G'day, punters. I've got a story to share with a WL, but I'm not sure how it'll end. Can't really talk about it with me mates or family, so posting it anonymously here seems like me only shot.
So, here's how it all started…
I was breaking up with me ex last year and found myself at a suburban shop pretty often. There was this sheila I saw a couple of times, and I started getting a bit keen on her. On me fourth visit, I brought her a "decent" pressie (not designer brands or anything, haha), just stuff she mentioned she liked. I asked for her WeChat, and she gave me her personal one, saying something like, "we can stay in touch if I don't work here anymore." I thought she probably wanted to turn me into a long-term customer since I seemed like a nice guy.
We started having chats on WeChat, nothing big, no sales pitch, just chit-chatting. Sometimes she'd send pics of the food she cooked and etc. One day, I thought, why not ask this WL on a date? Truth be told, I started punting in high school but always stuck to the "root and scoot" rule. Never thought about asking a WL out. My ex always thought I had a girlfriend somewhere, but really, I just liked reading the "After Report" posts and having a bit of fun, eh?
I asked if she'd spend a day with me, and she said yes without hesitating. I booked a nice place, and we had a good time with food and wine. To me surprise, she didn't wear makeup. She later said that wearing makeup made her feel like she was at work. I learned about her background, situation, and all that. She had serious financial and family problems, which I reckon is why most WLs choose this line of work. On the way back, she said, "lots of blokes have asked me out, I never said yes, but I did when you asked." A sales pitch? I asked myself.
We kept chatting on WeChat. One day, she asked for help with something involving money. I said, "sure" without thinking twice. Not sure why, but I guess I already had feelings for her, and I could afford it. She joked, "are you worried I might do a runner?" and I replied, "I reckon you're worth more than that."
She's not one of those top-notch girls you'd usually see in the After Report section, but her body and personality are right up my alley. To earn more $$, she had to work longer hours and more shifts (sometimes 12-hour shifts for three weeks without a break). I could see the job was taking a toll on her, both physically and mentally. Eventually, she'd had enough and decided to take a break. She asked me to find a good place for her, so I booked one about 200km from where I live. She seemed stoked, sending heaps of photos and videos. We started having video calls at night. But then, she got caught up in some serious family drama again. She asked if I could come over for dinner. Me ex was still living with me and was about to move out. The breakup had already cost me an apartment, and I wanted it to be peaceful, so I said no. She video called me again a few hours later and asked if I'd come over, or else she'd accept a booking from a customer. I felt a bit pressured and said no again.
Things changed a bit after she came back. We didn't talk much for a while. One day, she video called me, asking for help and bursting into tears. I managed to sort her problem out in a few days. Similar drama happened again in a few weeks, and I quickly took care of it for her. She was really grateful for me having her back. We started going on dates again, and I eventually plucked up the courage to invite her to my place. She's been over quite a few times now. We had a root once at my place, but I'm not sure if it was her way of saying thanks or if she actually enjoyed it. Again I never asked for sex out of respect in those occasions when we spent time together. I also stopped visiting her in the shop.
Me next plan is to take her on a short trip, and she seems ok with it. Me feelings for her grow every day, but I know she's not in a position (work, finances, family, etc.) to have a proper relationship. I asked her once about her future plans. She said "she likes Australia but isn't sure what's next. Even though she's ashamed of what she's doing now, it's her only shot at sorting out her money problems and putting some savings away since she's already over 30."
I want to make a move on her, but I'm not sure what to do next. I don't think we have trust issues; we've known each other for nine months now. We don't have money problems, and WLs rarely send photos, make video calls or visit a bloke's place outside of work. If they do, it means trust—at least that's how I see it. But I don't want to push too hard and scare her off. Right now, she doesn't seem keen on a relationship either. I've read heaps of stories about WLs and guys over the past couple of decades. Most of these tales don't end well, and the moral is not to cross lines, but I reckon we've already crossed a few here. I remember a punter saying something like, to bail out a WL, give her the money or give her the visa. I'm not loaded enough to cover the money part, and I doubt she'd accept it if I had that kind of cash because she seems determined to sort things out herself.
Sorry if me writing's a bit dull, but you can't expect Fifty Shades of Grey here, haha. I'll keep the story going if time allows. All comments are welcome, but please be gentle.
Happy punting on the weekend, punters!