Spoiling a girl with large tips makes her greedy. Eventually when she expects every punters to tip her the same she'll be driving away business from herself. Then it's her fault for being jealous towards other girls for getting more customers.
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Spoiling a girl with large tips makes her greedy. Eventually when she expects every punters to tip her the same she'll be driving away business from herself. Then it's her fault for being jealous towards other girls for getting more customers.
Short response: BS.
Long response: Is that from PERSONAL experience or just a hypothesis? Hard to tell from your posts. As I've said, MY experience, NO. But maybe we swim in different pools, because the WG's I've known are VERY astute with a keen, well developed business sense.
I have no trouble with a girl moving up market as she establishes her market worth. That's just common sense. But even when they have, they've still said hi to me, it's just that their floor is now higher than my ceiling. And on a slow day... history can repeat. YMMV
Simple, she sent you a message that you understood. Amazing, certainly Asian languages use tones, but tone is ALSO very useful in English...
Ill tip well when Ive had a great experience and plan on a return visit. Ive found it makes a great investment on the next visit. Then ill level out. But average service get base rate tip. You know it when you'll definitely be booking again. I always go for two shot visits so on balance I dont mind decent tipping when its been an hour of hard work.
Everyone has their own methodology. MY experience, the first price I pay will always be the (expected) subsequent price with no further discussion needed. I don't tip. For me, perhaps with limited vocabulary, too difficult to explain a one-time tip. Paying less on a subsequent visit, I believe, could lead to confusion. As I've posted many times, my tip is return business which is appreciated. I never pay less - when required, I just don't return (or a LONG time to try again). But I have unilaterally upped the price when I know that the general market price has increased or to reward longevity. Finally, I will round up on the last visit when I know I'll be on hiatus, explaining such.
Bottom line: whatever works for YOU.
Personal experience. It's like back in the days when they advertise diamond service, took full payment but only delivered standard service. They sneakily put a condom on when performing BJ and turn their faces away when you're about to DFK. At the end of the session they follow you out the room straight onto the exit avoiding the reception just so that you don't complain about your experiences. Then again YMMV I guess
All this talk about tipping..... incredible. Do you tip a service provider because you feel the standard payment is less than they are worth, or is it because it makes you feel special, or because you want to show off that you are a better or more important man than the 10 to 20 other guys the girl has wanked or fucked on the same day?????
Do you tip your hairdresser?
Do you tip your house cleaner because she does a great job?
Do you tip your electrician or plumber?
Do you tip your taxi or Uber driver?
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When MLs ask for tips in exchange for extras I hardly call that a tip, it's basically off-the-books payment for a service like hiring your plumber friend to fix your toilet for a massive cash discount.
If we were to properly tip an ML it would've been the same way we'd tip waitstaff in the US - the tipping culture there is based on empathy for the waitstaff that are getting paid low base wages.
Seeing how most MLs are making lots of money from behind the door extras, the only time we'd feel like tipping extra money is when we feel like the ML is not making enough money for the day. Sometimes the ML is excellent but she just doesn't provide DFK, BBBJ/CBJ or FS only NHJ so it would be appropriate if the punter tipped extra when the ML provided an excellent heartfelt session - maybe she listened to his heart being poured out the whole session without being interrupted or judged as there are stories of punters who book sex workers not purely for the sex but mostly for the pillow talk their wives won't give them the time of day to.
Yep.
To me, at the time her tone absolutely reeked of desperation and her feeling that I was an ATM as the service received did not include anything new or even different yet the 'request' was for more pineapples which to me was a 'test of waters' to see how far I would go in the circumstances and one thing I do not accept is being pushed.
As for tone, to me tone is everything whether it be vocal or body movement as both can be a big indication within certain circumstances
This is more me as well.
Not really a person who tips a ML or other as I am not that kind plus it is not something that I have ever done no matter the job or service received.
To me, the ladies are service providers and I do not tip because we have agreed on a service for cost after they have 'quoted' me a price. I either choose to accept the price or not and we go from there where I get the service or we renegotiate to something more suitable for both..
1. Yes, even though my barber drives a newer and more expensive car than mine. But while some get haircuts every month, I'm more of a quarterly type, so I figure it averages out to keep me on the "give him an appointment when he wants" list.
Helpful hint: if you ever need to move through a large crowd, and you wear your hair long and shaggy, with a beard, just pull one side's shirttail out, look down, mumble nonsense LOUDLY, and start shuffling forward. That crowd will part like the Red Sea...
2. House cleaner? That's for you high falutin' folks. Me, I figure dust is just nature's way of showing me what I don't use. Doesn't bother me at all. Plastic utensils go in the recycle, and paper plates/cups in the garbage. That mold in the shower - I'm a biologist looking for the next super drug.
3. Electricians or plumbers, No.
4. Yes, in countries where it's expected. Otherwise you might not get picked up the next time.
5. WG - as I've stated, in general, no. Treat her the same as electricians and plumbers - she turns me on and cleans my pipes.
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Helpful hint: if you ever need to move through a large crowd, and you wear your hair long and shaggy, with a beard, just pull one side's shirttail out, look down, mumble nonsense LOUDLY, and start shuffling forward. That crowd will part like the Red Sea...
Love that Bro - just GOLD!
The way I see it, we use the term "tip" in punting very loosely and not in the general sense of the word.
I don't even consider the money that I give to MLs as a real "tip". It's just payment for her services, that's it. If I don't pay that money, I don't get the service at all. That's not the definition of a "tip", is it?
On the other hand, when you tip a waiter, that's a real tip because it's just money you pay "for nothing more". Whether or not you paid the tip, that waiter would've served you regardless.
So there's really no point in comparing the tip that we give to MLs, to any other instances of tipping. It's just not the same thing.
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