1st Punt, Korean Model WL
This will be a recount of my disappointing first punt. I'll be trying to avoid identifiable info, not really meant to be an AR, more of a journal. (Feel free to PM if you'd like to exchange some info though.)
1st Punt, Korean Model WL
This is the very recent story of my first punt and first time with something other than my hand or a chunk of plastic.
Prologue
As explained in my OP, I'd been lurking and doing my research for over a month and finally had a relatively free weekend coming. I decided this was an opportunity and I wanted to seize it rather than wait for my next chance who knows when. As explained before, I was looking more towards agencies rather than a bordello, my reasoning being that going to a private apartment felt more exciting and exclusive than somewhere public that sees a lot more traffic. Actual privates seemed a bit too risky, particularly with my lack of experience. I looked for Asian girls (and agencies) since in my own experience (mostly looking at girls on dating apps) I generally found Asian (or especially mixed girls) more attractive so better chance of liking what I got even in the event she wasn't as expected, plus I always seemed to get more interest in return. I also pass the dreaded "Asians Only" restriction (hooray!) so low risk of facing rejection which seems to be a thing with a few of the higher end Asian agencies?
I'd added the contacts of some agencies with girls I had interest in for some time but hadn't contacted them yet. That Friday night I messaged agency 1 for the first time. Said hello, said that I'm interested in getting something booked for tomorrow and got directed to website roster. I got told the main girl I'm interested in is on break (despite being on the roster). A bit of communication difficulty trying to ask about some other girls on the roster. This agency was not looking too great I message agency 2 but get a response saying they're done for the day. So I give up on trying to make further arrangements for the night.
Next day around midday I try messaging both agencies again to see if I can get a booking. Agency 1 not particularly responsive. Agency 2 is better though, unfortunately the girl I was eying had disappeared from the roster; I presume due to being booked out or having stopped (probably could have asked but didn't). So instead I settled with another girl from Agency 2 which was available and located relatively close by. Not 100% my type from the pictures but not bad either. I also confirmed this agency had the policy of only 1 shot included: anymore was an extra and only available with a longer session. Not being 100% sure of the girl but also expecting that I would cum early, I decided to go with a shorter session without extras to avoid blowing my cash. Even then it was not particularly cheap (>$350, 40 min). It was a bit late to make a same day booking so I made the booking for tomorrow midday. The agent also confirmed with me this was my first time using such a service.
Footnote, Rude mama/papa-san:
I note that some people have said they had issues with the mamasan/papasan of these agencies and felt a bit of anti-non-Asian sentiment? I contacted them via Line which has my profile pic so they could probably see that I was Asian and I identified myself explicitly to agency 1 but they still came off as a bit rude. However, I don't think the rudeness was intended but more just a language barrier thing plus the mama/papa-san being a bit casual. All the communication was in English and agency 1 seemed to rely on google translate but in both cases I think they were ultimately pretty helpful and patient. I asked a load of basic beginner questions but they answered all my questions and I had some banter with Agency 1's papasan. Again, feels to me more like a lack of English skills, a causal attitude and likely them mimicking the sort of English customers use with them. Ultimately though, just speculation on my part.
The session
Sunday comes, I'm out of bed late and didn't get much sleep the night before. Not so much because I was nervous (I think) but more because my sleep cycle is complete shit. I also fapped the day before twice; as I mentioned before I was more worried ending the session early than not being able to cum at all. Anyway, on the edge of running late, I jump out of bed get dressed and and rush out without eating brunch. I speed walk my way over in 20 min. I manage to arrive on time at the apartment lobby a little sweaty but not exhausted or out of breath. I'm feeling a little tired (from the lack of sleep) and not so much nervous but "driven" with my goal to fuck this girl and have a good time.
So going in, I'm mentally feeling good trying to not get my expectations up too high but looking forward a good fuck; though physically I'm probably not in the ideal state. I open the door to the apartment and see the girl for the first time. She looks pretty good!
7/10 body. Not super slim nor fit but still fairly slim and well shaped. Pretty tall but still shorter than me.
8/10 face. "Pretty" is how I would describe it. Definitely nice and above average but no so amazing as to make me fall in love.
-C cup I'm really more of an ass man but she has some nice boobs, not really experienced enough to make an accurate judgement on boob size but I'd say a smaller C cup? On the smaller side of medium IMO.
6/10 ass. Nothing wrong, but nothing particularly interesting. Good smooth texture, soft but not particularly big.
Mid-late 20s. I felt maybe she's the same age as me or slightly older.
Her English isn't great which made communicating things a bit difficult. She often said words in Korean and sometimes Mandarin, I guess she thought I might understand?
She immediately tries talking to me in Korean which I cannot at all understand but I quickly clear up the confusion and we make a bit of small talk in broken English (I've never really been big on small talk). I hand over the cash and we move to the bed room. I try to get her so sit on the bed with me because I want to feel her body up a bit first which she awkwardly lets me for a little bit but then stops and gets us up, both naked (seeing her naked for the first time was pretty exciting) then takes me to the shower. She gives me some mouth wash then puts me in the shower. She rubs my body with soap and gives me a pretty good soapy reach around which gets me really hard then gets me to rinse off and towel off then wait for her on the bed while she does her own shower. While waiting for her on the bed I went soft. I also note she had a bite mark on one boob and on her waist (??) maybe would explain why she's not too keen being too touchy feely.
When she comes in I want to try have some cuddly foreplay but she gets me to lay down and starts giving me a BBBJ. It feels alright though I can feel her teeth scraping my dick a bit, she seems to use tissues quite a bit to wipe off saliva and pre-cum. To my surprise, it really doesn't feel that simulating, particularly in terms of what I imagined a BBBJ would feel like. It feels kinda good but nothing like it's gonna make me cum, very "soft". So I lie there for maybe 5 minutes getting my dick sucked and really I start feeling kinda bored and not fully hard. Finally she stops and puts a condom on me and asks me "you want me top or bottom?"
I opt for being her being on the bottom in missionary. This is also my first chance to get a better look at her pussy. In my curiosity I have a bit of a play with it, fingering and stroking it a bit. She makes some sounds but I'm not particularly convinced of the authenticity. When it comes time for me to put it in, between stopping the not particularly stimulating BBBJ, putting on the condom, moving into position and getting distracted seeing a real pussy for the first time I've gone soft again so she get's me to lie back done while she give me a BBBJ to get me up again then puts on another condom before getting back into missionary.
I penetrate her and it feels pretty...meh. I'd describe it as sticking my dick in a warm wet towel with a condom on. It really wasn't that stimulating, I'd say bareback into an onahole feels 10x stronger by comparison. I'm pounding her in missionary while she makes small moans which again don't feel particularly real to me but hey I probably have a distorted expectation of reality from all the hentai/porn. Looking at her boobs jiggle, looking at her face, looking where I'm thrusting into her pussy, I don't feel particularly aroused, definitely not the same way I do with porn or even my own imagination. Pumping away for a couple minutes trying to change the pace doesn't really seem to change how I feel at all (also a bit worried about going too hard), not really feeling much emotionally or physically I start feeling the boredom creeping in again. So I ask to change position.
She gets on top and starts riding me. Again, I'm not really feeling much. She tries bouncing on top as well as grinding her hips into me but to me it all feels pretty weak. So I'm just lying there starting to feel a bit bored, thinking of options to get my rocks off better. I think she starts getting tired so gets off my now fairly flaccid dick and tries getting me off in other ways.
Back to hand job, then BBBJ again (teeth still included). None of it really does anything for me. She's starting to seems a bit desperate and confused about why I'm going soft how to get me off. I suggest to her a few things: sucking harder, squeezing harder (hard enough she surprised it isn't hurting me), different techniques but again, even though its bare HJ and BJ it feels kinda meh. We try pussy slide a bit then condom back on again and back to cow girl but it's all still pretty meh. We try doggy style which I thought I would like more being an ass man but still pretty meh. I look at her, I look at us in the mirror, but again I feel pretty meh and start getting bored.
I stop and let me take care of her again. Again she seems to be getting pretty confused and flustered as to why she can't get me off. More HJ and BBBJ but I'm even less excited now than before. I also try having her on top with me thrusting up into her but again it felt pretty meh. I think I would have liked it if I could feel her body pressed against mine while I hugged her and fucked her from underneath but she kept her body arched and away from me. Again, communication was a bit difficult.
I found the most exciting (or at least the most interesting) thing for me was using my hands to play with and explore her pussy lol. She put a condom on my finger and let me finger her while I jerked off. Ultimately though we ran out of time and I didn't cum. She helped me shower again then I got dressed and left. Total time ended up being over an hour, about 40% of the time inside her, 40% BJ and other outercourse, 20% shower and other stuff.
Epilogue:
So leaving the apartment and taking a walk in the park my feelings were mostly disappointment that I didn't achieve my goal of having a mind blowing fuck let alone not even cumming but also surprise that the experience was so boring? unstimulating?
I informed mama/papa-san of my experience for which I only blamed myself. They expressed their pity and asked if I had time for another punt that day and recommended some other girls with top notch service reviews and a discounted price. I was feeling like I needed some time to reflect and didn't want to go emptying out my wallet before I figured out what the problem was and how to solve it (I might see if I can still take up that discount offer at the later time though). I also felt a bit guilty that her lack of success with me might damage her self-confidence and her standing with mama/papa-san despite it not really being her fault but at the same time watching her desperately trying to get me off without success tickled a bit of a sadistic thread in me.
Reflecting on it, I came to some of the conclusions already mentioned here. Probably over stimulated, I had wanked twice the day before after all. I was probably tired and stressed from work and lack of sleep so I should take better care of myself before my next time. Things probably could have gone smoother if I just let her completely take the lead; particularly considering my inexperience. I probably would be better off getting some experience with MLs first which would be more of a passive experience and also do much cheaper.
I didn't mention it above but while I was fucking her, staring at her body and trying to get myself aroused, the memory of my mum popped into my head a bit :vomit:. That really cratered my libido but I mostly managed to push it out and continue. On reflection, that made me think I might have a better time with a non-Asian girl so I can avoid those obtrusive thoughts lol.
So after wanking that night (successfully, confirming the plumping still worked) I decided I'll abstain for a bit until I could get a booking with a ML and see what that experience is like... TBC
Again thanks for reading my yarn. I would greatly appreciate any tips, advice or just perspective from a more experienced punter on how it sounded like.
TL;DR
Girl seemed pretty good but I probably wasn't in a great physical state. Tried some different things but nothing really worked for me. My main feelings in the bedroom were a lack of stimulation/arousal and boredom.