Marrying WL/ML

[Nx8888]

Hi all this is my first post here and the first time I have ever told anyone. I have recently divorced my wife of 7 years who use to be a ML, and we have 2 beautiful kids together. Just want to see how many punters actually have married a ML/WL like me. Not just dating

[wilisno]

Curse of the 7 year’s itch ? ;) ;) ;)

[Climax598]

Some of us may have married a WL/ML we don't even know. This can happen if the girl don't tell you.

[aussiegaigin]

There a quite a few past posts in this section about dating WGs with experiences and theories to compare.

Might be hard to find them from the index, try searching for terms like "dating" and "relationships", "marry/marriage", etc

[Nx8888]

There a quite a few past posts in this section about dating WGs with experiences and theories to compare.

Might be hard to find them from the index, try searching for terms like "dating" and "relationships", "marry/marriage", etc

There are a lots of post on dating but nothing on marriage. I just want to see who else jumped in on the deep end like me. Fyi I met her in the shop so knew what I was in for. It was good while it lasted but didn't workout at the end...

[liminal]

Hi all this is my first post here. I have recently divorced my wife of 7 years who use to be a ML, and we have 2 beautiful kids together. Just want to see how many punters have married a ML/WL? Please share....

Should I/we be laughing collective asses off or commiserating

LOL

so you had 7 years bliss 2 lovely kids and you’re seeking .. what ?

[Nx8888]

Should I/we be laughing collective asses off or commiserating

LOL

so you had 7 years bliss 2 lovely kids and you’re seeking .. what ?

Why do u have to laugh at me? it's the first time I share my experience. Obviously I have never told any friends and family even until now. All I'm seeking is for common ground and letting things off my chest. I rather u not comment if you have nothing good to say.

[aussiegaigin]

There are a lots of post on dating but nothing on marriage. I just want to see who else jumped in on the deep end like me. Fyi I met her in the shop so knew what I was in for. It was good while it lasted but didn't workout at the end...

a lot of marriages end within seven years. Was her past life something that contributed to yours? Or was this unrelated?

[sporty32]

There are a lots of post on dating but nothing on marriage. I just want to see who else jumped in on the deep end like me. Fyi I met her in the shop so knew what I was in for. It was good while it lasted but didn't workout at the end...

The important thing is to admit that it was great while it lasted. You carry it inside you as a positive thing! congratulations for having that attitude!

[didaswiwaw]

Pretty sure lots of girl who used to be ML/WL don't tell their partner about their past. So some of us might marrying one without knowing.

[Brothelcreeper]

Hi all this is my first post here. I have recently divorced my wife of 7 years who use to be a ML, and we have 2 beautiful kids together. Just want to see how many punters have married a ML/WL? Please share....

Some more info please.

Was she a ML before you met her ?

Did she continue to work after you got married ?

If so how do you deal with it in your mind ?

Why did you split ?

[Nx8888]

a lot of marriages end within seven years. Was her past life something that contributed to yours? Or was this unrelated?

Unrelated fortunately

[Nx8888]

Some more info please.

Was she a ML before you met her ?

Did she continue to work after you got married ?

If so how do you deal with it in your mind ?

Why did you split ?

I met her in the shop and couple months after we started dating she quit her job. Everything was like a normal marrige and the split was unrelated. The only thing I can say from experience is these girls who do these job either come from a bad or poor family and are not the smartest cookie, so the relationship come with a lot baggage.

[Climax598]

Most of WLs in Australia end up marrying their customers...
How do you know? Are you one of them?

[exstar]

Tried to PM you but can’t seem to

[Nx8888]

Tried to PM you but can’t seem to

I think because I'm new, I don't have private message yet.

[Raybo]

Well here I go again on my own, going down the only road I've ever known......

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=WyF8RHM1OCg

And I've made up my mind, I am wasting all my time, but here I go again! 🤣🤣😣

[asiafever]

Well here I go again on my own, going down the ever road I ever known......

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=WyF8RHM1OCg

And I've made up my mind, I am wasting all my time, but here I go again! ������

Cause I know what it meeeeeeans
To walk along
The lonely streeeeet of dreeeeeeeeeaaaaams

[doctorspock]

You are fully aware of her past and has accepted her as the way she is. Not as if you found out later, so her past should not be an issue unless you are haunted by the fact of her past then you are the problem then? Was she a ml (with extras part 2 or 3) or wl. How long has she worked in the industry for. What was the main cause of the divorce? 💰 or she cheated on you. Your info might educate dudes here who might be thinking of marrying one.

[Midnight_Prowl]

There is no different to marrying wl/ml to any other female. We r all same human being.
Its just experience will be different.

[Nx8888]

Most of WLs in Australia end up marrying their customers...

If they want visa that's the only way to get it

[Nx8888]

You are fully aware of her past and has accepted her as the way she is. Not as if you found out later, so her past should not be an issue unless you are haunted by the fact of her past then you are the problem then? Was she a ml (with extras part 2 or 3) or wl. How long has she worked in the industry for. What was the main cause of the divorce? �� or she cheated on you. Your info might educate dudes here who might be thinking of marrying one.

I was her customer she was ML nude hand job no sex, I don't think I can marry a full WL!! She quit soon after we start dating. The split isn't directly related to her past. Just as I said above these girls do comes with a lots of baggage which I had to work through when we got married, they usually come from poor or bad family. I had to spend a lot of money to make everything work. I think dating is fine but I wouldn't recommend going the whole way like me lol

[Blayr]

A friend of mine married a chinese wl. He was her regular customer. She stopped working after they dated. I haven't had contact with him for years so i don't know if they're still together. One thing i noticed back then his wife had complete control over his blackberry. I messaged him late friday night to hangout and he told me the next day his wife read the message and wouldn't allow him to go.

[Dettol]

That’s real deep.

[asiafever]

You seem at peace with the whole thing, which is good.
Married? No.
Loved? Yes, and though I do not believe in fate, it would just seem that the universe has decided it was not meant to be. We dated (12 years ago..) we broke up for varying reasons with a promise to revisit once the stars aligned, each time we got together something prevented it from happening, she moved home 2 years ago, earlier this year she planned to come back for an extended visit, covid put an end to that. That's just the way it goes I guess. Life goes on.

[CharlieM]

A friend of mine married a chinese wl. He was her regular customer. She stopped working after they dated. I haven't had contact with him for years so i don't know if they're still together. One thing i noticed back then his wife had complete control over his blackberry. I messaged him late friday night to hangout and he told me the next day his wife read the message and wouldn't allow him to go.

It works both ways...your mate met his wife while punting. Every time he leaves their home his wife would be paranoid that he's gone punting...especially out drinking with a mate. He wouldn't be as paranoid as she is, as a she was a WL to make a living.

And as far as married bliss for 7 years goes...I can imagine that it was lucky if the bliss was for 5 years and the last 2 years a living hell. Anyone been in a long term relationship would know. Its not like you wake up one morning and its divorce. It can be years of fighting and just not wanting to be there, and hence a relief when it's all over

[Nx8888]

It works both ways...your mate met his wife while punting. Every time he leaves their home his wife would be paranoid that he's gone punting...especially out drinking with a mate. He wouldn't be as paranoid as she is, as a she was a WL to make a living.

And as far as married bliss for 7 years goes...I can imagine that it was lucky if the bliss was for 5 years and the last 2 years a living hell. Anyone been in a long term relationship would know. Its not like you wake up one morning and its divorce. It can be years of fighting and just not wanting to be there, and hence a relief when it's all over

Spot on!! If wasn't for the kids we would have split few years ago.

[tpol]

So would the ex-WL/ML, when they get a bf who is non the wiser, do the girls pretend they know nothing around a male's body in terms of pleasure... would they one time be so horny that the old 'experience' comes back and she gives his bf an awesome sexual experience? body slide, cat bath, rimming, dragon drill, etc..

And he'll be like woah... where did this come from?

Or will she be good enough to hold back even in the throws of passion?


The girls who i have dated and had sex with were not very good at handjobs nor blowjobs... though the girls knew their own bodies real well.

[AHLUNGOR]

So would the ex- WL/ML, when they get a bf who is non the wiser, do the girls pretend they know nothing around a male's body in terms of pleasure... would they one time be so horny that the old 'experience' comes back and she gives his bf an awesome sexual experience? body slide, cat bath, rimming, dragon drill, etc..

And he'll be like woah... where did this come from?

Or will she be good enough to hold back even in the throws of passion?


The girls who i have dated and had sex with were not very good at handjobs nor blowjobs... though the girls knew their own bodies real well.

I don’t think young ladies need to be a ml or WL to be sexually active and “skillful” or knowledgeable.

They just have to have a few boyfriends or sexual partners before you to know all the things you know, no ?

And who is to say girls don’t watch porns ? You won’t think the girls night in these days are strictly doing girlie stuff like dressing the barbies ? Whatever young men or the male populations can watch on the Internet, so can all the girls.

Thoughts ?

[tpol]

The girls who I have met, have had maybe 2-3 bf, and they were not as good as ML/WLs. Even watching porn doesn't mean you will be good at it.

It is not knowing, it is showing the skills and experience... like when you meet a newbie ML compared to an experienced one

[asiafever]

It's a combination of things, experience, whether a girl is conscious of being thought a 'slut' for having experimented and having multiple partners, cultural stereotypes etc. I had a gf who had only had 1 bf before me and even then it was short term, and she was utterly ferocious in bed, knew what worked for her and paid attention to what worked for me.
If you're with a girl you like and she busts out some moves, does it matter where she learned them?

[tpol]

Definitely not... her past is her past... my past is mine...

Just curious would she go from tame to wild....

[doctorspock]

If you marry a ML/WL do you get suspicious if she goes out or calls a male friend. Do you get paranoid?

Do you hang out with her ML/WL friends. Would you perf in front of your wife?

[yug]

So would the ex-WL/ML, when they get a bf who is non the wiser, do the girls pretend they know nothing around a male's body in terms of pleasure... would they one time be so horny that the old 'experience' comes back and she gives his bf an awesome sexual experience? body slide, cat bath, rimming, dragon drill, etc..

And he'll be like woah... where did this come from?

Or will she be good enough to hold back even in the throws of passion?


The girls who i have dated and had sex with were not very good at handjobs nor blowjobs... though the girls knew their own bodies real well.

Haha! You have been punting too long, haven't you?

I don't think WL, ML or otherwise (if they consumed by lust or horniness or whatever) would ever perform body slide, cat bath, rimming, dragon drill.
That's the drill she goes through when she had been paid for. She is putting an act.
It's not like, in the heat of the moment, she goes into an exorcist mode where she contorts her body and jerks him while doing a hand stand.

What you are thinking is just the opposite.
What she does in the shop is pretense.
What she does in the house is the real deal.
Even the regulars I visit don't go through the routine. They bust out the WL moves in front of the punters; it's not one of their multiple personalities which they have no control over.

[Climax598]

I been told by my regular WL she wouldn't do rimming If she have BF/Hubby. She do it for the money and put up with it. Bbbj she do it but CIM some time for BF.

[PervySage]

I been told by my regular WL she wouldn't do rimming If she have BF/Hubby. She do it for the money and put up with it. Bbbj she do it but CIM some time for BF.

I suspect many ML / WL have a different personality in the private life? Probably play shy and innocent..

Some have different personalities in the shop with different customers lol!

[birch]

I had a regular Thai ML who i became close to around 20 years ago in Sydney. She used to work at 70? Erskine St...Anyway in her late teens she left her poor family in Surin and quickly found herself a sugar daddy who flew her all over the world and treater her like a princess - but a disposable one in the end... She was abandoned back in Sydney on one of his work trips (they were based in Paris at the time with something like $5K in the bank and no friends. She never heard from him again. But she'd had the ride of her life, an amazing wardrobe of clothes and could speak 4 languages - French, german, mandarin, Thai and English. She resorted to WL and ML jobs within months to support her rather expensive lifestyle. I met her operating semi-privately in a Bathurst street penthouse about 2 mins from my office. Anyway, I just gradually became a close friend and regular customer until after about 5 years she started partying hard with a new crowd and got herself pregnant - twice. I found myself driving her to Royal North Shore hospital after an early morning call for help. She had miscarried after a night of partying way too hard...

The second pregnancy ended up in a rushed wedding with a punter... not me thankfully! that wedding lasted, wait for it... 7 years and produced a young daughter. She managed to also get permanent residency. She now lives with her now teenage daughter and a new husband in Melbourne and has shut down all communications with me.

This experience gave me all kinds of insights into young women with limited options just trying to survive any way they know how. Who are we to make life any more difficult for them than they need to be?

[TheMaestro]

I had a regular Thai ML who i became close to around 20 years ago in Sydney. She used to work at 70? Erskine St...Anyway in her late teens she left her poor family in Surin and quickly found herself a sugar daddy who flew her all over the world and treater her like a princess - but a disposable one in the end... She was abandoned back in Sydney on one of his work trips (they were based in Paris at the time with something like $5K in the bank and no friends. She never heard from him again. But she'd had the ride of her life, an amazing wardrobe of clothes and could speak 4 languages - French, german, mandarin, Thai and English. She resorted to WL and ML jobs within months to support her rather expensive lifestyle. I met her operating semi-privately in a Bathurst street penthouse about 2 mins from my office. Anyway, I just gradually became a close friend and regular customer until after about 5 years she started partying hard with a new crowd and got herself pregnant - twice. I found myself driving her to Royal North Shore hospital after an early morning call for help. She had miscarried after a night of partying way too hard...

The second pregnancy ended up in a rushed wedding with a punter... not me thankfully! that wedding lasted, wait for it... 7 years and produced a young daughter. She managed to also get permanent residency. She now lives with her now teenage daughter and a new husband in Melbourne and has shut down all communications with me.

This experience gave me all kinds of insights into young women with limited options just trying to survive any way they know how. Who are we to make life any more difficult for them than they need to be?

Nice story bro birch! Life is crazy sometimes!!

[holi_day]

Thanks for sharing Birch.

[rooter]

So a guy has paid a girl to have sex with him, has paid for her time and her body, has paid her to like him, then decides "I am going to marry that girl" ... Interesting ...

[Climax598]

So a guy has paid a girl to have sex with him, has paid for her time and her body, has paid her to like him, then decides "I am going to marry that girl" ... Interesting ...
That call love maybe for the punter. For the WL mmm? Or it can be true to both. Only the 2 person know. I did hear from a WL that a WL friend of her married a punter and move to malaysia later.

[sporty32]

That call love maybe for the punter. For the WL mmm? Or it can be true to both. Only the 2 person know. I did hear from a WL that a WL friend of her married a punter and move to malaysia later.

Of course it can be true to both....what happens is that if the money runs out....then the WL wants to return to her luxury life, so the love ends at that point.

[kingwally]

Of course it can be true to both....what happens is that if the money runs out....then the WL wants to return to her luxury life, so the love ends at that point.

When money stops coming in the front door, love goes out the back door....that is something that was told to me years ago and never a truer word spoken.

[jzchan]

It's like rent now, buy later....

Wealthy people all know, “If it flies, floats or fucks...rent it!”

[jzchan]

Wealthy people all know, “If it flies, floats or fucks...rent it!”

Works out way cheaper this way in the long run. They’ve all done their cost of ownership calcs.

[happyspider]

Wealthy people all know, “If it flies, floats or fucks...rent it!”

Was travelling around Asia (Hong Kong, Singapore, Thailand) many years ago. Met these well to do dudes that had mistresses. So was common there to purchase an apartment for these young ladies to live in etc rather than paying rent and other running costs hahaha.....so long story short, when these guys (after years of being with them) finished/got bored/wanted an upgrade to younger ones etc with these WL/ML, would sell these apartments, the appreciation/profit on sale of these apartments would cover these expenses of their mistresses, therefore costing them virtually nothing!!! Now that’s creative accounting!!!!

[gunit]

Hi all this is my first post here and the first time I have ever told anyone. I have recently divorced my wife of 7 years who use to be a ML, and we have 2 beautiful kids together. Just want to see how many punters actually have married a ML/WL like me. Not just dating

I have dated WL in the past, always felt she was not all there mentally. I guess it's a occupational hazard. Would you recommend any punters who want to go to the next stage from your experience?

[Nx8888]

I have dated WL in the past, always felt she was not all there mentally. I guess it's a occupational hazard. Would you recommend any punters who want to go to the next stage from your experience?

If you listen to your head (big head not little head) then I would definitely not recommend, but if you follow your heart then no one can stop love. Put it this way if you want to get ahead and become successful in life then don't go there, it will cost you lots and lots of money and energy making it work, and you will go backwards not forwards and come out the other side worse off.

[Nx8888]

I have dated WL in the past, always felt she was not all there mentally. I guess it's a occupational hazard. Would you recommend any punters who want to go to the next stage from your experience?

If you listen to your head (big head not little head) then I would definitely not recommend, but if you follow your heart then no one can stop love. Put it this way if you want to get ahead and become successful in life then don't go there, it will cost you lots and lots of money and energy making it work, and you will go backwards not forwards and come out the other side worse off.

[fish67]

and that's the danger with these liaisons. As much as we tell ourselves that it is merely a transaction/unemotional sex, sometimes feelings do develop because sex is an emotional connection.

From what my mates who have dated WLs, it's probably not a good idea to marry one. I'd echo an earlier comment that many of these girls do come with baggage (financial or otherwise), and sooner or later that surfaces and complicates things...

[everydaydee]

I had a regular Thai ML who i became close to around 20 years ago in Sydney. She used to work at 70? Erskine St...Anyway in her late teens she left her poor family in Surin and quickly found herself a sugar daddy who flew her all over the world and treater her like a princess - but a disposable one in the end... She was abandoned back in Sydney on one of his work trips (they were based in Paris at the time with something like $5K in the bank and no friends. She never heard from him again. But she'd had the ride of her life, an amazing wardrobe of clothes and could speak 4 languages - French, german, mandarin, Thai and English. She resorted to WL and ML jobs within months to support her rather expensive lifestyle. I met her operating semi-privately in a Bathurst street penthouse about 2 mins from my office. Anyway, I just gradually became a close friend and regular customer until after about 5 years she started partying hard with a new crowd and got herself pregnant - twice. I found myself driving her to Royal North Shore hospital after an early morning call for help. She had miscarried after a night of partying way too hard...

The second pregnancy ended up in a rushed wedding with a punter... not me thankfully! that wedding lasted, wait for it... 7 years and produced a young daughter. She managed to also get permanent residency. She now lives with her now teenage daughter and a new husband in Melbourne and has shut down all communications with me.

This experience gave me all kinds of insights into young women with limited options just trying to survive any way they know how. Who are we to make life any more difficult for them than they need to be?

Damn that's insane. Definitely makes you remember that these MLs/WLs are humans too with their own crazy life experiences.

[PhoBot]

I've got nothing against women who want to make money as a WL/ML but that instantly disqualifies them as GF or date material.

[Assandlegs]

If you listen to your head (big head not little head) then I would definitely not recommend, but if you follow your heart then no one can stop love. Put it this way if you want to get ahead and become successful in life then don't go there, it will cost you lots and lots of money and energy making it work, and you will go backwards not forwards and come out the other side worse off.Probably the wisest of words ever written...

Big head - "don't go there you idiot!"
Little head - "get me in there now you idiot!"
Heart - "You're an idiot, but, man, she's the sweetest, sexiest girl ever!!"

lolol

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[rooter]

Do the double standard, hypocritical thing that most smart men do.
Marry a "good girl", and fuck the "bad girls" in brothels. Never mix the two up.
Yeah sure, it's hypocritical, it's a double standard, but this has worked for men for thousands of years and in almost every nation and culture.

[doctorspock]

But when your little Dude wakes up, your big Dude is shut out. Only one brain can operate at a time.

[Climax598]

Probably the wisest of words ever written...

Big head - "don't go there you idiot!"
Little head - "get me in there now you idiot!"
Heart - "You're an idiot, but, man, she's the sweetest, sexiest girl ever!!"

lolol

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[Climax598]

I've got nothing against women who want to make money as a WL/ML but that instantly disqualifies them as GF or date material.
Is it because she fuck by too many guys or more experience than you? Even an ex wl?

[liminal]

this space is a smudged, Unclear Lens in which we are viewing; further compounded by the cultural,Social, emotional luggage of the authors

If we acknowledge that many of these ‘soiled bad’ Mama goods often are in existing , or return, if they are FIFO, to a relationship in their country of origin, then what are we to make of ourselves and musings.

Perhaps it’s the punter whose
Mindset ain’t that good ian unable to enter or remain in a relationship?

Why is it always the woman who tends
To be recorded as failing and lacking?

Just my Musings and some of it coming from personal experience of both relationships with working girls (ml/wl) and ‘normal’ Mary magdalens

[mulanbaby]

I think I don't want to marry.

Have to cook everyday and every night.

[gunit]

I think I don't want to marry.

Have to cook everyday and every night.

Are u WL? If u find a rich man U don't need to ever work again! And u can get Visa of u want to stay here...

[Niceguy11]

Wealthy people all know, “If it flies, floats or fucks...rent it!”

It's true and does happen. Agree with you 100%.

[Assandlegs]

Welcome back. Tell us you story's with Lala.Thanks bro... gonna stay tight lipped on this for now.

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[mulanbaby]

More work after marry, have to do housework.

[Jaygee]

Wouldn't mind meeting Mulan . . . . . sounds like a conversationalist . . . . might help me with my head issues and punting.

Alas, no pm-facilities for me yet . . maybe i'll pop up a review on my Brisbane lady??

[asiafever]

More work after marry, have to do housework.

Marry wealthy and get a housecleaner!
Or marry smart and guy does housework.

[mulanbaby]

Marry wealthy and get a housecleaner!
Or marry smart and guy does housework.

You introduce to me ahahahaha

[asiafever]

You introduce to me ahahahaha

As Obi-wan would say...
https://youtu.be/1LVt49l6aP8

I am a single father of a teenage girl. My whole life is cleaning/housework. I wonder sometimes if it would be less challenging raising goblins..

[asiafever]

I should add, I'm not the sharpest tool in the shed, but I'm smart enough to learn from past mistakes, and hence not marrying again!
My spirit animal is the lone wolf for a reason.

[Nx8888]

If u can't cook and clean....u better be out of this world in bed!!!

[mulanbaby]

If u can't cook and clean....u better be out of this world in bed!!!

U don't understand woman. Very tired...

[doctorspock]

I never cook or clean, get someone who charges $60 an hour to do it. More cost effective. Don't need to be rich

[mulanbaby]

So after marry I'm only $60 hour... That's why I don't like marry ahahaha

[doctorspock]

Cooking should be a hobby not a chore. I hear if you marry Shanghai men, they will be your house slave.....mulanpricess😊 plus you can control their 💰 and make sure they will not spend money punting.

[AHLUNGOR]

Cooking should be a hobby not a chore. I hear if you marry Shanghai men, they will be your house slave.....mulanpricess😊 plus you can control their 💰 and make sure they will not spend money punting.

The only way a woman can stop her man from punting is to empty his balls days and nights :

A morning blow job daily before he leaves the house , CIMSW ! Follow by taking everything he’s got at night , every night ! And during those times of the month, gives him more blowjob, tits job, hand job, footjob, ass job or whatever to do the Job !

[Nx8888]

The only way a woman can stop her man from punting is to empty his balls days and nights :

A morning blow job daily before he leaves the house , CIMSW ! Follow by taking everything he’s got at night , every night ! And during those times of the month, gives him more blowjob, tits job, hand job, footjob, ass job or whatever to do the Job !

But the problem is who doesn't get bored of the same pussy everyday for the rest of their life!!!! You can find the hottest wife but after having kids it's only downhill from there.

[happyspider]

But the problem is who doesn't get bored of the same pussy everyday for the rest of their life!!!!
True bros... can’t have steak every night....need to change the menu and have fish, chicken or lamb..??? Hahaha

[zhfac42]

Cooking should be a hobby not a chore. I hear if you marry Shanghai men, they will be your house slave.....mulanpricess�� plus you can control their �� and make sure they will not spend money punting.

my sister married a Shanghai man. he does everything around the house except cooking and school runs for kids.

[doctorspock]

You can never empty his balls. True giving him day and night will dampened his desire. What happens when your misses have children, the man's desire will be left on the sideline. Past Kings in China have 3,000 cucumbines and still wants to recruit more to satisfy his desires...some even go to brothels (Qian Lung)

[warwick1]

But the problem is who doesn't get bored of the same pussy everyday for the rest of their life!!!! You can find the hottest wife but after having kids it's only downhill from there.

What about the woman having to put up with the same "dick" (pun intended) every day for the rest their life!!!

[mulanbaby]

Too complicated, just enjoy what you have now and now is always changing. It will be a different now tomorrow.

[God Member]

You can never empty his balls. Past Kings in China have 3,000 cucumbines and still wants to recruit more to satisfy his desires... (Qian Lung)

But surely out of that 3000 they'd be a minimum of at least 100 that would be utterly, completely to his taste, that he'd find it impossible to go past. The other 2900 would be going to waste.

Which brings up a point. Most of the girls, desirable as they are, if they were really lucky would only have sex once every few years. What a waste, as I said.

[AHLUNGOR]

You can never empty his balls. True giving him day and night will dampened his desire. What happens when your misses have children, the man's desire will be left on the sideline. Past Kings in China have 3,000 cucumbines and still wants to recruit more to satisfy his desires...some even go to brothels (Qian Lung)

The main purpose of all those concubines were not to satisfy the Emperor sexually, their job was to give him lots of princes and may be some princesses (to be used to marry Mongolian prince, sons of chief generals and ministers to consolidate the Empire etc.)

[doctorspock]

If the king fxxx a new concubine once a day, it will take him over 8 years to go through the roster plus they must be all virgins. Lucky man or poor man? As a Chinese saying goes, if the man is depleted of sperm, then he will die.🤔

[sporty32]

When money stops coming in the front door, love goes out the back door....that is something that was told to me years ago and never a truer word spoken.

I agree with you. That kind of love exists as long as there is money..... not money..... not love.

[Climax598]

I agree with you. That kind of love exists as long as there is money..... not money..... not love.
No money......no fuck!

[God Member]

If the king fxxx a new concubine once a day, it will take him over 8 years to go through the roster plus they must be all virgins. Lucky man or poor man? As a Chinese saying goes, if the man is depleted of sperm, then he will die.��

We aren't using our imaginations here. We are assuming these Kings were serial monogamists, on a 24 hour changeover, with individual girls taken nightly or daily to the bedchamber. He probably had many large group sessions moving between the girls at his whim. The girls probably wacked themselves off watching the king at play amongst them. Hence they would have been getting more sex than simple maths suggests.

But still, you are right, still not getting enough. Oh man. I'll bet there were some terrible fates for those horny court blokes caught knocking of the concubines who must have been gagging for it.

[tpol]

We aren't using our imaginations here. We are assuming these Kings were serial monogamists, on a 24 hour changeover, with individual girls taken nightly or daily to the bedchamber. He probably had many large group sessions moving between the girls at his whim. The girls probably wacked themselves off watching the king at play amongst them. Hence they would have been getting more sex than simple maths suggests.

But still, you are right, still not getting enough. Oh man. I'll bet there were some terrible fates for those horny court blokes caught knocking of the concubines who must have been gagging for it.

Aren't those court guys castrated? No testosterone, no desire. They probably wanted power and information rather than sex

[rooter]

The main purpose of all those concubines were not to satisfy the Emperor sexually, their job was to give him lots of princes and may be some princesses (to be used to marry Mongolian prince, sons of chief generals and ministers to consolidate the Empire etc.)

100% true, but he would fuck them for pleasure every now and then too.
And I think he just got off on the fact that he owned them and no one else could have them; it's a power thing, like billionaires who own 100 plus prestige and sports cars and never drive them
A funny thing I read once was that phallic shaped fruits and vegetables bananas, cucumbers etc were served to the harem girls already sliced up. LOL!

[tpol]

A funny thing I read once was that phallic shaped fruits and vegetables bananas, cucumbers etc were served to the harem girls already sliced up. LOL!

Would that matter? Their aim was to bear a son so I'm sure when the emperer wanted it, she would definitely oblige.

Do you think the more a woman fucks, the looser she gets?

[trampslikeus55]

100% true, but he would fuck them for pleasure every now and then too.
And I think he just got off on the fact that he owned them and no one else could have them; it's a power thing, like billionaires who own 100 plus prestige and sports cars and never drive them
A funny thing I read once was that phallic shaped fruits and vegetables bananas, cucumbers etc were served to the harem girls already sliced up. LOL!
I think you have found the answer rooter.
First, the king has them so no one else can. Second, if the is any infidelity or misadventure with any other person they are both put to death no questions asked. It wasn't so much that he fucked his dick off, it was that nobody else could. Not really sure that this is the topic but rationalizing ancient history is always a good discussion. Makes you wonder who thought of brothels first. A man or a woman🙂

[bobbyj99]

nothing to comment really

[Raybo]

This is why I love and hate this forum, reading through this........

[mulanbaby]

I think can go out with customer
But maybe not marry customer
He will not like later

[annintofu]

I think I don't want to marry.

Have to cook everyday and every night.
u nailed it.
when I was in my early 20s, I always associated marriage with lots of free sex, but realiaty is far less rosy: house work, dealing with each other's habits, visiting in-laws, compromise on what she wants to buy vs what you want. little differences can add up and destroy the relationship. add a kid into the daily fray, and you'd really wonder why the heck you got yourself into this mess.

marriage is not for everyone (or should I say not the best choice for most people?).

having kids is absolutely not for most couples. one smart guy once said to me: there is never a good time to have a kid, unless u r super rich, don't have to work etc.

[Dettol]

I've had MLs wanting to hangout and stuff, but i always decline. There has only been 1 or 2 girls through the years that I thought I would like to date her. I think for me the girl needs to click both looks and personality wise - the second is quite hard especially when a majority of them are internationals and the communication isn't the same.

Check out Ol’ Casanova right here!!

[doctorspock]

The King of Thailand has a harem of concubines with him wherever he goes. This dude really knows how to enjoy life whilst his country is stricken with disease and poverty. Sad but that's life...just wonder why his people still worship him. Maybe Thailand Punters here can enlighten us???

[wilisno]

The King of Thailand has a harem of concubines with him wherever he goes. This dude really knows how to enjoy life whilst his country is stricken with disease and poverty. Sad but that's life...just wonder why his people still worship him. Maybe Thailand Punters here can enlighten us???

Different cultures ! It might even be an honour to the girl to have tasted the Royal penis ! ;) ;) ;)

[rooter]

The King of Thailand has a harem of concubines with him wherever he goes. This dude really knows how to enjoy life whilst his country is stricken with disease and poverty. Sad but that's life...just wonder why his people still worship him. Maybe Thailand Punters here can enlighten us???

Just make sure you don't say that in Thailand bro, or you will never see daylight again :)

[Budgyboy]

Thailand is definatley not stricken with poverty and disease. Its got one of the best health care systems in the world. It has a very low covid infection rate and is one of the cleanest and modern south eastern asian countries there is. Ive seen and experiened all facets of thailand and will happily be spending my latter years there in relative comfort much the same as here.

[yug]

u nailed it.
when I was in my early 20s, I always associated marriage with lots of free sex, but realiaty is far less rosy: house work, dealing with each other's habits, visiting in-laws, compromise on what she wants to buy vs what you want. little differences can add up and destroy the relationship. add a kid into the daily fray, and you'd really wonder why the heck you got yourself into this mess.

marriage is not for everyone (or should I say not the best choice for most people?).

having kids is absolutely not for most couples. one smart guy once said to me: there is never a good time to have a kid, unless u r super rich, don't have to work etc.

Haha...You got all that from "Have to cook everyday and every night"
Anyway, I do agree with what you are saying though.

[bobbyj99]

nothing to comment really

[mulanbaby]

Don’t marry be happy lol

[rooter]

Don’t marry be happy lol

You are wise beyond your years, young lady.

[asiafever]

You are wise beyond your years, young lady.

My wife and I were happily married for 2 years...out of 15...

[liminal]

The King of Thailand has a harem of concubines with him wherever he goes. This dude really knows how to enjoy life whilst his country is stricken with disease and poverty. Sad but that's life...just wonder why his people still worship him. Maybe Thailand Punters here can enlighten us???

You don’t need to speak to any thai punter

Speak to any thai woman you know under a certain age . A solid number will clearly show disdain

[rooter]

This lack of respect for the Monarchy is very disappointing.
"God Save the Queen!"
That was how I was brought up.
Respect and obedience to Queen and country.
That's how it should be.
What do we have now? A rabble!
No respect. No sense of country or authority or community.
The tyranny of the individual. Everyone thinks they are so special. Rights but no obligations. Freedom but no responsibility.
That's why we are in the mess we are in now.
Bring back respect for the monarchy. That will be a good start.

[aussiegaigin]

Don’t marry be happy lol

You don't know what happiness is until you get married.

But then it is too late.

[God Member]

Don’t marry be happy lol


You are wise beyond your years, young lady.

Mulanbaby might only be joking (I'm not sure) but I'm sure her and Rooter's situations are so different on so many different levels that make his encouragment of her non-plan not very valid. :miao:

Is mulanbaby not joking? In Chinese culture isn't there even more expectation and pressure for the girls to be married before certain ages? Much more than in the west. At least that is what I've learnt from quite a few years of watching If You are the One. :question:

[doctorspock]

Don’t marry be happy lol

Life is a cycle. Feelings and desires change over time. Marriage is a commitment and has its risk. If you marry a guy who is a lazy bum or gambler, you are guaranteed to be unhappy. If you stay single will still be unhappy but no risk as you can do whatever and whenever you like.

The golden rule is married or not but be financially independent so if anything happens, you can walk out of any relationship and support yourself.

[local]

I really don't see what the fuss is all about.

As long as nothing is hidden, everyone is aware of each other and their past.
I know of one couple who met in brothel, it became regular, and she told him she needed a sponsor.
They agreed together on the conditions.
Its now 25 years they have been married, 3 kids and mum still works in the same brothel. (which they now own together).

I have seen it work.
I have also seen it NOT work with another couple.

The key is knowledge and agreements and keep their word.

I am watching a couple I know now, she was an ML and he was a novice. Basically a 34yo virgin.
Will it work ?
I doubt it, but he's an idiot who really needs a carer, maybe he's found it.

[dotcumdotinyou]

mulanbaby...
Never say never, you may marry one day. Just make the best of the situation your in at that time, I had 3 years of bliss 3 years of so so and 5 years of living with a crazy bitch that had violent mood swings and would more than often scream at me in her language.
I only persevered the last 5 years because of the kids and they were the little ray of sunshine that I clung to.

[mulanbaby]

Maybe later, now be happy first
Girls only good before 30. After 30 no one want.
Then I marry. Hahaha

[dotcumdotinyou]

NOT TRUE!!!

There's a Korean divorced milf in my complex she's 36 years old and absolutely stunning. I would love to fuck her.

Her child is one of mines classmates, needless to say I encourage my child to go over for playdates just so I have an excuse to go over and chat with her for a while.

[dotcumdotinyou]

Forgot,

I love school pick ups too, watching all the yummy mummys (who would all be 30 plus), treating it more as a line up thinking "who would I choose today" and believe me there are some stunners. And they are still stunning wearing street clothes or even just trackie dacks and a sloppy joe.

[mulanbaby]

Then more happy times for me lol
I like single. If I want to go Cairns tomorrow, I can.
After marry maybe.
After kids impossible.

[doctorspock]

People avoid marrying WL/ML because they are high maintenance both financial and maybe physically....have to satisfy them othewise they will find ways to get satisfied?

[mulanbaby]

I don’t think working girls marry clients.
Easy to argue.

[tpol]

Girls only good before 30. After 30 no one want.
Then I marry. Hahaha
I don't think this applies in Australia. Maybe asian but not here

[cuteguy]

I don’t think working girls marry clients.
Easy to argue.

Most won't marry their clients unless they're really desperate for permanent residence or the client is a millionaire who can give her what she wants. If they decide to marry, they will try to find someone who knows nothing about their previous work history.

[rooter]

Never been interested in marriage so if I were to marry a woman or man or trans or WL or doctor or nurse or black or white or brown or yellow or an avocado or onion it makes no difference to me.
I could see myself very happily married to a leak or maybe a turnip.

[mulanbaby]

Most won't marry their clients unless they're really desperate for permanent residence or the client is a millionaire who can give her what she wants. If they decide to marry, they will try to find someone who knows nothing about their previous work history.

Millionaire will not find work girls?
They find models or small stars?

[annintofu]

Never been interested in marriage so if I were to marry a woman or man or trans or WL or doctor or nurse or black or white or brown or yellow or an avocado or onion it makes no difference to me.
I could see myself very happily married to a leak or maybe a turnip.

or a sex doll, or a beautiful robot.

[PervySage]

Millionaire will not find work girls?
They find models or small stars?

Plenty of millionaire chase working girls...

you need many millions for other working girls 😁😁 such as models, small stars.

[annintofu]

Then more happy times for me lol
I like single. If I want to go Cairns tomorrow, I can.
After marry maybe.
After kids impossible.

so true.

I always wonder what made you guys having a sudden urge to start a family?

for me there were 3 stages

1: before 18: had a crush on a girl, just wanted to be with her all the time.

2: early 20s : the silly, naive thought about free sex any time I wanted it

3: early 30s: met a nice girl who was anxious to get married, and I didn't want to lose her.

I never understood the implications, responsibilities, and burdens of marriage and kids until it was too late.

a classmate (female) got divorced at 26 after 3 years of marriage, and told me it was just because of little differences that caused daily squabbling that drove her crazy, I was shocked at the time, just that???

she's still single and enjoying her life, while I feel like kicking myself for not heeding her lesson back then.

when I was young, I felt there was no need to sweat the small stuff, now I see they can add up over time and weigh you down.

people should carefully read the fine prints before signing a big long term contract such as marriage. Don't get fooled by the glossy brochure (i.e cute face and hot body).

[GoldfishMan]

You are at a stage that you still want to be a kid. The difference now is that you have more responsibilities than kids do.
As a human, you will get older.
Your perception changes over time so does each responsibility you have.
I'm not married, recently have a girlfriend.
I never had a plan to get married nor had a thought about marriage in my 20s and now I want to get married and start a family. The only thing that's holding me back is financial.

Your circumstances change overtime so does your thought. But remember that we can't be kids forever.
Who said you can't be a "kid" forever? It's your life, be a man and take control of it.
Having said that, I can understand why some people "suddenly" want to start a family. It's your natural instinct to leave your mark on the world. To continue your bloodline, etc.
What I think about marriage is, don't even think about it if you don't want kids. Never trust a girl who says she doesn't want kids either because they will change their tune.
Don't get me wrong, I have nothing against marriage. There are benefits you can get from it, you just have to make sure of a few things. You ought to be in a very good position either in your career or financially. This takes out a lot of stress that usually destroy relationships.
To get to that level probably means you're getting on in age. So, the second point is to make sure you marry a far younger girl than your own age. There are so many benefits from this. It guarantees that you will have at least multiple years of awesome fun (great sex, traveling, adventures, whatever) before the ultimate killjoy comes (kids).
You will also very much appreciate that your wife is much younger than you are when you get really old.

[mulanbaby]

I am not kid anymore I’m 24 already!

[doctorspock]

I am not kid anymore I’m 24 already!

Society now has changed, most women will get married after 30 years and its normal. Women are now more financially independent and career oriented, they want freedom, not tied down to marriage. Dont get married unless you want to have children.

As to men marrying ML (with extras) or WL, best they dont know....men are also jealous creatures and will haunt them of your past. Marrying models and stars are different as they are not wl eventhough most do it for extra $.

[mulanbaby]

My friend air hostesses, she found rich man lol
Always buy buy buy, But very pretty.

[Climax598]

My friend air hostesses, she found rich man lol
Always buy buy buy, But very pretty.
Which Airline do you friend work?

[tpol]

I am not kid anymore I’m 24 already!

Hey Mulan,

Do you worry or are you planning your life and your future at this age?

When I ask my Australian born Chinese or Australian female friends aged from 22-26 all say, what? I still enjoying life, I'll think about all this when I'm 28, 29!!!

[aussiegaigin]

Marrying models and stars are different as they are not wl eventhough most do it for extra $.

Models and stars are addicted to the money, high life and fame that comes with the work. They like to marry rich guys who will keep them at that level when their popularity fades. Think of James Packer's trail of disasters. The payouts alone worked out about $50K per night.

[PervySage]

Really, I can't see why one will get so deep into a relationship with a WL/ML? I thought one pays a premium because it is a short term lease....

Some punters think it's hire purchase?

[toysrus]

If I had a dollar every time I've seen a crazy hot WG add on the pounds in as short of a time as 6 months later. It's insane how peoples bodies can change in such a short time and very rarely its for the better. If you marrying a girl for looks, I can assure you the shelf life of the looks is only a few years at best, before you could just go back to the shop and get a massive upgrade, after all the new models stay the same age.

No one escapes aging, so to me it makes no sense marrying a WG if she is guaranteed to look worse in 5 years. Just keep renting, the entire transaction is so fkn simple and you can try a new one when you get bored. Another thing is when you go to see a WG she is all dolled up and looking amazing in some sexy outfit, the moment you marry her this will become a rare occasion. I remember dating this hot korean girl from Melbourne Colosseum, she always wore these sexy tight fitting korean dresses when she worked. When we lived together I never saw it again, apparently those dresses were for work only lol.

Now if you marrying for love, chemistry and her personality, ignore everything I have written. But be honest with yourself, do you really love her for these characteristics or is it cause she is a fine piece of ass?

[tpol]

If I had a dollar every time I've seen a crazy hot WG add on the pounds in as short of a time as 6 months later. It's insane how peoples bodies can change in such a short time and very rarely its for the better. If you marrying a girl for looks, I can assure you the shelf life of the looks is only a few years at best, before you could just go back to the shop and get a massive upgrade, after all the new models stay the same age.

Not just WG. I have many a female friends who have trimmed right down for their wedding dress and then 1 year after the wedding, they're fat as.

[toysrus]

Not just WG. I have many a female friends who have trimmed right down for their wedding dress and then 1 year after the wedding, they're fat as.

Absolutely, females can be traps for guys.

In many ways punting can be empowering for a man, because it solves loneliness. When you really think about it, there is so many more benefits to being a single man with total freedom. Do whatever the hell you want and at any time of day and report to no one. Spend your money on yourself.

Lot of men give this up without thinking and I feel those who haven't been exposed to punting are the fastest to jump straight back into a new relationship after a failed one simply because they are lonely.

[thewidebluesea]

I've been single, I've been married (and divorced) and I've been punting for 5 years now and having the best time of my life. Why ruin it by getting married?

[liminal]

Most won't marry their clients unless they're really desperate for permanent residence or the client is a millionaire who can give her what she wants. If they decide to marry, they will try to find someone who knows nothing about their previous work history.



The two former ml/wl I know who have married , married a former client. They are both still married.

a third is in a long term relationship with a doctor she met while transitioning to full time aged care nursing. He Does not know her former career.

a fourth would never date a client let alone a platonic coffee.

Of those 4 . 3 always maintained balanced lives. Or like all of us make attempt .

The other of the 4 , was like many in a difficult space with visa issues / debt/ worked and serviced men 24/7 shop and private . Like many was husband shopping . Though subsequently found god, professed Undying love and new found perspective on relationships .

Again left the profession and went O/S. With hubby as of our last chat earlier today. , waiting to be reunited post covid .

[GoldfishMan]

If I had a dollar every time I've seen a crazy hot WG add on the pounds in as short of a time as 6 months later. It's insane how peoples bodies can change in such a short time and very rarely its for the better. If you marrying a girl for looks, I can assure you the shelf life of the looks is only a few years at best, before you could just go back to the shop and get a massive upgrade, after all the new models stay the same age.

No one escapes aging, so to me it makes no sense marrying a WG if she is guaranteed to look worse in 5 years. Just keep renting, the entire transaction is so fkn simple and you can try a new one when you get bored. Another thing is when you go to see a WG she is all dolled up and looking amazing in some sexy outfit, the moment you marry her this will become a rare occasion. I remember dating this hot korean girl from Melbourne Colosseum, she always wore these sexy tight fitting korean dresses when she worked. When we lived together I never saw it again, apparently those dresses were for work only lol.

Now if you marrying for love, chemistry and her personality, ignore everything I have written. But be honest with yourself, do you really love her for these characteristics or is it cause she is a fine piece of ass?
That happens when you sit back and expect everything to be served up to you on a plate. Sure you can expect that from a WG you're paying to see by the hour. With a wife, you just have to be a bit more proactive.
For example, I have a massive leg fetish. I'm out ogling girls in all their sexy looking shoes; chunky sneakers, high boots, pumps, all of them turn me on. I'd be fantasizing about fucking those girls whilst they're wearing only those shoes. With a wife, I can easily get her a pair of the same shoes and act out my fantasy on her.

About those girls that get fat, you you can tell if a girl will look after herself long before you commit. Some have a sweet tooth, some have fat genes (check out the mom and dad for ref), etc. Even if she blows up like a blimp, you can neg her into getting fit again.
The key is to be more demanding and less about whinging when you don't get what you want.

[mulanbaby]

It is easy to get fat here :(

[rooter]

A lot of Asian girls that arrive here in Australia put on weight .
There is so much high calorie, high fat, high sugar junk food in Australia!
I know there is junk food in Asia too, but the diet is generally better; rice, veggies, fish etc.
You can also see the difference between ABCs and girls from China.
It's the same DNA but the ABC girls are generally bigger.

[tpol]

It's the same DNA but the ABC girls are generally bigger.

I know there's milk powder and milk products in Asia now but I always put it down to the vast quantities of milk and milk products ABCs are fed as kids. My thoughts only.

[tpol]

Regarding girls that get fat ... I like athletic girls who are sporty... coz

i) they can do sports/activities that you like
ii) they want to do their sports/activities as well so gives you freedom to do yours
iii) they can usually maintain their weight coz they like being physically active.

[tpol]

Absolutely, females can be traps for guys.

In many ways punting can be empowering for a man, because it solves loneliness. When you really think about it, there is so many more benefits to being a single man with total freedom. Do whatever the hell you want and at any time of day and report to no one. Spend your money on yourself.

Lot of men give this up without thinking and I feel those who haven't been exposed to punting are the fastest to jump straight back into a new relationship after a failed one simply because they are lonely.

I am in this scenario now.

I am debating whether to get back into a relationship or not... I've had a few offers...

The difference about M/L, W/L is that you miss out on the chase.... the chase is super fun and exciting.... to be able to try and get away with stuff... to get her naked... during the chase... is also an ego trip and super exciting....

But then the downfall is that you have to put up with alot of shit afterwards!!! hahahahaha...

[mulanbaby]

A lot of Asian girls that arrive here in Australia put on weight .
There is so much high calorie, high fat, high sugar junk food in Australia!
I know there is junk food in Asia too, but the diet is generally better; rice, veggies, fish etc.
You can also see the difference between ABCs and girls from China.
It's the same DNA but the ABC girls are generally bigger.

I never eat chips And hamburger before. But hamburgers everywhere here. Lol

[CharlieM]

A few years back I separated with my wife, we lived in the same house for 10 months to sell our house. In that time I had hooked up with a childhood sweetheart (facebook came in handy) she had been divorced. Started out as friendship but ended up being a sexual thing as well. Helped me get through a tough time in my life. I doubt seeing an endless amount of MLs or WLs at the time would've helped me get through those dark times. Yep for sure it would've been a distraction but it's not the same as being with someone you feel for. And it done the world of good for my confidence.

[Riff888]

A few years back I separated with my wife, we lived in the same house for 10 months to sell our house. In that time I had hooked up with a childhood sweetheart (facebook came in handy) she had been divorced. Started out as friendship but ended up being a sexual thing as well. Helped me get through a tough time in my life. I doubt seeing an endless amount of MLs or WLs at the time would've helped me get through those dark times. Yep for sure it would've been a distraction but it's not the same as being with someone you feel for. And it done the world of good for my confidence.Different for me.

When I divorced I went crazy on the privates and outcalls. It totally helped me through the pain.

I met some nice girls whom I'm still friends with till this day.

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[holi_day]

A few years back I separated with my wife, we lived in the same house for 10 months to sell our house. In that time I had hooked up with a childhood sweetheart (facebook came in handy) she had been divorced. Started out as friendship but ended up being a sexual thing as well. Helped me get through a tough time in my life. I doubt seeing an endless amount of MLs or WLs at the time would've helped me get through those dark times. Yep for sure it would've been a distraction but it's not the same as being with someone you feel for. And it done the world of good for my confidence.

Did you end up in a relationship with your childhood sweetheart? Or you both just needed something at the time and then moved on after that.

[doctorspock]

Instead of marriage a lot go for "sugar daddy" type arrangements. PAYG.

[rooter]

Regarding girls that get fat ... I like athletic girls who are sporty... coz

i) they can do sports/activities that you like
ii) they want to do their sports/activities as well so gives you freedom to do yours
iii) they can usually maintain their weight coz they like being physically active.

If you are looking long term as in a wife for life then a fit skinny girl is your best option.
I prefer curvy girls, but curvy girls have a limited shelf life.
They are perfect when young (18-26), but time, gravity, and kids will take a huge toll on them and they will become fat in a few years.
A skinny girl on the other hand can stay sexy well into her 40s; she will morph into a sexy MILF, and even if she puts on a few kilos, it's a bonus.
You have to enjoy curvy girls while they are young.
There is nothing like a busty, curvy, bubble butt, young, firm girl.

[CharlieM]

Did you end up in a relationship with your childhood sweetheart? Or you both just needed something at the time and then moved on after that.

No never happened. People change a lot in 30 odd years. She had been divorced a few years and I was just not ready for another relationship.

[CharlieM]

Different for me.

When I divorced I went crazy on the privates and outcalls. It totally helped me through the pain.

I met some nice girls whom I'm still friends with till this day.

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Everyone finds their own way to cope I guess. For me MLs/WLs, its just business. They provide a paid service. I have never wanted nor felt the need to connect with them on any emotional level. Having said that, I totally respect what they do. I enjoy going to good massage places, enjoy the banter, love the massage and love the part 2. But that's it for me. When its over see you later. I've never had a problem meeting women who I can be in a relationship with.

[doctorspock]

Everyone finds their own way to cope I guess. For me MLs/WLs, its just business. They provide a paid service. I have never wanted nor felt the need to connect with them on any emotional level. Having said that, I totally respect what they do. I enjoy going to good massage places, enjoy the banter, love the massage and love the part 2. But that's it for me. When its over see you later. I've never had a problem meeting women who I can be in a relationship with.

Some will think visiting a wl/ml as a hobby, others a sport and to the depress, a physical treatment in lieu of seeing a psychologist?....the reasons will differ but marrying one...not sure why😨

[frankyang]

Agree, one thing to visit one - another to marry.

On the inverse, would any WL/ML actually be looking to marry a client?

[mulanbaby]

Agree, one thing to visit one - another to marry.

On the inverse, would any WL/ML actually be looking to marry a client?

I know few older friends they want, but all my close friends done want marry.

Like Rilla Vanessa we don’t want. Lol

[frankyang]

If someone were to marry a WL/ML - i think the the more sensible idea is to just a suger baby. The premise of the relationship in both is probably always going somewhat transnational after all.

[Niceguy11]

Its a great idea at first but in all honesty, it is simply not worth it. Good example is you meet a WL lets say from Thailand. You message her, see her regularly and might see her outside the shop. It might be good for a while but trust me, there is always another punter that she has in the same situation with you if that makes sense.

You might think you are the only ones she messages but at the end of the day, every WL / ML has their regulars who talk the same shit with her as she does with you so forget it. Better off finding a proper girl outside the WL life than dating a WL. Sure the sex would be fantastic but at the end of the day, its comes down to reality. I'm only speaking from experience.

[Riff888]

I would have no problems marrying a WL if like any relationship, there's a connection, mutual affection and you can live and function together.

I would definitely prefer her to discontinue her line of work and get a non WL/ML related job.

So it all comes down to weather or not you can support her needs, most likely her family needs overseas as well.

I know a few WLs that have stopped working because they don't have to anymore e.g. paid off a house.

A few met their goals but couldn't stop being a WL due to the money and lifestyle. Also what I would say is laziness on their part to do hard work for up to $30 an hour. This type of WL is bad news and will end up hurting you.

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[goodbloke]

Its a great idea at first but in all honesty, it is simply not worth it. Good example is you meet a WL lets say from Thailand. You message her, see her regularly and might see her outside the shop. It might be good for a while but trust me, there is always another punter that she has in the same situation with you if that makes sense.

You might think you are the only ones she messages but at the end of the day, every WL / ML has their regulars who talk the same shit with her as she does with you so forget it. Better off finding a proper girl outside the WL life than dating a WL. Sure the sex would be fantastic but at the end of the day, its comes down to reality. I'm only speaking from experience.

But don't we do the same . we just don't just message one WL but lots of other WL as well .And Punter got their own regulars as well