Don't sweat it bro. A few hundred bucks is nothing in the grand scheme of things. Small price to pay for a lesson learned.
If you hang around here long enough, you'll hear bros dealing with much more expensive mistakes.
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Don't worry about it, move on - I imagine it would be pretty easy to fall for one. Some of them would be experts at this. Maybe You got out of it pretty cheap and unscathed.
To the OP, if you had known her for 6 - 12 months and you really clicked, you would have nothing to lose, but after only a couple sessions, that's a bit suspect. These girls could pick anyone of their regular customers for meetings outside.
Thanks for the words guys, yep rather than confront her I'll just try others without blinders on. I do like Snow Lotus but this has put me off, time to check out some new talent at other joints.
Mate relax. WL/ML or not, many men make mistakes with girls and spend money in vain. You shouldn't blame yourself anymore than you would, had it been a normal girl who let you take her on an super expensive dinner and then disappeared without going to bed with you.
As many others said, you are lucky to have learnt a lesson at a very small cost. I am sure next time you will handle it better when similar situations arise.
Nice idea but a rather expensive way to get revenge!
Sorry to hear this mate. Many guys have been taken for a ride by these girls. I wonder whether this ML has screwed other guys by promising to meet up with them after the guy has purchased an expensive item for her. What made you deliver the item to her place before even seeing her outside? Big mistake. Go out and then see what happens before purchasing anything expensive.
I had a similar case with one Thai girl who wanted a LV handbag. I wasn't going to fall for her expensive tastes. Not only that, there was no promise of anything in return. For her, it was the thought that counted. Buy her what she wanted and then she would decide if she wanted to go out with you and to be your girlfriend. It appeared she saw guys with wallets full of cash. I saw the material girl immediately and didn't waste my time with her.
Hey solopuntsydney I have done this before, it can go in many directions, I would play it be ear and don't talk about money wait for her to mention it.
Just remember not to fall in love ...
You can always buy fake LV bags from eBay or Chinatown and claim ignorance when caught.
Hahaha lads all I can say is thank fuck I'm not at the extreme end of stupid & got my kick in the ass early! Also thank fuck this forum exists so I can vent to legend punters like yourselves & get something back to make the impact of it all a lot less 👍🏼
How do you discuss money in a nicer way?
I'd say as soon as gifts & presents are mentioned, back the fuck up & ditch it as it's pretty much gonna cost you. Gonna try Summerville today, never been before so looking forward to see if this'll be my return place👍🏼
Holy shit! Just broke my virginity at Summerville with Jenny. Not into long reporting but yes let's just say she's a great masseuse with a great body that finishes extremely well. Worth the trip, great place + Summer is great 👍🏼
Hi solopuntsydney
Looks like you have hit the jackpot. Good luck with your future dealings and be careful with the path you take.
On the other side, curious to know who the ML is..and how easy it is to get such an offer. Have been visiting RnT places for years now, QVB being the most I frequent to...
Would like to get along with some ML on a regular basis on the outside..