Pt2 ruined by casual convo

[johndough]

Tried a girl I haven’t seen before today at one of my more local haunts and found a good common ground topic of travel, so she was quite chatty during the session but problem was the same convo carried over to pt2 and lacked any sensuality at all. Anyone had this problem before?

[dt333]

Put a finger in her mouth, easy fix

[AHLUNGOR]

Put a finger in her mouth, easy fix

I was thinking 🤔 about sticking a different and bigger and longer anatomy into her mouth 👄 instead........... haha

[everready 2]

I had similar experience this week. Lovely girl, but all of a sudden, I felt like I was talking with a close friend while she's wanking me off ALL the sexual tension is GONE!!! She really liked me as a client, and said she'd really like to se me again. Yes I could see her for coffee, as a friend, but to visit for the excitement we are after in a massage...no it has been killed by the conversation.

[itouch]

Keep talking dirty to her if you want to keep the sexual tension.

[Minathy8724]

As Ahlungor suggested put your stick into her mouth to stop her chatter.

Nope, never had this problem before. Slow and small flirtatious chat, but remain focused. If she stops remind her how relaxing and that her skills are great, she will continue if not, tell her to continue.
Be assertive but respectful to make sure you get what you were after and agreed, otherwise, you will have to do part 2 on yourself.

[rooter]

The artistry of the ML is to be able to switch from the friendly relaxed chatty vibe of part 1 to a sensual and passionate or cheeky and sexy part 2. The good MLs transition seamlessly from one to the other.

[walsta]

Theres a few occasions for me where the ML starts chatting about hobbies, eateries and places to go. This kinda just kills the Pt2 vibes completely
Now I just try stay quiet and enjoy the Pt 1 and just complement them on the Pt1 and let them transitition into Pt2

[sydpunt]

Funny I had similar experience too. The girl is very friendly, but i suppose the topic is not sexy. I realised when I kept quiet to enjoy the massage, they understand that you want to relax and stop the conversation. From then, part 2 is easy to build from sultry voice and dirty talk.

[AHLUNGOR]

The artistry of the ML is to be able to switch from the friendly relaxed chatty vibe of part 1 to a sensual and passionate or cheeky and sexy part 2. The good MLs transition seamlessly from one to the other.

Most of the chatty ones stop talking when I started to Spanish their big tits, like really concentrating to watch out for my cum shot.......... haha

Then I have to lift up her chin so she won’t be getting an accidental cum on face ........ lol

[Eclipsefun]

Most of the chatty ones stop talking when I started to Spanish their big tits, like really concentrating to watch out for my cum shot.......... haha

Then I have to lift up her chin so she won’t be getting an accidental cum on face ........ lol

LOL, AL! Same here. Everyone gangsta till you start fucking their tits.

That said if I had to choose between a chatty, friendly demeanour during part 2 or really really bad attempts at dirty talk I would pick the friendly chatty option. Of course a girl who knows how to be sensual and sexy would be the best choice of all, but there are few things worse than watching someone try to be sexy and speak like a porno and completely fail at it LOL.

[woods23]

Once i saw a young girl who would talk the whole session if u let her haha.

Over time...this is what I did- she talk while bj me nd we fck for a while then stop she then will carry on her talking ...more fck then she cum ..at the end is my turn to finish it off, fucking her hard nd fast ��...whole sesh of play nd talk.
Definitely get my money's worth;) ;)

[cmk76]

Once i saw a young girl who would talk the whole session if u let her haha.

Over time...this is what I did- she talk while bj me nd we fck for a while then stop she then will carry on her talking ...more fck then she cum ..at the end is my turn to finish it off, fucking her hard nd fast ��...whole sesh of play nd talk.
Definitely get my money's worth;) ;)

Someone we know... Haha!

[cmk76]

I had a Thai ML tugging me nicely, building up momentum... When all of a sudden she asks... 'Do you know how I can marry for visa...?!' I just looked at her in disbelief...

[Yougottabe]

Funny how most of us go to ML’s because women don’t talk us & then when a ML does talk to you too much you complain.

[asiafever]

As has been said would rather a chatter than fake dorry talk, or frosty silence. Have had a girl who could talk under wet cement with a mouth full of marbles, it was kind of funny how she would just say the most random shit in the middle of a b2b. Another girl and I were talking about all those usual things mentioned, food, travel etc. That lead to talking about girls from other countries, who we thought were sexier etc, it lead in really well to the next part of the session. Had another girl telling me all about her break up during the massage, which had disaster session written all over it, but actually worked out just fine when she started talking about how vanilla their sex life was.
As Rooter said the pros will guide conversation in the right direction (or slow it down) when the time comes for things to heat up.

[Carissawhore]

My last session with WL i lost interest during doggy style as she was playing loud music which totaly killed the mood, sometimes it happens mate

[Cuckhold3000]

I had to stop myself from talking too much recently since coming back to punting. I've started to choosing girls now that I know don't speak much English or Japanese so can I can focus a little and just let the mood do the talking. But i have had the session wasted because I actually found the girl super interesting and lost track of the time haha.

[woods23]

Someone we know... Haha!

Haha she's not young no more :grimace:

[Papana]

Girls can talk all they want during part 1, and focused on pleasing the customer on part 2. I prefer listening to her moaning than her talking :)

[AHLUNGOR]

Girls can talk all they want during part 1, and focused on pleasing the customer on part 2. I prefer listening to her moaning than her talking :)

Too much fake moaning while jerking you off could be off putting ?

[Papana]

Yeah. It is off-putting, I avoid girls who does that, specially when they moan like little girls.

[dwx]

I had that once as we connected well, so I offered to give her a massage where I said quiet and relax.

That worked well.

[Taragon]

Too much chatting I find a turn off. Playing with phone is an instant turn off

[avhunter]

I had some similar problem not with ml but with wl. We need to build a bit of rapport but not too much. You need to throwing the sexual things in early to spice the conversation. The travel story can leave for after the deed is done 🙂

[gentleguy]

I think a nice little chat at the start is fine, has to stop during part 2. Also chat at the end while getting ready to leave.

[local]

I think a nice little chat at the start is fine, has to stop during part 2. Also chat at the end while getting ready to leave.

some are just too quite.... and you can wish for some feedback....

[rooter]

It's like when you get on a plane.
The first thing I do is put on the headphones and avoid eye contact with the person sitting next to me, because I am thinking if I say so much as hi, how you going, and they are the chatty type, I am gonna be stuck listening to them for the next 12 hours! And there is no escape!

[yowser]

I had this experience before. The reason is because erections are affected by mindset, and if your mindset is altered you cannot achieve a good erection

[Panj]

I had this experience before. The reason is because erections are affected by mindset, and if your mindset is altered you cannot achieve a good erection
Yup. Agree. Second part has to be quite and intense.

[Eliza123]

I had a Thai ML tugging me nicely, building up momentum... When all of a sudden she asks... 'Do you know how I can marry for visa...?!' I just looked at her in disbelief...


Imao this one made me laugh hard

[GoldfishMan]

Most of the chatty ones stop talking when I started to Spanish their big tits, like really concentrating to watch out for my cum shot.......... haha

Then I have to lift up her chin so she won’t be getting an accidental cum on face ........ lol
You could accidentally creampie her nose that way.

[lucky59]

Like getting a haircut. Sometimes you feel like talking and happy for a chat, but nice if you’re giving those quiet vibes then the service provider will pick up on that. Personally some small talk for 10 mins of Pt.1 then nice relaxing sexy silence from there.