Originally Posted by
JohnJones
Thanks buddy, that was a much better constructive reply there compared to some triggered responses.
Yeah true, it gets really complicated when they start telling you about their personal life, all you want to do is to get down and dirty and only talk about favourite restaurants or bars.
I got one Thai girl who at the moment doesn't mind that I only see her once a week or so. At least I know what to expect when I see her, and she's probably okay without all that drama for now just because we're in the early stages and I haven't promised her anything just yet.
If however she suddenly starts ghosting me with no replys or stop picking up my calls I'm going to start leaving her and look for another. That's a sign she wants commitment and want you to chase her really hard.
For those telling me to break up with my partner, you really are 40 year old white knight virgins. In a committed relationship women do that out of their hypergamist nature - they want to feel as if they're a queen and you're the slave. This is just me teaching her a lesson in equality, so that she doesn't use her childhood traumas as an excuse for poor behaviour.
Grow the hell up LOL