yeah, thats an interesting topic. People cheat to fullfill a need. When I was married, the thought of punting never even crossed my mind. But after the divorce and being single, I'm like a raging punter.

For me, punting is paying for a service, cheating is getting emotional.

I guess for me to answer the question, it depends on the cheating wife. If she paid for sex, I would probably get angry but won't be a deal breaker. But if she cheated for love and connection, thats another story...