Long time reader here, but only a new poster.
I want to open a dialogue in regards to first punt nerves and/or guilt.

I imagine many of you are in relationships and have families, and just punt for a bit of manual release on the side. As am I, as I’m sure you’ve already worked out. Happily married, but obviously our sex life isn’t amazing at the moment due to hectic work schedules and cock-blocking young kids.

I attempted my first punt yesterday and, long story short, declined the offer of extras after a less than ideal lead up in part 1. Prior to entering the establishment, I suffered great nerves/anxiety in the lead up, and now feel guilty for even attending such a facility in the first place, even though nothing happened.

Now I’m not here for a lecture on what is/isn’t right when in a relationship. What I want to know, is how did you get over the first punt nerves/guilt in this scenario? And did you continue punt through these feelings?

Thanks in advance for your insight.