I need advice on my situation.

[cravox.77]

Hi all Brothers in this forum.

I am cravox.77, just joined this forum less than one month. Found out about this forum not long ago and decided to join. Most of time i`m just silent reader. The topic that i like to read is about dating WL. Here is my stories.

I been punting since 2017, everything just normal see different WL everytime. Until mid 2078 met this WL really caught my eyes and my heart. I became her regular. Encourage her to quit the job. Supported her to take short courses which she

did and work part time outside sex industry. But the full time work still on. I asked her why she replied soon she will quit. I keep on going out with her , dating , take her to work, pick her up from work. Until one night outside the shop i was

waiting for her.

She came out and went with someone else. I had a fight with her over the phone. She said to me that i have to understand her doing work and was just her regular and nothing happen outside the shop that night between her and that man.

Which is somehow i understand and never argue with her anymore. Mid 2019 she told me she want to go back to her country. I asked her are you coming back she replied don`t know yet. She showed me one way ticket. On the day she`s leaving i

wait outside her apartment , i want to take her to airport. Guess what, the same bloke from the other nights with the same car turned up and off they go. I followed them and this guy just dropped her off get her baggage and just patted her back. No hug

no kiss. I went inside the airport to find her and finally i did. Not much words came out of our mouth. Just goodbye.

It was fucked me life after that. Took me a while to moved on and get back to normal. I was keep looking for her even though i know she weren`t there.

2020 pandemic didn`t do much punting. Then now 2021 i am back to punting again. Few months ago i saw her in one shop. She saw me , she refused to be in the line up. I asked mamasan what`s her name. Next visited booked her.

The first thing she said to me was '' I will treat you like normal customer. I am married now. I got husband''.

Till now all the things in the past that i did with her are repeating again. I learned the lesson. But emotions and feelings are so hard to control.

Any suggestion or advice for me will be helpful. What am i supposed to do now ? End it up ? How do i know if she is been honest to me now?

I apologized for the bad writing.

[beta101]

Don't be a cuck. Kkthxbai

[rooter]

Forget about her bro.
Move on with your life.

[Thomash]

Honestly as other said forget and move on. There is another thread called dating WL or ML that you should check. General consensus is that you just go in and get out punting no strings attached. Easier said than done for some people.
She clearly told you that she is married and she has no interest in you. The truth is that for the few years you encouraged her to quit her job she never did. She went back to her country. Doesn't matter if she has been honest with you, most likely she wasn't. You went to the point where you followed her and the other regular and it's a bit creepy (sorry to be blunt).
Respect yourself and force yourself to not see her. Sometimes if you are too nice WL will take advantage of that. If she ever wanted to be with you I guess she has your number or contact somewhere.

[Discotech]

This is the wrong place to ask for advice

I recommend seeking professional help it’s very common nothing to be ashamed off but asking here is the wrong idea half of the shit people right here isn’t true

[liminal]

Keep writing ... keep it up keep scribbling

[Sanprett]

At least you can still pay to fuck her.

[alc]

This was just painful to read...

To the OP you're just not the sort who will win in the dating a SW game... This never turns out well for wannabe saviours.

Like the other guy mentioned. Cut her out of your life and don't look back. She heroin for you.

[Carissawhore]

I am guessing from his writing OP is immigrant and has no family nor friends here, staying alone by yourself in strange country make you wanna do stupid things for sake of companionship. I would suggest you to find new hobby, there are so many threads about dating WL and ML and is not for week hearted. If you cannot control your own emotions and feelings then find some help and there are plenty of free consultations online and over the phone.
You sound like a good person, trying to help WL to find different path but you should know that they are in this industry for easy money, once they see how easy it is make money they will never go back to regular life.
Punt until your heart is full and balls are empty.

[kingqxxx]

This is the best piece of advice you will ever get.

Go out there and fuck a thousand WLs. You still wouldn't forget your beloved since she is your first one, first one always stick. But I guarantee that you can laugh about it by then and could talk about it openly without hurting . Don't believe me? Try it out ;-)

If you want to move on by tomorrow morning when you wake up? sorry there is no such thing.

[cravox.77]

I am guessing from his writing OP is immigrant and has no family nor friends here, staying alone by yourself in strange country make you wanna do stupid things for sake of companionship. I would suggest you to find new hobby, there are so many threads about dating WL and ML and is not for week hearted. If you cannot control your own emotions and feelings then find some help and there are plenty of free consultations online and over the phone.
You sound like a good person, trying to help WL to find different path but you should know that they are in this industry for easy money, once they see how easy it is make money they will never go back to regular life.
Punt until your heart is full and balls are empty.

Thanks for the responsed.
Yep i`m immigrant. I am far from good person , i was trying to help her because i am falling for her.

[hexenducation]

I'm really sorry to hear about your situation.

The best advice: try to move on. There really are many more fish in the sea.

It would be a rare relationship indeed that would see a WL falling in love with a punter. Sad but true. I'd have to say the majority of WLs see the majority of punters as nothing more than easy money (some customers are harder than others - some are out-and-out cunts - some become friends, but most customers are simply respectful guys paying for sex, rarely pushing boundaries with a WL. The punters that become infatuated normally become easy money for the WL pretty quickly.)

We've all been there to a greater or lesser degree. No shame in it.

Truth is girls just don't trust bad guys, and we're bad guys because we fuck women we fancy for money. No girl I know would trust a guy who sees hookers, just like no man I know wouldn't be jealous of a girlfriend who has sex outside of the relationship.

I would say rarely, when a WL falls for a punter, she is driven to despair over her hopes, doubts and with the knowledge that he's fucking other women. Some women he's fucking would be her friends or colleagues.

I think the only way to be sure that a WL is really falling for you is if she avoids working, or stops altogether. And then the only right thing to do would be to give her what she's working for: a place to stay, college fees, a visa, an exit from a bad relationship, or whatever.

There are always exceptions of course, but generally speaking WL-punter relationships fail more often than regular relationships fail (keeping in mind that over 50% of long term regular relationships end in separation or divorce in Australia).

Sorry. You've just to be strong and move on. The alternative to moving on doesn't bare thinking about.

[clubsport]

Agree with everyone on here, get her out of your life.

[Peterpecker]

Agreed. You are not in the saviour business. You go to the shop for sexual fulfilment. Nothing more. Put it aside.

[bbfa]

Everybody wants to think they’re special, that the people they meet, they things they do, their experiences, etc. Can’t make a wife out of a hoe, bro.

If you absolutely must, you can go fall in love with another WL and repeat the cycle. At least that will distract you for a while.

[CantCme]

Dude you’re very stalkerish I hope you don’t kill this bitch

[Rogeryou]

Move on fast don’t waste a second of your time, they are not girlfriend material and they certainly are not wife material. They will use abuse and lie to you man they are in it for the money and or residency.
If you are lonely you just have to be patient and try and find a girl through normal channels. WLs are there just to pay to fuck and have fun with. As lonely as you are be realistic!

[quackm2002]

You need professional help, not advice from a forum. The fact that your preferred reading is threads about dating WLs shows you’re living in a perverse fantasy world.

Face the facts - she fucked you over before and you were a sucker and you want to go back for seconds?

Where is the Niceguy?! Talk to this clown!

[DoMoSan]

Hey buddy.
Better late then never.. but a piece of advice is to punt with your cock and not with your heart.
As much as us men want to be macho or strong...Guys hearts are fragile and gets broken easily.
It seems like you have invested heavily on this working lady. Don’t mean to be rude, but the girl is a prostitute and fucks for a living. You are not going to change her mind, you will never be her hero and save her from this industry. We all want to try and ask what if.. but unless you are millionaire rich.. you will not succeed.
And if you are millionaire rich you won’t focus on just one girl or a working girl.
Anyways... the point I’m trying to make is you had a good time with the girl, you felt a connection and maybe even love and got hurt. When money is concerned.. it’s not love. It’s only a transaction.
Just be happy you got out of that relationship if it even was one before it tears your apart.
Plenty of other girls in the sea. Soon you won’t even remember her. Just don’t get attached.
We are all brothers in this forum with one thing in mind.. punting and not a place to find love.
Take care

[WhoAmiInSydney]

Hey buddy.
Better late then never.. but a piece of advice is to punt with your cock and not with your heart.
As much as us men want to be macho or strong...Guys hearts are fragile and gets broken easily.
It seems like you have invested heavily on this working lady. Don’t mean to be rude, but the girl is a prostitute and fucks for a living. You are not going to change her mind, you will never be her hero and save her from this industry. We all want to try and ask what if.. but unless you are millionaire rich.. you will not succeed.
And if you are millionaire rich you won’t focus on just one girl or a working girl.
Anyways... the point I’m trying to make is you had a good time with the girl, you felt a connection and maybe even love and got hurt. When money is concerned.. it’s not love. It’s only a transaction.
Just be happy you got out of that relationship if it even was one before it tears your apart.
Plenty of other girls in the sea. Soon you won’t even remember her. Just don’t get attached.
We are all brothers in this forum with one thing in mind.. punting and not a place to find love.
Take care

Great advise.
We always says can't trust on Work Weather & Women, it keeps on changing.
Sooner you move on, better for you. She used you and luckily you knew it sooner. What would have happened to you if you were moved together and such things would have happened? Once things happen, it happens for greater good. Take is positively and thank god that you are out of this misery.
There are many red flags when you get attached to ML/WL. They treat you well because you are their money source not because they care for you. Women do prostitution for money only otherwise they wouldn't do it. Once you show your emotional side they find constant source in you and threat you well. It doesn't mean they love you. If you take that mistakenly then it is your fault. Always better to use different WL/ML so you don't get attache to them. Women know that men think with their cock not with their brain and that's were we make mistake and get caught in the web.
Just move on. Life will throw many heart brakes so be ready.