Can't argue with any of the points here. Single life is the best way of life for a punter hands down. No competition.
Being single has its perks, more money in your pocket, freedom to do what ever you want, you will sleep like a baby knowing you don't have to worry about other guys fucking your wife/partner. All relationships will come to an end or will become stale after some point and resentment starts between each other. Elon Musk is our only hope, if he starts making sex dolls then we do not have to worry about child support, alimony, mood swings during periods...Originally Posted by GoldfishMan
Got kids so I wouldn’t remarry even if go through divorce.
Pumping 20 somethings for me until my dick stops working
Marriage is a sham. Don't do it.
Anyway, I've been having the best solo sex.
Have some friends that were divorced prior to COVID and others that are getting divorced (partly due to COVID redundancies, dull or non-existent sex life, getting on each other's nerves & wives ballooning-up after kid/s), asked them this & almost all of them said that marriage in this day & age just isn't worth it. To much downside & not enough up side. "Why buy the cow when you can drink milk for free?"
Common issue brought up being that the women don't have the same staying power as the Greatest Generation. Women wanting to throw-in the towel after the smallest issue.
Many have tried re-entering the dating market - near impossible during COVID & that the girls these days having huge requirements list (even the dogfaces), social media creating girls with highly inflated opinions of themselves & the juice not being worth the squeeze. Friends being from different financial situations all were swindled in the courts, especially the ones with kid/s. The saddest part is the mothers poisoning the kids minds against them.
Many have said will stick to punting. Cheaper in the long run & have been more happy mentally without the bickering & fights.
-Matt-
This 1000%.
In regards to your kids, respectfully I think as they get older they would appreciate your side in your former marriage & come to the conclusion that your ex wife wasn't all sunshine & rainbows. The kids should love for you to be happy & turn a blind eye to the age of the girl keeping you company.
Veey good idea re having all assets in a trust. Just see a Wills specialist to create a iron tight Will & not live with the Filo or Thai bird.
The weekly session would also be younger, tighter & not be a drain on you emotionally causing headaches. Would probably live longer also.
-Matt-
Kids would probably understand and appreciate parent’s sacrificing, including their affairs, if the marriages are terrible. However, if they can feel the bad relationships (domestic violence, parents ignore family’s existence but just be irresponsible to family, etc), they probably have miserable childhood and it would affect their outlook on life. Some would feel ashamed of unhappy families that make them want to stay away from their parents till they are mature enough to understand the situation.
Great post! It amazes me that many women have a checklist when they personally have absolutely zero to offer in return.
Hahahaha agreed.
I can't be bothered with my (unmarried) missus . . . am already planning visits for when I go back to work and there's 3 places closeby
OMG It seems few of the married men are not getting enough tlc at home. Or could it be because they are not satisfied at home they are punting and on this site. Well my case is different. Me and wife don’t get along and did not have sex since almost 9years. It seems the wife wanted to continue have sessions but I could not deal with her attitude and constant fighting on small things. I decided to sleep in spare room and been better since . I am in the relationship only for the kids who are growing up now.
Not sure of marrying again but I had more intimate times with girls overseas than in marriage since my second one was born. On top of this my wife does not work, lazy and walks with a chip on shoulder. I think some women are just crazy and can’t keep it together. Hopefully move out one day and get a regular girlfriend or enjoy life visiting Asian countries. Seeing some of the reviews here tempted to try few stars with raving reviews. If it was not for the porn sites life would be very dull.
yeah my kids already wana live with me but the ex has been resisting all the way.
Same as most nothing for close to 2yrs i got outta there, was a bad divorce, lost most of the wealth, rebuilding again...
Just wondering do you have to pay money to your ex wife also. If I have to pay half the salary there won’t be much left to live off let alone punting. My wife does not work and if she finds a job won’t be paying much. Just weighing up which is worse married and miserable with little money or divorced and miserable but poor.
Almost 90% of relationships turn into relationshit at some point, my marriage broke cause I caught my wife cheating after 6 years of marriage, she took everything I had in the divorce and her parents being lawyers did not help. My recent relationship broke just few months ago cause she fell in love with someone else. At this point I realised it is not even worth having relationship, I have made my peace to fuck as many WL's as possible and enjoy life to its core. Social media has fucked up girls ego, always posting their body to get some likes on Instagram. Marriage is a modern scam for girls to take all your shit without contributing little to none. Going through divorce fucks you mentally and blood sucking lawyers are like salt on the wound.
Great marriage but the meds my wife is on have killed her libido. Sex is great but it happens once a month at best. I go to MLs once every couple weeks or so to take the edge off but since lockdown it's been me and my hand haha
I have to admit I'm so much happier after the divorce. There were some terrible times...my eldest daughter 9 slipped me a note while the ex was screaming and ranting at me. Later when I read it it said "I hate you for what your doing to mummy and I hope you die." I still have it and we laugh about it now but I can tell you it hurt at the time I can remember crying myself to sleep. My middle 7 daughter would always hide under her bed crying when we were fighting, trying to calm her down and coax her out upset me as much as she was upset. I was lucky the youngest 4 was too little and doesn't remember much.
I also lost my house so now I have to rent but I'm happy the kids have a roof over their heads.
I had a very good (fuckin expensive) solicitor, turns out he teaches family law at uni, anyway, after meeting with the registrar for the first interview I was buoyed by how much I was going to get in the settlement probably 65% so I went in armed with an ultimatum for the second interview which was She can have the house and I get everything else and don't have to pay spousal maintenance. Her side asked for more I got up said to the room fuck it lets go to the judge and let him decide, I was walking towards central station when I got a call from my solicitor telling me to come back and sign the orders as she accepted. And now she's on the dole.
If you're going to go to divorce set a reasonable goal from the start and play hard ball all the way.
My level of sarcasm depends on your level of stupidity.
Marriages should come with expiry dates, think 7-10 years where at that point you both have an option to walk away or renew again.
The thing is, if Brad Pitt can't hang on to his marriage, mere plebs like us have no chance.
If you have a unicorn tucked up at home, well done.
The rest of us need to resign ourselves to an expensive divorce or a cheap (ha!) punt once a week. Either way, having a dick is an expensive pasttime. God i love it.
I think its more of a punishment for her
You reap what you sow
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