates? Under table antics at restaurants?

[AHLUNGOR]

anyone noticed that the OP has not responded since Xmas ??

[B J Hunter]

Maybe the OP has been too busy staking out 20 shops a day since Xmas looking for his now missing ML.
Love can be so cruel.

[chemistry84]

anyone noticed that the OP has not responded since Xmas ??

Either he's fucking them or he's been fucked and kidnapped and his bank cards/cc are all maxed out.

[Raybo]

Seen a WL I know well today meeting a much older, reasonably distinguished looking gentleman. It was a date. I am pretty sure she seen me but I tried my best to ignore it and even turned away so she could not see me properly. Interestingly I know she is going home for good this year.......unless she can get herself a PR through marriage!

[annintofu]

i never dated any ML, but got close to 5 (exchanged contacts and met outside shop etc.)

except for the first ML, when i was totally inexperienced in this game, i never had any illusion of winning their hearts.

The first one taught me a cold lesson: saw the girl 5 times in all, knew her real name and phone#, yet she left the shop without even bothering to tell me. When i searched and found her social media postings, i quickly realized the huge gap between us and the absurdity of falling fot her.

the 4th one actually liked me a lot, and pretty much said she's willing to waitfor me. I told her it's going to be a long process. we still keep in touch.

the 2nd, 3rd, i should have been less emotional and saved money for the real deal.

the fifth, i wish i'd savored her body more than her mind.

should i have the good fortune to meet another ML that is GF material, i'll definely spend more time to enjoy her body rather than talking Talk is cheap

[Basil22]

See my first post upon joining this forum, and my most recent one, for how hard it is to learn the lesson to not fall for a ML/WL. Haha, no but seriously, first time around I learnt a lot and the relationship very well could have succeeded, were it not for some extenuating circumstances for both of us... the philosophical question that I've often grappled with is whether there would ALWAYS be extenuating circumstances of some sort in these relationships, or whether it might have worked with this one if we fought for it. I usually come back to no.

I learnt a lot from the first time, but around mid last year I caught feels again for an ML after swearing I wouldn't. After a few shitty weeks for me, we are now pretty good friends, texting often but with clear boundaries - that she set. I am in a relationship (same as before), but if this was 4 years ago I probably would've ended up fighting harder to get her - I am pretty certain if I did then it would've ended the same way as last time. Having said that, I would've had 6-12 months of a really good time!!

The major difference this time around, is that whilst I acknowledged the feelings, I didn't really energise them all that much. Sure there were some sleepless nights but I never really considered leaving my relationship as I did the first time. If anything it made me philosophise about why I do this to myself haha

The fact that so many people engage with this question despite its frequent occurrence on the forum, means that we are not all as depraved and unfeeling as BC, fucking BB in Western Sydney brothels and never giving a second thought :shout: Ehehe, just jokes but it's obvious to me that a lot of us (including myself) are sensitive guys and easily find ourselves in prickly situations with working girls.

There's no teacher as good as experience, so I say go for it but be prepared that it may end in heartbreak for you! I don't think it's about being 'burnt' by the girl so much as the difficulty in making these relationships work long term.

Yew, go forth and let us know how it goes

[eepee]

See my first post upon joining this forum, and my most recent one, for how hard it is to learn the lesson to not fall for a ML/WL. Haha, no but seriously, first time around I learnt a lot and the relationship very well could have succeeded, were it not for some extenuating circumstances for both of us... the philosophical question that I've often grappled with is whether there would ALWAYS be extenuating circumstances of some sort in these relationships, or whether it might have worked with this one if we fought for it. I usually come back to no.

I learnt a lot from the first time, but around mid last year I caught feels again for an ML after swearing I wouldn't. After a few shitty weeks for me, we are now pretty good friends, texting often but with clear boundaries - that she set. I am in a relationship (same as before), but if this was 4 years ago I probably would've ended up fighting harder to get her - I am pretty certain if I did then it would've ended the same way as last time. Having said that, I would've had 6-12 months of a really good time!!

The major difference this time around, is that whilst I acknowledged the feelings, I didn't really energise them all that much. Sure there were some sleepless nights but I never really considered leaving my relationship as I did the first time. If anything it made me philosophise about why I do this to myself haha

The fact that so many people engage with this question despite its frequent occurrence on the forum, means that we are not all as depraved and unfeeling as BC, fucking BB in Western Sydney brothels and never giving a second thought :shout: Ehehe, just jokes but it's obvious to me that a lot of us (including myself) are sensitive guys and easily find ourselves in prickly situations with working girls.

There's no teacher as good as experience, so I say go for it but be prepared that it may end in heartbreak for you! I don't think it's about being 'burnt' by the girl so much as the difficulty in making these relationships work long term.

Yew, go forth and let us know how it goes

Thanks for the wise words. Hitting a similar situation myself at the moment.
My first one this bad really. Should be interesting to see how it goes.....:cry:

[Blayr]

I have dated a couple. The first one was an indonesian WL in Bali. She wanted me to marry her and leave my then "real" girlfriend. Long story short. It did not end well. Second one thai ML. I really liked her but she went back to her hometown Ubon Ratchatani and got married with local thai man and then we lost contact. I usually like chicks with dark exotic skin but now my taste has change a little bit and I am into this young chinese wl. I found that her shyness and soft voice very cute and appealing.

[F0x]

Saw a rather pudgy, bland faced cacausian bloke, who basically looked like he still lived with his mum and arranged his childhood action figures in meticulous pornographic poses in his free time, who was lugging around luggage for this tight bodied, ample perky titted asian lass, with black shoulder length hair in Cleopatra style, glasses, red lipstick, black tights on, midriff showing black sleeveless top.

Was difficult to stop checking her cleavage out as she went up the stairs (her and catch of the day was behind me) it wasnt half obvious since I had to turn back everytime lol. But managed to pull it off because the dude was tailgating me so hard he could probably have given me DD (think he didnt realise because he couldnt see past the lugagge) so I just pretended to keep an eye on him 😂

I chuckled, no way this cant be an example of one this forums favourite questions.

😁

[PervySage]

ample perky titted asian lass, with black shoulder length hair in Cleopatra style, glasses, red lipstick, black tights on, midriff showing black sleeveless top.
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Wow such Poetry...😁