well said, there is wisdom in your words, thank you sir.
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Your memoir is a really powerful piece of writing, really personal, and from the heart.
Im sure a lot of people are reading it and can see parts of their own journey in your writing.
You make a lot of insightful observations about the Pay 4 Play world. You sound like a well rounded guy. Keep writing !
Thanks
'Generally speaking, Asian girls are dull in the bed according to my own experience'
Can you expand on this interesting comment a little? I honestly have never heard that viewpoint before. You then go on to talk about a Vietnamese lady, who is a firecracker in bed !
1. OP:
has plenty of money, wellpaid job, enviable partner.
his #1 need is exciting encounters with more girls who love him as a man (despite him having a partner already), not for his money, so that both his ego and libido are taken care of.
2. Girls:
have good looks, nice figure, young pussy.
her top needs are better life style(read: more money), stable respectable job, and a strong but caring partner to have a family with.
The mismatch is plain for all to see, hence the relationship between OP and those girls won't last.
The Vietnamese was a surprise and changed my view towards Asian girls, maybe because she was born and raised here in oz
Thanks for the original post, I appreciate your honesty. I also found the whole sugar daddy/sugar babes stuff interesting.
I'm not sure if you have answered this already but what exacy are you looking for from these ML/WL/SB?
N_S thats a fair point, but he seems he already has a wife/family and friends that would presumably offer the things you mentioned.
Looking for more than just sex with WLs/MLs/sugar babies etc is gonna end in tears, stress, getting ripped off, grief, getting used, regrets, guilt etc.
If you just punt and leave it at that then it's an enjoyable experience, and awesome fun.
And there is no point demonising the girls. They are just doing what they do.
So true. People wanting one thing to be something else
As you say, once people get their head around what punting is and isnt, its 100% fun and pleasure. It is not about finding attachment. Its enjoying an intense physical pleasure with someone else, and leaving with great memories, pretty much like a connesssieur samples a fine meal, then walks out of the restaurant, with his spirit uplifted and a smile on his face
He cant have that meal at home, he dines out for the experience, and for a price, he experiences lifes delights.
If my family, career, friends etc is my real life, then punting is my second life to get something that I cannot get in my real life. But after a while, I’m just wondering which is exactly the real life. They are probably not compatible but are they convertible and interchangeable?
Mate, this hobby is messing with your head.
The intense rush of feelings we get with a new woman is composed entirely of neural activity and hormones. That is all they are. Destiny didn't bring you and your lover together. We must remind ourselves not to attach more meaning to these encounters, and the emotions that result from these encounters. One of the most dangerous things that can happen is when your feelings override logic. You may make decisions or sacrifices that you would never make with post-masturbatory mental clarity.
All of this requires focus. Good luck.
Looking for love in all the wrong places ...
Sb 3 and 4 added. No judgement please.
'he apologised again but confessed that she was very uncomfortable in the room for some reason and concluded that she was not the right type of girl for me'
These are the feelings and emotions I definitely want to avoid entirely in life. My punting is a transient thrill, no cross purposes or emotional ambiguities
This is my confusion as well. If the first meeting is in the room directly it is purely physical and apparently she has been doing that for a while so I’m very confused what was in her head at that moment.