Healthy mentality for punting
Hey all,
Recently I had some difficulty separating emotions and sex with a regular escort.
Being relatively new to this hobby, I was ill-prepared for unexpected challenges.
There are also many threads and posts indicating others also have this issue.
I want to share a healthy mentality towards punting. This is for people who may not find this obvious.
They are providing a service to you. The mentality you have towards them should be similar to the person who makes your coffee, or the doctor who sees you, or your employee.
To have empathy for them, consider yourself at your job doing things the boss requires, or a client you are serving. It is a job and although the people you are serving can make it easier or even enjoyable, it is still a job and you would rather not be doing it. Same goes for these women, so don't try to make their job harder by bringing your feelings into it.
If a punt is bad, think of it like your cafe accidentally burning your coffee one time. Maybe it there is a pattern then it's time to find a new one. In the long run, it is always a winning strategy to be humble and generous.
Yes they are paid well but being entitled can hurt people. They still have a difficult job to present their best and vulnerable selves to you gents.
Thanks for coming to my TED talk.
