you are really messing with me BJ Hunter! lol
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That's probably true. If I am emotionally into a WL, I wouldn't want to write a report and like "wow, she is amazing! guys, come and fuck her....!" Not even mention her name in the forum.
So one thing for sure is that people who is writing an AR, they are not seriously or emotionally into this WL.
The other scenario is that when the WL you fall for, is telling you her connections with other punters like stay overnight in his place or hotel, hang out celebrating the birthday or Valentine's day etc...not sure how you guys feel.
No money mo honey bois, need huge amount of money to support
Yeah, thats all true. I never write about my best punts out of respect for the WL and secretly want to keep her to myself. And I know everything she does to me is probably repeated 5 times a day but somehow I just convince myself that was special to me. I know all this but I still fall for it after 10 years of punting... lol
Nelly, may I regale you with a tale of my (mis)adventures during the recent lockdown when I had the city and a ML all to myself for months?
If you go back and look around March or so I made some thread with a lame title like heart broken or something like that lol. To summarise, I've been punting for over 10 years and banged tons of good looking girls but never once got attached. Then, unexpectedly, I meet this beautiful Japanese girl in an upmarket (expensive) massage shop. I felt a genuine connection with her instantly and I could tell she liked me because when I touched her she was dripping wet. I'm like wow your pussy is so wet, and she said "cause I like you", I was hooked after that. I saw her like 2 or 3 times then lock down hit, shop shut down and I panicked thinking I'm never going to see this girl again. In desperation I called the shop and asked if the girl could meet me outside at a certain time/place and they were reluctant but said they'd pass the message on. I couldn't believe it when she actually showed up!
We had lunch together and then I saw her almost every day after that for months on end (outside in the real world). It eventually ended due to some personal circumstances and her going back to Japan but I am still in touch with her.
So my advice to you would be that if you like your ML and think there is a possibility of a relationship there I wouldn't be against it simply because she is a ML. I used to think I'd never date/marry a ML/WL but life has a way of changing our perceptions/expectations.
Having said that, if I were to go for a full on relationship with said girl there would have to be a discussion and agreement that at some point if she wants it to work too she's going to have to get another job. But, what harm is there to go on a few dates and get to know each other first? You might find after some time that there's nothing really there after all, in which case no harm done you can both move on. Or, you might find you both really like each other, which will lead to its own challenges.
IMO, if she's meeting up with you outside of work she probably does genuinely like you, at least a bit.
Of course, there are other alternatives to be considered here as well. Maybe she's looking to settle and get out of the business and sees you as potentially someone to do that with. That doesn't necessarily have to be a bad thing.. lol I don't know if I'm really selling this whole endeavour here..
all I have to say is, play the game. don't get played !
Dont do it if you can avoid it. (Asian shop girls specifically) Majority are here because they are the ones supporting their families, and their old age, - no pensions in China. Most live in the rooms in the shop, and dont see the light of day except for 4 days a month, (or to the RSL after work to smash the punting dollars back into the community) where they sometimes have a room they rent elsewhere... So, no matter how hard you try, when your mind wanders and thinks what they are doing, theres a very high chance its one of us, or some overtly obese sweating dude, or your grandpa's dick in her mouth for $50.. Then theres the extended booking that run through till late in the morning, and you know they are doing what you want to be doing... If they get time to stay, then usually too tired to play, and then ifs a rush to get them back to work for their 4 hour double booking with their friend that 'does things' and you are off to another shop to ease your tension...
Does your head in...
There is pension system in China from age 60 (m) and 55 (f) !
Never buy anything that floats, flys or fucks
Just rent :cool2:
Im with ya assent, ive lost $$ on all three when buying. Although if you are tempted to buy make sure its shiny brand new and maybe just maybe you wont loose as much.
Bro you are in the same bay as me over the last few years and nearly every year I have done the same stupid thing and I blocked these feelings as the years go by and you learn and move on. As many bro will say pay fuck and leave. Enjoy the moment and when it ends, you should end it as fast as it starts. Don’t bother thinking back and move on. So every year I move on to the next adventure and you learn and experience new excitement in your life. Plenty of pussies out there and plenty of them will want your money, let your money make you happy and don’t let it fuck you and your serious relationship (if you have a family or gf) up.