It’s 110% good enough to send your missus packing. It’s 120% enough reason to put any bloke on his arse!
I have never stood for it from anyone and never will. You have to have a standard and respect for yourself, it should be part of your boundaries!
For me I am straight on the front foot and make it very clear. Ppl that do that are cunts and often try and disguise it as a joke. I always call it out even if it’s not directed at me.