My psychology has progressed like thus:
Nervous on entry and sometimes on sending that first text or calling up for the punt. This remains while other stuff has dissapeared. Still feel sick walking up those steps or in elevator, but its minimized through the years.
I used to appologize in mind about the girls position. Imaging they are poor and there family needs the money.
Now I look to please myself by seeking girls that are true sex freaks. Knowing Im supplying a service back. Feel good about these girls hearts and my relief.
Note: Im single and am always shocked about the story of married men numbers...but honestly Id be one of those too. Cant let go of the life style. And it is a life style. Caution around your phones visibility. Time out for searching. Recreation even.
"Love it or Lose it"