BEAUTIFUL WL and OLDER MEN
Normally I try to avoid arguing with the keyboard warriors, I always remember what an old boss once told me, don't try and argue with an idiot, they will drag you down to their level and then beat you with experience. Still, the shit storm that blow up yesterday after a harmless reply about a beautiful WL needs a place to comment. The tone of the vitriol was that us older and lonely men do have nothing better to do than think about young WL and read back our reviews and spend hours fucking these girls. The leap by our learned friend to the high moral ground was breathtaking. And it also became inclusive of other older men.
Why I visit asian WL is simple really. I like them. Some of the ladies that work in the Sydney scene at present are just beautiful woman.
Now how did I get to this place in my life. I am a baby boomer. For those who know what that means then they know that we have lived through the most exciting of times. We survived the sexual revolution of the 70's and the dire times of the Aids nightmares. More about all that some other time. Personally I have enjoyed an active sex life for coming up to 50 years. And I would like to think that I know what to do on a bed. I have worked hard all my life and done all the normal life deals. I have had lovers and partners. I have children and grandchildren. Own homes, businesses and properties. I am happy with were I am and I have always tried to look after my body, my mind and my soul. And it is this need to have a calm soul that has me still seeing WL.
One of lives little mysteries is the advent of women's menopause. This basically ruined my last long term relationship for no other reason then our sex life ceased. This should give all you hypocrites another topic to attack. I found the need for sex far outweighed the need to be faithful. So what does a 50 plus person do with his new found problem. The first efforts at relationships came with all the baggage that I was leaving. I then found a young woman who basically became a mistress of sorts, it was a rewarding time but like most things, came to an end when the need for more was required. Then it was a harmless meeting in a coffee shop to a beautiful korean woman that changed my life. I thought I just fortunate with the day but it turned out I was being picked up by a WL. Once I got over the ruse, which took about 1 minute, I had a fantastic afternoon and I stayed with this girl for seven months. My mistress problem was solved.
The downside with this world is that these woman all have a timeframe. If you are lucky, and I have been, then you can stay with them till they go home. They are here to make money and that requires that they will be with others. They will rarely let you into their heart and there will be times were the last thing they will want is to be with a man. They are working ladies. And you will fall in love with them many many times. I have learnt to deal with it by dreaming their dreams, living in the world that they want to live in and trying not to let them by part of my dreams. When the plane finally crashes you will survive. There will be pain but there will be wonderful memories.
So this brings us to yesterday. Thanks to brother caff3ry, I discovered chinese Valentines day. So while all you good citizens were venerating over my reply I found myself at 310 with flowers and in the arms of a beautiful woman. She calmed my soul and I made her happy. Life is good. There is but one rule. I will go to her while ever she will have me. Yes I am an old man, Yes I pay money, Yes she is young and beautiful and yes I am grateful. She also knows that I am kind, caring and affectionate and I look at her as a beautiful, beautiful woman.