My Seeking.com (sugarbaby) experience
I read up on all the sugar related threads on the site (Note: I'm not selling subscriptions or ebooks). Sharing my experiences from Seeking after <1week of a subscription.
General obs:
Most openly discuss ppm up front within the app which was surprising. Understood that mentioning ppm would get you suspended. Initially my reaction was to suggest chatting on another platform. Some didn't respond after that but after seeing how often ppm is being mentioned I'm now just going with it. Half expecting a ban coming especially if I piss someone off and get reported.
Some girls are too good to be true. Chatted with a profile of a gorgeous Korean looking girl with a sleeve who immediately asked for ppm. Figured this was too easy so stopped talking and later saw a very similar looking Korean girl with a sleeve. Can't be sure if it was a scammer or a girl who made multiple profiles but so many girls out there to bother if she doesn't pass the sniff test.
On the other hand, some may be the real deal... Time will tell.
Notable potentials:
32 yo AB Malaysian girl. Profile was very subtle but found out she'd done some femdom/worship sessions previously but not PIV. Was open to it with me but asking 600 protected FS. Read previous reports that bbfs was common so I took a pass on this one. Didn't want to invest the time/effort and regret it now as we had a lot in common. Plenty of fish though.
31 yo from Beijing. Cute but was just travelling through. Ignored my question when I asked if she was open to intimacy one morning and said she needed a coffee. Figured she was just looking for a free meal so left it at that.
21yo Jap girl from Tokyo. Loves to party and has that carefree vibe that early 20s girls at OPM do. Because of that I didn't mind her asking for ppm from the get go (good with 500). Takes forever to reply on WhatsApp so probably working through all her options. Invitation for a drink still waiting for a response.
25 yo British arab - dark skin, tatts, curly hair, fit as fuck, great beach body. Was super eager for a long term arrangement mentioned needing to pay rent and wanting to stay for a few years. Reeked of desperation (apparently was into Asian guys lmao). I only commited to drinks and she wanted to be paid for that too as 'it's not a dating site'. Apparently doesn't know what 'mutual' means and wants to treat me with contempt AND take my money. A few girls like this on there but not wasting my time dressing them down before blocking.
21 yo cauc studying a similar field in which I work so we've got commonalities. Was open to intimacy but went quiet after I asked for some face photos. Still holding out hope but I may have scared her away.
29yo Latina with private face and bikini photos. Bangin' bod, petite, ass that's not overly thicc, but just a little bigger than proportional. A face like Miranda Kerr to boot. Slow to reply and waiting for her to add me on WhatsApp. Concerned how likely I am to think with the small head on this one...
29yo Asian (could get a straight answer on her ethnicity). Petite with a cute little nose and skinny thighs. The only one I've met irl and is new to sugaring, has had three bf's and only met with two other SD's who both turned out to be creeps. This sweet little thing offered to pay for my beer at the pub because I got dinner. We got to talking about intimacy and I get the feeling she has not climaxed before. May hit the jackpot if I give her the most romantic and passionate fuck of her life. Looking to meet later this week and excited despite her insisting on CFS. To be continued.