Dick doesn't click and turn into a brick
Hi guys,
So sex is decent to good with the wifey. The majority of the time I'm able to get hard at will and all is good. No problems.
Ive only started punting this year and the nerves, anxiety, guilt are starting to slowly settle.
On occasion I get some decent eye candy servicing me and some flow with the ML during the session. However, my dick doesn't click and turn into a brick! And it wrecks the experience (esp if I'm offered part 3 and want to smash it). Resulting in most some cases a soft cum.
I think it's a psychological thing. I have connection with the wifey. I'm comfortable in a vulnerable state. Perhaps I need to see the ML regularly to fit into that sweet spot.
I just wanted to share this and get it off my chest. Also, incase others are currently in my boat with their partner, gf or wifey.
Cheers