Now I have a raunchy likely LT girlfriend I don't need to punt. Still the polyamorous fantasy is there and I am open about it. It is just a part of me.
I reckon at some stage down the track we might both agree to toy with swinging to keep things vital and spicy. TBH I am greedy for her and don't really want to share her except maybe with a woman. Anyhow I love the idea of meeting other raunchy couples to talk about about sex and exchange ideas. Maybe even go for some same room sex.
Not sure if anyone has any experience and ideas about this. No rush as happy to enjoy the idea as one of life's joyous endless possibilities...
Have a look at a few singers parties in your favourite search engine for your area. From what I understand, you can just be in the same room with others and watch or go at it yourself. Here's an example for you:
https://curiosity.curiouscreatures.biz/
Fair warning though, once you cross that line you never know what might happen. Had a friend whose marriage broke down because one party always wanted to get nasty with more and more partners and the other was happy with just watching.
if you live near the inner west you could try this place. i have not been but i have done some research and listened to their podcast, seems good:
https://oursecretspot.com.au/
i am an open relationship but not exactly in a good way. i think me and my partner will likely go our separate ways within a year or so.
we're in our early 50s and i've lost interest in her sexually so she gets her jollies on red hot pie while i do the occasional RnT punt and am thinking about trying sugaring or FS punting.
Yep. I think an open relationship is crossing a line that you can't get back from. Me and my lady both agree that we are too prone to jealousy and both too anxious for an open relationship. We do toy with the idea of meeting some swinger couples one day but maybe just for the good conversation and some same room sex. Even just being able to talk about it is sexy to me.Originally Posted by Markin
I think swinging is fairer and more ethical and less risky than an open relationship because you both witness what is going on and can speak up if uncomfortable. TBH I hate condoms so one of the benefits of sticking to the one partner is the latex free freedom it provides
I might join MSS. Exciting. Could be accused of being a time waster though.
Back in the day there used to be a few places you could just rock up on a Saturday night but most have since closed down or transitioned to online mediums eg Raptures, Shivers, Hawkesbury River Swingers club etc. With swinging groups they’ll attract new talent through online forums and through social activities eg meet and greet over drinks, dinner at the local RSL club, sailing, bush walking, group events at nudist camps, camping etc if there’s chemistry, interest, attraction between the group and/or couples the party escalates and continues on at someone’s house, alternative homes, accommodation lodge, holiday homes and the like.
Some social swinging groups are middle aged couples wanting to spice up their sex lives, so don’t expect young attractive 20 yr old women with perky D cups, tight athletic bodies with ultra tight pussies and a J-Lo bottom. Expect couples carrying a few extra pounds, showing some greys, c-scars, varicose veins, beer guts, hail damage etc. In the more exclusive swinging groups you’ll need to work harder and prove yourself in order to get invited and participate with young attractive couples. Even then you need to be able to socialise and click with them intellectually, socially, and sexually before you get any action.
I think everyone goes through stages in life we’re they want to do or try something different.
Try it at least once and if you don’t like it you can always go back home to traditional punting.
Enjoy the journey and I suggest the following to give you some insights:
https://www.swingersheaven.com.au/
http://www.westernsydneyswingers.com.au/mj_dt.pdf
www.hawkesburycouple.com.au
http://sydneyswesternswingers.com/index.php
http://www.fun4two.com.au/
https://oursecretspot.com.au/
Thanks for the tips DA. Don't really want to meet younger glamour couples but more those ordinary couples who still believe sex is important and there are still ideas out there worth exploring. You have to go in with an attitude that people are more sexy with their kit off and that the attitude is a big part of the secret sauce.
Enjoy the journey Mr Jamit. With Valentine’s Day around the corner there’s a lot of swinging parties being organised. Suggest you join swingersheaven, and check out the personals section, you’ll find plenty of people in open type relationships, there’s an abundance of singles (M and F) willing to join or form a threesome. You will however need to sift the wheat from the chaff. There’s plenty of intel in the swinging groups, and swinging parties sections. The chat rooms sees a lot of live web cam action during the evenings. Check it out for yourself, see the couples in action, their profiles , the photos they’ve posted , their interests and if it matches your criteria you PM them exchange info, photos etc and take it from there.
Thanks for the reference DA. Some of those websites show what you are up against, particularly the countless single men looking for any random action. I can see that finding a compatible couple could be hard as it is hard enough finding a compatible mate let alone two. Exciting though not for the faint of heart.
Agree on all fronts Mr Jamit. You’d be surprised on how many couples are out there living out boring sexless relationships and that are itching to spice up their sex life with a third person or a couple. I’ve participated in arranged cuckold situations where the guy had PE/ED issues and couldn’t adequately service his horny middle age wife. I was brought in to service his wife while the guy watched, gave us directions, and got off on it. They both loved and trusted each other and I guess this was his way of maintaining his relationship and keeping his wife happy on the sex front.The way he put it was the cuckold arrangement is a conscious arrangement rather than her going off and having an affair behind his back and potentially damaging their relationship (a trust thing). They moved up north to enjoy the warmer climate.
I would love to go to a swinging club as a single guy just to see how it’s like. As a short asian guy I don’t have much hope of getting any anyway so would have loved to check it out and see group sex stuff live
Hey Dumbai. Don't give up even of you are relatively short. It is ridiculous how heightist many women are when you check the dating sites. If a man wrote "must have DD naturals or greater" he would probably be taken down.
The point is percivere, home your skills (eg oral sex, social skills) and don't become a woman hater or a desperate perve not getting what they really want. Eventually you will find your sexy loving lady to keep you happy. Maybe taller guys can sleep around more easily, but God invented punting so every man can fulfil that need if they want. However believe me truly good relationships provide the best sex, with some swinging thrown in a little later on maybe to keep things spicey
Find a friendlyRnT lady.
Hey mate! Thanks for the encouragement! I am in a good relationship already but she’s a good girl and ain’t into group sex. I just want to see how massive swinging goes and think it’s right up my alley. I just feel like the swinging clubs will turn away a short Asian guy like me. I’m very attentive and social and not ugly. Just gotta give it a shot one day without being discouraged
You can hire an escort to go with you
Have you actually had the discussion with her?
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