Does I need Viagra? You tell me!
I need advice please. My penis works well when I do it myself on my own. But when I’m with a night lady I can’t get it hard and so can’t she. After a lots of trying to make me hard she puts on the condom with her mouth and it get half hard, we try to just stuff it in her but I’m still very floppy. After a few thrusts of my hips I feel the blood starting to flow into my penis but then as soon as it gets half hard I feel the orgasm rising and I come. It happen now FIVE times in a row with five different ladies. Do I need viagra from the internet? Why is this happening?
Know yourself don’t judge yourself
These are complex issues. For example I am having trouble cumming even when well serviced and dedication by the ML to deliver the HE. If they don’t they feel the failure - did not deliver.
If you overthink the problem it becomes the problem.
I’m on the higher end of 65+. I get good hard erections early morning and at the start of a session. I use Cialis like an insurance policy before engaging with an ML. So even though I don’t cum the sessions are still sexually enjoyable.
Everything depends on the outcome you have in mind.
Unfortunately most MLS have a mindset that faster and oilier is better.
Our my last several visits I have not made it. Is it a problem - no I am researching to understand and fix it. Last session no go but next day watched some porn and blew a big load. That was an emotional release. I have been trying some fixes to free up the nerves associated with orgasmic.
So Cialis may be your go rather than Viagra.
I am planning a visit to an ML who on my last visit just did a fantastic job at EDGING. I was edged four or five times before succumbing to an intense orgasm. Should make her my permanent. Other MLS don’t have this skill and the understanding particularly the very young we meet.
If you are having trouble (do you have early morning erections - I do and rock hard) also evaluate your fitness level methods to get fit - bicycle riding can be a problem (due to damage to the nerves around the base of your own is) look at your diet etc etc
Don’t get paranoid but consider how to implement changes and work it and improve your mindset. I am using vibration to release the nerves around my pen is and lower back as was using a stationary bike to lose weight and frequently if not every session had or penile numbness which is indicative of nerve compression.
YouTube has some good instructional videos that show how the penis functions and the forces behind ejaculation.?
Most of life is in our minds and that is where sexual response resides.
Hope the above is of some use - I am a self manager - and hopefully will get a solution to my current dilemma.
Good luck -