Would you give up punting?

[annintofu]

Been reading this thread about marrying an WL/ML:
http://www.aus99forum.com/showthread.php?96506-Marrying-WL-ML

and it got me thinking, personally I wouldn't knowingly pick a WL/ML as a partner, unless she only worked for a very short time (e.g < 3months) to cover emergency or unexpected circumstances.

but I kept wondering if I could ever give up punting for love? will I be able to resist the lure of innocent faces with perky tits, smooth long legs and bald pussies? and the excitement of exploring the next treasure in different shops?

I seriously doubt my ability to stay away, what about you?

[quackm2002]

I have been punting nearly 35 years and I reckon I have quit at least a dozen times. I have had breaks of as long as three years. You always get drawn back

[rooter]

No. Why even think about quitting or trying to quit?
Just enjoy it.
Taking a break every now and then is good though, as is taking a break from anything.
But that is not the same as quitting.
Quitting implies you are addicted to it, or it is causing you problems, or you think there is something bad about it and try to give up but fail.
If that is the case then that's a different story.
Just treat punting as something you do for fun and that's it.
Don't let it take over your life, or finances, or emotions, and have lots of other things that keep you busy and interests and things you do for fun; work, family, friends, sport, music, movies, travel, gym, restaurant, casino, hiking, footy etc.
It's just punting. It should just be the icing on the cake, not the whole cake.

[Hogrider]

No. Why even think about quitting or trying to quit?
Just enjoy it.
Taking a break every now and then is good though, as is taking a break from anything.
But that is not the same as quitting.
Quitting implies you are addicted to it, or it is causing you problems, or you think there is something bad about it and try to give up but fail.
If that is the case then that's a different story.
Just treat punting as something you do for fun and that's it.
Don't let it take over your life, or finances, or emotions, and have lots of other things that keep you busy and interests and things you do for fun; work, family, friends, sport, music, movies, travel, gym, restaurant, casino, hiking, footy etc.
It's just punting. It should just be the icing on the cake, not the whole cake.

Couldn’t agree more with the last line ..
IMO , it is how you see/view punting ..
a habit ? Or addiction ? Gateway? Just a little bit fun now and then !

Just like market , leave your emotion at the door ;)

[Brothelcreeper]

I will give it up when I die but not before

[Sir Puntalot]

Rooter is spot on.

I started punting from loving a massage to ease back issues and came into it quite naively when a girl grabbed LH and said you like and I did and went from there. That was a few years ago and took me a little bit to progress to #3 (still prefer a nice massage and see what happens from there and I don't go looking for brothels), and mainly do it when I travel for work to Sydney (not happening at the moment) or I'm really sore in the lower back and need to get a shot away.

I can quit at ant time, but why would I when I'm discrete enough and it feels so damn good!!!

[gco0307]

I have been punting for around 35 or so years and am also lucky in that my wife knows that I punt and actively encourages it (she will also see a working male from time to time and we will occasionally have couples massages).

I will say that I have gone on breaks at times, particularly when finances are tough but I would not give it up as it is fun, variety, relaxing and you meet some awesome people (both my wife and I have friends who have been WL's).

[annintofu]

No. Why even think about quitting or trying to quit?
Just enjoy it.
Taking a break every now and then is good though, as is taking a break from anything.
But that is not the same as quitting.
Quitting implies you are addicted to it, or it is causing you problems, or you think there is something bad about it and try to give up but fail.
If that is the case then that's a different story.
Just treat punting as something you do for fun and that's it.
Don't let it take over your life, or finances, or emotions, and have lots of other things that keep you busy and interests and things you do for fun; work, family, friends, sport, music, movies, travel, gym, restaurant, casino, hiking, footy etc.
It's just punting. It should just be the icing on the cake, not the whole cake.

Words of wisdom!
Guess the key is to do it at a measured pace and stop feeling guilty about it.
It will be a little secret, but I suppose most people have lots of little secrets to keep from their family & friends, and a hobby like this is just one of them.

I doubt there are many enlightened girls who can tolerate this sort of hobby. The best one can hope for is that the Wife/GF is vaguely aware of it but looks the other way and pretends she doesn't know.

[yug]

Couldn’t agree more with the last line ..
IMO , it is how you see/view punting ..
a habit ? Or addiction ? Gateway? Just a little bit fun now and then !

Just like market , leave your emotion at the door ;)

At one point, it was an addiction for me.
Now it's a little bit of fun now and then, once in a while.
It's so much better and balanced when you make it little bit of fun once in a while.

[johnconnor69er]

I will continue punting while I have the money and time. The variety is simply great. Not an additction but can be an expensive hobby.

[Niceguy11]

Brothels are addictive and I want to quit but its just too hard. The worst thing is when I am in Sydney CBD and see a nice Chinese girl, I just want to fuck but know I can't. Next thing, I'm balls deep in pussy. Honestly want to quit but can't.

[ML_Lover]

I’m married and also have a very regular FWB (who is hot and v young).
I’ve almost managed to give up RnT, but it’s difficult - I still read the rosters daily. Been once since March.

[deep_explorer]

I have not started after the shutdown, but am definitely not quitter. May be another week of cautious wait and watch...

[Mill88]

I take breaks, whether because I am busy, need a break or low on funds but I always come back. It's the little bit of spice I need now and then.
I keep it respectful, know my limits and enjoy it. I would consider quitting if it starting to take over my life and was effecting my day to day. Until then, it makes me happy.

[Carissawhore]

it depends on your financial situation, right now lots of them have lost jobs and are struggling hence they will not punt until they stabilize

[dreamofyou]

I have just started back as a massage girl so I hope no one gives up punting

[f00b]

Haha plenty of business to go around if this forum is any indication!

[Raybo]

The pleasures of punting go without saying. I have not punted for months and have also punted 2, 3, 4 times a week. I think I could give it up because there is so much more to life than getting sexually satisfied, but there really isn't much need to because that sexual high is superb and it is easily accessible.

[Climax598]

I will keep punting until I can't walk in to visit a WL/ML. Even if my dick can't get up I still see them to touch their beutiful nude body like an creepy old man.

[xboyx]

boys
I punted on Wed when shops opened, the next day I looked at rosters again and wanted to be inside a pussy again!

Managed to hold off and today it's the same, want to be next to a girl and enjoy it again. Perhaps beside punting, I don't hang out too much these days. This thing is addictive!

Do I have a problem here?

[Jaygee]

I've only had 2 punts . .. both private . . . both really good . . .. it's like a drug to me now and I want 2 this week!!

[frankyang]

I would quit if in a relationship. If you have to hide it from them, you know you're in the wrong.

[Jaygee]

It's very new to me . . and very much like a drug . . . I find I'm saving very cent I can to have a punt!!
I find an incredible lure of the gorgeous WLs & MLs out there

[yug]

I find I'm saving very cent I can to have a punt!!

If you go down this path, you will regret it in 5 years.
"Oh but I am not here for the long haul!"...That's what I used to say.

These moments with the Ladies are just momentary. In few years, you will remember only handful of them.
That's why punt few and make it count.

Everything in life is about planning. And I understood this a little late.
Plan on how many punts you wanna take per month.
I think you should not cross 2 punts a month. If you do, you are setting yourself for going overboard with the finances.
12 months x 2 punts * $200 = $4,800 is a ballpark figure you should think of spending per year on punting.

It's very important that you keep it under $5000. At max, $10 K a year.

Don't listen to cliched phrases that punters drop such as:
1) Life is short, enjoy it: If you don't have money, life will not be short. It will be long road ahead that you won't enjoy.
2) Live in the moment: True. Live in it and forget about it for next 2 weeks.
3) You only live once: That's why try to enjoy your full life; not 1/3 of it where you enjoy and rest of it you regret financially.
4) I will always make money: Not when life throws you a curve ball.

If you come from money, go nuts!

[PervySage]

Brothels are addictive and I want to quit but its just too hard. The worst thing is when I am in Sydney CBD and see a nice Chinese girl, I just want to fuck but know I can't. Next thing, I'm balls deep in pussy. Honestly want to quit but can't.

Lol... I think many punters in a similar position

[frankyang]

part of me wants to quit to save money but i also want to keep going