Why do sweet, innocent girls become WLs?

[asiafever]

Years ago there was a girl working occasionally at 22 Brodie, Korean girl, forget her name.
Anyway she used to come down from Qld, work for a few weeks, make a heap of cash then go back home for 6 months or so. I enjoyed our sessions because we would discuss all manner of topics, often debate, and either side of this we would have pretty intense sex.
Now one day she was inquiring after my daughter and asked straight up "What would you do if in the future you discovered she was in this line of work?"
My answer was I would first find out why. She interrupted and said "Money. We're mostly all in this work for money. Anyone I've met who says anything else is mental."

Ever since, and backed up by other conversations and observations, I've taken that as given. Whatever their personal situation it boils down to money. Money to pay bills, money to facilitate lifestyle, money to help family, money to support a habit, money to set up their future, it's all about $$$.

Edit: Ashleigh!! That was her name. She was sassy, she was kind of like a FWB type session. God that's got to be 10 years ago now before I was even on here.

[GoldfishMan]

I met a WL who did the work because she caught her boyfriend visiting WLs. So, she went and worked in the same agency as revenge and also for money because she had relied on him for the money. She moved out and had no money. Her boyfriend almost booked her once and she almost got found out. Then she received her inheritance and she moved back to be with the boyfriend because she needed him to sponsor her to stay here.

What is interesting is that he was her first and only boyfriend who she had been with ever since university. A beautiful girl!

Years ago there was a girl working occasionally at 22 Brodie, Korean girl, forget her name.
Anyway she used to come down from Qld, work for a few weeks, make a heap of cash then go back home for 6 months or so. I enjoyed our sessions because we would discuss all manner of topics, often debate, and either side of this we would have pretty intense sex.
Now one day she was inquiring after my daughter and asked straight up "What would you do if in the future you discovered she was in this line of work?"
My answer was I would first find out why. She interrupted and said "Money. We're mostly all in this work for money. Anyone I've met who says anything else is mental."

Ever since, and backed up by other conversations and observations, I've taken that as given. Whatever their personal situation it boils down to money. Money to pay bills, money to facilitate lifestyle, money to help family, money to support a habit, money to set up their future, it's all about $$$.

Edit: Ashleigh!! That was her name. She was sassy, she was kind of like a FWB type session. God that's got to be 10 years ago now before I was even on here.

Great stories. I really enjoy reading them and the insights gained from them. That QLD Korean girl must've been one hell of a root!

I reckon the question about why they do this work is pretty much answered, of course it is for the money. The rate we pay to be with them is high compared to other things like getting a legit massage or going to the GP, for a good reason: to enable the high pay these girls can get doing this work as an incentive. The tougher a job is, the higher the incentive has to be. It's as simple as that.

I still think, though, that the "deciding factor" of whether or not a girl will decide to do this for the money is courage. I mean, sure a girl might not be able to afford luxuries, or might not be able to help pay off family debt, etc. If they do not have the courage to do this work, they will just either go without, think of another way to solve the problem, or just put their hand up in defeat.
Courage determines whether or not a girl was a "go-getter" or someone who will just accept what life throws their way.

[storry_teller]

I met a WL who did the work because she caught her boyfriend visiting WLs. So, she went and worked in the same agency as revenge and also for money because she had relied on him for the money. She moved out and had no money. Her boyfriend almost booked her once and she almost got found out. Then she received her inheritance and she moved back to be with the boyfriend because she needed him to sponsor her to stay here.

What is interesting is that he was her first and only boyfriend who she had been with ever since university. A beautiful girl!

Hurting each other should not be a competition. Once it’s a competition, both parties will continue to next level of revenge. What they get after that? Happy, or just more hurtful? But yes, cheating is hard to forget and forgive. Will say depending on situation, motivation and scenario of cheating to decide how to go on with it.

[Carissawhore]

A Thai WL I used to regular was married to a old guy and was not satisfied hence she used to work in brothel to satisfy her sexual craving and also get paid at the same time, she would only work on random days when her husband was away for 2 days or more on work. She met the guy in Thailand when she was working in gogo bar, she promised him that she would retire but her sexual craving over took her promise.

Another WL Thai again was married to a Auzi guy but she needed money so that she could support her family in Thailand hence she worked as WL without her husbands knowledge.

[asiafever]

Hurting each other should not be a competition. Once it’s a competition, both parties will continue to next level of revenge. What they get after that? Happy, or just more hurtful? But yes, cheating is hard to forget and forgive. Will say depending on situation, motivation and scenario of cheating to decide how to go on with it.

100% spot on.
Consequentialism teaches us that the morality of an action is solely judged on its consequences. Revenge feels good momentarily but honestly the best revenge in a situation like this is just walking away and forgetting they ever existed. You have to live with the consequences of your actions also and in the heat of the moment we can make poor decisions when we've been hurt.
I had a gf I was serious about, I discovered she had actually been using me to cheat on her fiance. I could have dumped her in the shit, I could have ruined her potential marriage etc, I just walked away and never saw her again. Temptation to rat her out was huge, to sabotage her and make her feel as shitty as I did, but thankfully my cooler head prevailed. Next girl I met was the love of my life, but that's another story.

Move on. Life is far too short to waste it on those undeserving of your time and stress.

Sorry, that's a diversion from the topic at hand.

[Wotan]

I met a WL who did the work because she caught her boyfriend visiting WLs. So, she went and worked in the same agency as revenge and also for money because she had relied on him for the money. She moved out and had no money. Her boyfriend almost booked her once and she almost got found out. Then she received her inheritance and she moved back to be with the boyfriend because she needed him to sponsor her to stay here.

What is interesting is that he was her first and only boyfriend who she had been with ever since university. A beautiful girl!

There is little or no future for this relationship.

[123brainer]

Yes I know it’s money…. But it’s more than that. Just trying to explore the point at which the line is crossed. Not all women who need money become WLs.

The few WL ladies that I have befriended over the years have always told one of the 3 reason why they do what they do.

1 - It’s a way for them to make enough money which can buy them a certain type of life style.

2 - A much quicker and easier way to make money.

3 - it’s work that pays well instead of slaving away long hours for tiny pay that gets them nothing.

So in the end it’s about the $$$. I guess we are all slaves to the $$$ we just sell different things.

If could sell sex to women I would

[Climax598]

The few WL ladies that I have befriended over the years have always told one of the 3 reason why they do what they do.

1 - It’s a way for them to make enough money which can buy them a certain type of life style.

2 - A much quicker and easier way to make money.

3 - it’s work that pays well instead of slaving away long hours for tiny pay that gets them nothing.

So in the end it’s about the $$$. I guess we are all slaves to the $$$ we just sell different things.

If could sell sex to women I would

You can be a Gigolo or male escort or male massager you see on Japanese porn🤭

[asiafever]

The few WL ladies that I have befriended over the years have always told one of the 3 reason why they do what they do.

1 - It’s a way for them to make enough money which can buy them a certain type of life style.

2 - A much quicker and easier way to make money.

3 - it’s work that pays well instead of slaving away long hours for tiny pay that gets them nothing.

So in the end it’s about the $$$. I guess we are all slaves to the $$$ we just sell different things.

If could sell sex to women I would

I tried to sell sex to women for 4 Years, I decided to change my name to Harvey Norman. 48 Months no interest!

[storry_teller]

100% spot on.
Consequentialism teaches us that the morality of an action is solely judged on its consequences. Revenge feels good momentarily but honestly the best revenge in a situation like this is just walking away and forgetting they ever existed. You have to live with the consequences of your actions also and in the heat of the moment we can make poor decisions when we've been hurt.
I had a gf I was serious about, I discovered she had actually been using me to cheat on her fiance. I could have dumped her in the shit, I could have ruined her potential marriage etc, I just walked away and never saw her again. Temptation to rat her out was huge, to sabotage her and make her feel as shitty as I did, but thankfully my cooler head prevailed. Next girl I met was the love of my life, but that's another story.

Move on. Life is far too short to waste it on those undeserving of your time and stress.

Sorry, that's a diversion from the topic at hand.

Someone choose to clean up the mess together while some throw themselves away then both end up getting dust.

[Thomas Crown]

A few random tales from the field…

One of Ginza’s current stars told me she lost $100K last year playing baccarat at Star Casino. She works to clear this debt.

A girl I saw at 42G told me she needed to register her car. Great session, so I called Simon 4 days later to book her again. “She’s gone mate,” he said. “She only stayed one day!”

One of the recent superstars at N5M told me she had to pay her Mum’s increasing medical bills in Thailand as she battled a chronic illness.

A super hot girl I saw 3/4 times at Burwood 8 told me she worked in car sales for BMW in Hong Kong and she lost her job. She came to Sydney for this work so she could buy her apartment in HK, go back to the car place that sacked her to buy a BMW for revenge and — wait for it — pay her dog’s vet bills 😂

Wildly different REASONS. The same MOTIVATION.

$$$$$

And I’ll never forget what one WL said to me not long after I started paying for sex.

Longer-time members of this forum will remember a tall and very sexy Japanese girl who called herself Chika at Ginza circa 2019.

We’d just finished another great session at 310 Cleveland and she said she wanted to visit me in Melbourne that following weekend.

“Great,” I said. “But do you want more money for that?”

“Oh yes baby,” she cooed, as she dropped to her knees to blow me again.

“We always want more money.”

[SinSeeker]

I tried to sell sex to women for 4 Years, I decided to change my name to Harvey Norman. 48 Months no interest!

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[gpeck80]

I’ve been interested in knowing what makes WLs tick. Why does a sweet, innocent girl from a conservative Asian family decide to become a WL when she gets to Australia? This is a massive step for her to take. Her family think she’s sharing an inner city pad with two others and studying business to get a better life. Meanwhile, she’s working 2-days a week at a brothel, servicing 20 strange men a week. Her family would be horrified if they found out.

Yes I know it’s for the money initially and it gives them the economic freedom they need. But it’s more than that. At what point does the good girl turn bad, particularly when this work puts them at lowest social scale in their home countries?

And what about the mental scarring? How do you recover and go back to a normal life after fucking 1,000 men a year? I think the damage would be worse than heroin.

"Her family would be horrified if they found out."

Consider this^ makes them LEARN HOW TO PRETEND to be sweet and innocent in their own country. What you think is innocence, is a great act for money. Quit being so naive.

[Aloscha]

It's all about choice. Yes money is obviously a driving factor for most if not all of them. But having punted for over a decade now, the reasons each girl does it is unique. Some it's out of necessity, some feel empowered, some come from a repressed background and use it to explore themselves and some even do it to try and find a sexually compatible partner.

It's not always the stereotype we have in our minds of a cash hungry druggo. All of us in the end want a bit of attention and a bit of company. Girls just have the upper hand that men are willing to pay for that.

[cumquat]

"Her family would be horrified if they found out."

Consider this^ makes them LEARN HOW TO PRETEND to be sweet and innocent in their own country. What you think is innocence, is a great act for money. Quit being so naive.

Early day riffin on the Madonna-Whore complex..



Plenty of that all through here (forum) 🙄😂

[cumquat]

Someone choose to clean up the mess together while some throw themselves away then both end up getting dust.

an illiterate wood cutter once said

Bodhi originally has no tree,
The mirror(-like mind) has no stand.
Buddha-nature (emptiness/oneness) is always clean and pure;
Where is there room for dust (to alight)

[rooter]

an illiterate wood cutter once said

Bodhi originally has no tree,
The mirror(-like mind) has no stand.
Buddha-nature (emptiness/oneness) is always clean and pure;
Where is there room for dust (to alight)

What nonsense! Buddhist bulldust!

[asiafever]

You once were dust, and to dust you shall return...

Which is why I don't dust, it could be someone I know...

[dotcumdotinyou]

The earth is slow but the ox is patient

[warwick1]

He who laughs last doesn't see the joke in the first place