Hello! I'm new here so I hope my question is not too dumb but it's a serious one to me: do you tell the girl when you are about to finish?
I'm more talking about CIM/COF when the girl could be surprised. I tend to warn the girl I'm about to cum but it can be distracting for me and the girl (like if the girl didn't get it she can stop asking "what?" and bim it can get messy or stop you).
In another hand it might be more respectful to tell the girl you are about to finish if let say she is doing a starting BBBJ and you are not expected to cum so soon.
So I'm a bit puzzled about it. I'd rather not warn the girl not too kill the moment. What about you guys?