500 per night? thats a great price and seems she's not about the money...
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Back in the day the Sugar Daddy/Baby thing was not very common and usually involved a very rich man sponsoring a girl, often keeping her in an apartment and paying her rent, maybe giving her a car, giving her a generous allowance, spoiling her with expensive gifts etc, and it was often an exclusive relationship - the Baby didn't see other guys, and the Daddy usually didn't see other girls or maybe if he was super rich he might be running a couple of babies at once.
But these days mainly because of the internet and various aps what people call Sugar Daddy/Baby is in reality just paying for an escort.
Basically it's just punting. Sugar Daddies are punters. And Sugar Babies are escorts.
Any bloke who has an average income of over 80,000 pa can be a sugar daddy.
80% of men have enough disposable income to pay $400-$500 to catch up with a girl and fuck her once a week.
And as for the girls, well they can call themselves Sugar Babies, but basically they are escorts or prostitutes.
There is nothing wrong with being a punter and there is nothing wrong with being an escort.
In fact there is everything right about it.
But this farcical nonsense of calling it Sugar Daddy / Sugar Baby is just nonsense.
Lets just call it what it is Prostitution. Beautiful, wonderful, magical, prostitution - the greatest invention of mankind :)
Some of my chats with SA girls seem to fizzle out. I start off conversational, trying not to be too creepy, but probably should try to make the chat more sexy.
On the other hand I find it fake and off putting if the SBs start using 'darling' or putting kisses right from the start after every single line of chat.
Sometimes it's them, not you. I've forgotten how many weeks it's been since I joined premium but I've my share of reply/no-reply and I always try to engage in thoughtful (engaging) conversation around their profile.
Some of their profiles said they want a connection etc but if they don't respond to my open ended questions - just shows they weren't really genuine to be with.
I have also been using the messages as a way to improve myself in staying "interesting" to talk to, cause I see it as a transferable skill in my everyday life.
Don't stop believing in yourself.
Hi Benny, great thread. I'm very interested in this topic as it's a potential alternative to the ML/WL option perhaps. Various questions will be forthcoming... Thanks in advance.
I find your observations very insightful.
To me it reveals and/or provides a hint to what their motives are. Certainly good Intel to use as an advantage and for timing. Could also apply to MLs when it comes to extras/tips.
Did you uncover these circumstantial insights from general revelations of numerous SBs you've interacted with?
Discretion is certainly priority for all the married and partnered punters here including me.
So what's a good balance approach, whats your practice? How much do you reveal about yourself to the SB?
Do you portray a certain fictitious but plausible profile about yourself and stick to that story no matter what or do you provide guarded information about you like your relationship status, type of work you do and area you around and set boundaries, rules, agreements at the outset then slowly open yourself up overtime once trust is established with a SB?
We are greedy and want both worlds. There's always a fear of being exposed, caught, black mailed or a SB developing feelings and that could spill into private life. The fear is real.
Would you be willing to provide some guidance, tips or notes to identify the scammers Benny?
I'm browsing on seeking and boy there's some decent eye candy. Some are IG model types.
From your observations and experience, what percentage of the pictures are genuine and is actually the girl? Maybe per city basis perhaps ?
Wish I had a FIFO job to visit in between cities. It'll make it easier to play and with some freedom. How often do you have pre-meets and especially sex meets within your city? Because at $300-$500+ (not including dinner and accommodation) over four hours would be VFM if I could sneak away for those hours. However I don't. How do you do it? Going MIA from the missus for extended hours and coming home at night without her suspecting anything? (Can't always return in your gym gear.. right?) What if ur missus wants sex? Does your dick recover that quickly?
Not really anything directly related to SB, but im in Surfers for a bit, and FML, the caucs are hot down here even the MILFy ones.
Id happily bang more than 80% of the caucs around here and im not really "into" then.
Wont have time to indulge or look around tor any RnT unfortunately!
Tbf though id assume any shops here wont have the kind of talent walking the streets though.
I've given SA a check but there's not much that really catches my eye in comparison with some young escorts. Maybe my account is limited to very few women so I'm not entirely sure.
I had a chat with a WL and somewhere snuck in between a blowjob, cunnilingus, and fucking and she said she did some sugarbabying (is that even a verb?) and she said she was charging $500 for a date and her friends were charging around the same. A "date" was catching up in a hotel room or sometimes the daddy's place if he was single. She said the unicorn sugardaddy most potential "babies" were looking for was a real old school one who set his baby up in an apartment, paid her an allowance, expensive gifts and fancy restaurants, but she said these guys were super rare, but she said she had a girlfriend whom had found one.