I'm new to this forum so please go easy on me as I'm still trying to navigate the site and understand the unwritten Do's and Dont's of this forum.

To cut a long story short as my profile name indicates I like playing for boths teams. Women have been my preference but as I've gotten wiser and bolder I've been dabbling with both sexes. I frequent brothels, massage parlours, private escorts and occasionally venture out to Darlinghurst for fun. With Covid lockdowns, sex drive, job, career, age etc trying to find suitable partners has become a challenge.

This forum has a wealth of knowledge and has countless of threads giving advice on Dating WL's & Dating Massage ladies. Unfortunately my search could not find anything on dating people of the same sex.

I have been frequenting a particular brothel/massage parlour in Sydney for some time but I can't mention the place as it might give away the other party, but I have developed strong feelings for the young Asian papasan. These feeling have evolved, developed and grown over time and some of the signs and behaviours indicate that he might have similar growing feelings towards me but I'm not 100% on whether he's come out, he's coming out slowly or if he's still coming to grips with his sexuality.

I need some advice as what to do, should I ask him out on a date, should I even consider dating a papasan, should I show my appreciation by giving him small gifts, should I take things slowly, what is like to date Asian guys, what do they like etc - I'm going crazy over this guy and I'm hoping some of the experienced members of this forum will be able to provide sound advice as to how to go about it.


Thank you for reading my story and for any responses or comments you might have.