I need advice on my situation.
Hi all Brothers in this forum.
I am cravox.77, just joined this forum less than one month. Found out about this forum not long ago and decided to join. Most of time i`m just silent reader. The topic that i like to read is about dating WL. Here is my stories.
I been punting since 2017, everything just normal see different WL everytime. Until mid 2078 met this WL really caught my eyes and my heart. I became her regular. Encourage her to quit the job. Supported her to take short courses which she
did and work part time outside sex industry. But the full time work still on. I asked her why she replied soon she will quit. I keep on going out with her , dating , take her to work, pick her up from work. Until one night outside the shop i was
waiting for her.
She came out and went with someone else. I had a fight with her over the phone. She said to me that i have to understand her doing work and was just her regular and nothing happen outside the shop that night between her and that man.
Which is somehow i understand and never argue with her anymore. Mid 2019 she told me she want to go back to her country. I asked her are you coming back she replied don`t know yet. She showed me one way ticket. On the day she`s leaving i
wait outside her apartment , i want to take her to airport. Guess what, the same bloke from the other nights with the same car turned up and off they go. I followed them and this guy just dropped her off get her baggage and just patted her back. No hug
no kiss. I went inside the airport to find her and finally i did. Not much words came out of our mouth. Just goodbye.
It was fucked me life after that. Took me a while to moved on and get back to normal. I was keep looking for her even though i know she weren`t there.
2020 pandemic didn`t do much punting. Then now 2021 i am back to punting again. Few months ago i saw her in one shop. She saw me , she refused to be in the line up. I asked mamasan what`s her name. Next visited booked her.
The first thing she said to me was '' I will treat you like normal customer. I am married now. I got husband''.
Till now all the things in the past that i did with her are repeating again. I learned the lesson. But emotions and feelings are so hard to control.
Any suggestion or advice for me will be helpful. What am i supposed to do now ? End it up ? How do i know if she is been honest to me now?
I apologized for the bad writing.
Sydney W W W - move over it
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Originally Posted by
DoMoSan
Hey buddy.
Better late then never.. but a piece of advice is to punt with your cock and not with your heart.
As much as us men want to be macho or strong...Guys hearts are fragile and gets broken easily.
It seems like you have invested heavily on this working lady. Don’t mean to be rude, but the girl is a prostitute and fucks for a living. You are not going to change her mind, you will never be her hero and save her from this industry. We all want to try and ask what if.. but unless you are millionaire rich.. you will not succeed.
And if you are millionaire rich you won’t focus on just one girl or a working girl.
Anyways... the point I’m trying to make is you had a good time with the girl, you felt a connection and maybe even love and got hurt. When money is concerned.. it’s not love. It’s only a transaction.
Just be happy you got out of that relationship if it even was one before it tears your apart.
Plenty of other girls in the sea. Soon you won’t even remember her. Just don’t get attached.
We are all brothers in this forum with one thing in mind.. punting and not a place to find love.
Take care
Great advise.
We always says can't trust on Work Weather & Women, it keeps on changing.
Sooner you move on, better for you. She used you and luckily you knew it sooner. What would have happened to you if you were moved together and such things would have happened? Once things happen, it happens for greater good. Take is positively and thank god that you are out of this misery.
There are many red flags when you get attached to ML/WL. They treat you well because you are their money source not because they care for you. Women do prostitution for money only otherwise they wouldn't do it. Once you show your emotional side they find constant source in you and threat you well. It doesn't mean they love you. If you take that mistakenly then it is your fault. Always better to use different WL/ML so you don't get attache to them. Women know that men think with their cock not with their brain and that's were we make mistake and get caught in the web.
Just move on. Life will throw many heart brakes so be ready.