Seeking Arrangement Experiences?

[Johnisfun1969]

I have found doubles rarely interact the way we fantasise.

I've had a few where the girls double as a tag team. One is active at a time until the other one tags in. I even had one where the non-active girl would wait int he bathroom until her next 'turn'.

I've only had one experience where both girls were going at it at the same time. There were times when I was merely the observer and wondering where to fit. haha, such a happy thought.

My problem with the SA girls is that they are going to be working to a schedule and a plan with a time limit. My preference with SA is that girls do not have a time limit.

True they may be professionals or would have learnt that they are not going to get more money out of you if they stay longer. They are very strict with their timing. So are some other girls. I had acontact with one whos says she can only spend 2 hours no more. I thought this is back to brothels where the girl has a timer and goes off 10min before the hour finijshed for you to take a shower anb be out.

[hogansheros_breakout]

to be advised in future....

[gkpuntin]

Well done Shiba! Happy to see you had such a good time. She sounds like one of the good ones.

If you don't mind me asking, how long did it take from when you guys first messaged, to meeting in person?

I'm only one week in but definitely feeling the lack of engagement with the SBs, not sure if it's my profile or just the type of SBs I touch base with. One was conversing well and requested to view my private photos but after approval, where I asked her to kik me an extra photo of herself she blocked me lol.

How would you describe SBs have you been going for / have sparked your interest?

[heianth]

Hi heianth dont be discouraged by the slow response. I ad the same thing. What I undertsand is lot of girls are sitting overseas and kind of not really into meeting. Specially the new profiles that pop up and the girls are 18-22. They look really hot but either are testing the waters or only enjoying the excitement of teasing men. Just be patient and also try to be discreet. Sometimes when I have mentioned hotel or something leading to sex some of them block you straight away. They are here for geting rewarded to get intimate woth older men but still dont want to be seen as escorts. Maybe try changing your filters or try girls older than 24-35. They may be more confident and willing to meet. There are plenty of girls who dont hide the fact they are in financial trouble and need help quickly.

Good luck .

Appreciate the pep talk John. I've changed my profile to help set (more) expectations so-as not to waste time and I've learned from reading these posts to aim for mid-20s etc. My profile and all intro messages I've only proposed a meet-and-greet first, to see if we gel well and minimise the pressure. Glad to hear this is a hazing period but will keep at it till my subscription ends and then back to the ol regular life

[heianth]

How would you describe SBs have you been going for / have sparked your interest?

Great question - I engage with ones where they have something interesting in their profile (About Me + Seeking) that I can work off. Age is a factor as well and the ones that pop up on the top of my list are early 20s so I may have to be really strict now and look for 24+ like John suggested.

[Shiba]

@Heianth Hi mate, with this particular girl it took 2 days until she actually wanted to meet. We took the chat off line and from there she wanted to see photos of me which I send. After looking at my photos she agreed to meet up at the hotel to my surprise.she did cancel on the day that we where suppose to meet due to that time of the month and she was so apologetic about it told me to meet up the following week, which we did last week.

Don’t be discouraged by the lack of engagement, like all the bros mentioned here, the girls usually pick and choose to see who they want to see or are busy with other SD. Just need to be patient if they don’t text back jus keep looking there’s plenty of women in there.

I’ve been in SA for 3 weeks and I only manage to see 1 for meet ups the rest jus bn texting with them. Mind you I’m more looking to the Asian women more except with the current one I’m seeing, she’s an exception due to us clicking.

As long as your upfront to them about yourself and don’t bullshit to them you should be good mate.

Currently I’m texting 3 other girls since yesterday 21-26 age bracket 2 replied back now jus waiting for them to get back to me.

[Shiba]

How would you describe SBs have you been going for / have sparked your interest?

Good question, we’ll for me would be someone that I can click with when msging with them. Asking them to be transparent, honest, discreet and upfront 100% of the time they will be discreet. Ask what they are looking for if they do want to meet up. Eg short/long term arrangement etc. it might not work with everyone though. Just be yourself about it when you do happen to meet the girl, because these girls knows when your bullshitting from miles away.

I’m not the best to ask this type of questions though as I’m only new to this SA game. Bennyb n Riff888 can share more regarding this.

[Shiba]

Well done mate good to see you had a good experience. Just to let you know most girls ask around he $500-800 mark. Then when you meet them regularly you can come to a fair arrangement and most will accept something reasonable.

Thanks for the reply mate. Will gauge how she reacts when I give her $600 for the duration of 5 hrs of her time tomorrow.

[hornedbeast]

What did she wear to the hotel?

[apokalypse]

$700 already for first time and one time meet only? is it that abit too much?

upfront about sex thing?

[Shiba]

What did she wear to the hotel?

Jeans and business shirt.

[Shiba]

$700 already for first time and one time meet only? is it that abit too much?
upfront about sex thing?

I don’t think it’s is considering I spend 3-4 hrs with her and wasn’t rushing like at the brothels. I think some bros mentioned here that’s what the going rate is. If I’m not mistaken.

No, she wasn’t upfront about it. You still had to do the work. She didn’t know I’ve booked the hotel already. When I told her about it she just smiled and said your well prepared. She said what happened if I didn’t click with you? I said well money down the drain,but told her we click anyway so all good. We both had a laugh

[gkpuntin]

I don’t think it’s is considering I spend 3-4 hrs with her and wasn’t rushing like at the brothels. I think some bros mentioned here that’s what the going rate is. If I’m not mistaken.

No, she wasn’t upfront about it. You still had to do the work. She didn’t know I’ve booked the hotel already. When I told her about it she just smiled and said your well prepared. She said what happened if I didn’t click with you? I said well money down the drain,but told her we click anyway so all good. We both had a laugh

Sounds like a great find mate - well done! Keen to hear how the next meet up goes.

[apokalypse]

I don’t think it’s is considering I spend 3-4 hrs with her and wasn’t rushing like at the brothels. I think some bros mentioned here that’s what the going rate is. If I’m not mistaken.

No, she wasn’t upfront about it. You still had to do the work. She didn’t know I’ve booked the hotel already. When I told her about it she just smiled and said your well prepared. She said what happened if I didn’t click with you? I said well money down the drain,but told her we click anyway so all good. We both had a laugh

seems she's the girl where money isn't the factor or worth it but need to careful not fall in love..

[Johnisfun1969]

I don’t think it’s is considering I spend 3-4 hrs with her and wasn’t rushing like at the brothels. I think some bros mentioned here that’s what the going rate is. If I’m not mistaken.

No, she wasn’t upfront about it. You still had to do the work. She didn’t know I’ve booked the hotel already. When I told her about it she just smiled and said your well prepared. She said what happened if I didn’t click with you? I said well money down the drain,but told her we click anyway so all good. We both had a laugh

Mate you were lucky the girl turned up. I had 2-3 cancellations. Twice was with the same girl. They don’t care if they are meeting you for the first time. I would not book a hotel in advance. Better to find some hotels in advance that are not too expensive and book them online if things are working out. The girl may only spend 2-3 hours in the room. Going for high end hotel is only adding to your total cost. If you are meeting them during the day then au.dayuse.com is a good option. As lot if rooms around $100 for good 5-6 hours are there. There are some hotels like Holiday Inn Potts Point that are till 11pm. Others may offer discounted rates for the full night anyhow like Oaks apartment near darling harbour.

[hiduba]

Mate you were lucky the girl turned up. I had 2-3 cancellations. Twice was with the same girl. They don’t care if they are meeting you for the first time. I would not book a hotel in advance. Better to find some hotels in advance that are not too expensive and book them online if things are working out. The girl may only spend 2-3 hours in the room. Going for high end hotel is only adding to your total cost. If you are meeting them during the day then au.dayuse.com is a good option. As lot if rooms around $100 for good 5-6 hours are there. There are some hotels like Holiday Inn Potts Point that are till 11pm. Others may offer discounted rates for the full night anyhow like Oaks apartment near darling harbour.

That’s good info. Thanks for sharing

[BennyB]

Btw I’m meeting up with her again this Friday this time will be for about 5-6 hrs, will update again how this plays out.

Bro Benny/Riff888 how much you reckon I should give her this time round.

Cheers guys hope it was too long to read.

Sounds like an excellent first experience and you both enjoyed it. You need to reflect on how often you want to see her, if it is going to be a regular thing for you both and then what would be a good outcome for both of you. If you feel like it will be ongoing then I would be suggesting something like 3 meet-ups a month for a monthly $1,500 paid fortnightly (for example). This way she gets financial certainty, albeit at a price point that would be more manageable.

It's pleasing to hear that you enjoyed the non-sex part of it. There is something to be said for just enjoying the romance without the relationship.

[BennyB]

I'm only one week in but definitely feeling the lack of engagement with the SBs, not sure if it's my profile or just the type of SBs I touch base with. One was conversing well and requested to view my private photos but after approval, where I asked her to kik me an extra photo of herself she blocked me lol.

A lot comes down to how you engage. If you have only been on for a few days, don’t be dispirited. Every interaction is a learning experience.

I tend to favour a patient approach. I was going too fast at the start and making mistakes by burning leads and hooking up with girls who just wanted to fuck and run. The book on Sugarbabes advocated taking a slower approach and with good reason - I changed up the way I engaged and started meeting more interesting women who were not all about the money.

Yes we want to get laid and laid quickly. But think about it from their perspective as well.

[heianth]

A lot comes down to how you engage. If you have only been on for a few days, don’t be dispirited. Every interaction is a learning experience.

I tend to favour a patient approach. I was going too fast at the start and making mistakes by burning leads and hooking up with girls who just wanted to fuck and run. The book on Sugarbabes advocated taking a slower approach and with good reason - I changed up the way I engaged and started meeting more interesting women who were not all about the money.

Yes we want to get laid and laid quickly. But think about it from their perspective as well.

Thanks Benny. The weekend helped cause I could spend the day not looking at my phone but was definitely rapid firing. Changed my profile and looking at different direction at engagement so let's see how it goes.

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[Joe1956]

Just wondering what success 60+ Guys have had on this? Having the sugar is one thing, converting it is another