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    Mate you’re legend in this one!

    Quote Originally Posted by juscruisin58 View Post
    That probably depends on whether you need to "hide" her from anybody.
    In my situation, my SB spends plenty of time at mine, and that suits us both.
    Yeah, reading through each of those experiences irrespective of whether it’s fictional or an actual scene. I certainly want to try it out. Not sure whether It will work out or not.

    A bit costly affair though. Need to save some money to try it out.

    Btw any tips to avoid spammers

    I too agree with @cuteguy I had similar issue with a frequent ML.
    Last edited by kiddoh; 12-01-2022 at 03:38 PM. Reason: Typo

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    Quote Originally Posted by kiddoh View Post
    Yeah, reading through each of those experiences irrespective of whether it’s fictional or an actual scene. I certainly want to try it out. Not sure whether It will work out or not.

    A bit costly affair though. Need to save some money to try it out.

    Btw any tips to avoid spammers

    I too agree with @cuteguy I had similar issue with a frequent ML.
    Ask them for their SB CV and some referrals.

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    Quote Originally Posted by GoldfishMan View Post
    Ask them for their SB CV and some referrals.
    Best referral can be found here i assume..lol..if anyone want to share

    May be a section for SB review.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ssfc View Post
    I would think there has to be some form of connection and mutual attraction to have a better experience. It doesn't seem like what some are expecting that it is purely payment for regular sex. Not for me at this stage but maybe later on in life.
    In my situation, yes, there is connection and attraction, my SB doesn't like males her own age, and her circle of friends are up to 20 yrs older than her.
    If I just wanted random sex, I would go back to punting. This arrangement as I see it is better than marriage, we help each other out, we do care for each other, and we respect each other.
    Where it will go or what it will lead to God only knows, at least at the moment we enjoy each other's company and are having fun.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kiddoh View Post
    Yeah, reading through each of those experiences irrespective of whether it’s fictional or an actual scene. I certainly want to try it out. Not sure whether It will work out or not.

    A bit costly affair though. Need to save some money to try it out.

    Btw any tips to avoid spammers

    I too agree with @cuteguy I had similar issue with a frequent ML.
    I can assure you mine is not fictional.
    Costly ??? Compared to the shit I put up.with in a marriage, this is heaven.
    I guess I have been fortunate in business, worked bloody hard to make it happen and now am enjoying it. Sold my business to a bigger player in the industry I was in for a substantial sum.

    Scammers, one tip, never pay them for anything online like pics etc, or as a deposit for a lunch date or coffee. If they are not prepared to have an initial coffee and chat with you without asking for payment, walk away. Thats not how it works, any potential SB that asks for money upfront is to be avoided.

    If you have to "hide" your SB from anyone, you are in it for the wrong reasons and should stick to punting

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    Quote Originally Posted by Riff888 View Post
    It's not too bad, average about $400 a week and I see her about 3 times a week.
    $400 per week? I'm envious of you.

    I pay my regular ML $600 total a week. One and half hour each time twice a week.

    God must be smilling at you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by juscruisin58 View Post
    Been married, got the badge and the scars.
    Was psychology controlled to the point of being cut off from my family and friends for nearly 30 yrs.
    As long as I was doing what she wanted, and seeing who she wanted to see, she was happy, so work was my escape and release, I have to thank her for that as that hard work has now allowed me to be able to afford my SB.
    The psychological control has even poisoned my children to the extent I have had no contact from them for the 10 yrs since we split up.
    I punted for quite a while, but was wanting a bit more, and the SB arrangement gives me that.
    There is a bit of commitment, there is connection, and we both know that either of us can walk at any minute, so we put a bit of effort into making sure the arrangement works. A true FWB relationship.
    I know that she will eventually walk away from me for someone closer to her own age, and I'll deal with that when it happens.
    After putting up with marital shit for so long, I now live in the moment, and enjoy the company of a young lady who knows which side her bread is buttered on.
    Thanks for your candour. Great to see nice things coming to your way.

    I believe the girl would stay with you for a long time because many girls go for an elder man because not only he is established and emotionally mature, he is also caring, generous and gentle. I think you have all these qualities for her to be with you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by paulgallen View Post
    $400 a week not too bad. Where do you have sex? At her place or yours or pay for hotel?
    My apartment, she now has a set of keys.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Vader View Post
    Nah, the real thing is better than paid sex.
    From experience, the real thing is better than paid sex for the first 6 - 8 months.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sibon View Post
    Thanks for your candour. Great to see nice things coming to your way.

    I believe the girl would stay with you for a long time because many girls go for an elder man because not only he is established and emotionally mature, he is also caring, generous and gentle. I think you have all these qualities for her to be with you.
    Thank you, I appreciate your comments.
    I just showed Violet what you wrote and her response was, "well he could be right, if thats what you want"

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    Being sugar daddy is for rich people, if I have money to splurge then I will probably have a expensive hobby such as fucking different escorts everyday instead of having one or 2 girls for long period, these girls most of the time are fucking someone else on the side without your knowledge so why go through fake BF/GF relationship when you can spend that money on beautiful WL's. Girls looking for sugar daddy will never be loyal, they are in it for money, who ever shows them more mula, they will open their legs for them. I think lot of punters here are very naive, more girls cheat in a relationship then boys do. I had too many female friends and all of them were cheating and none of their husbands nor BF knew, pussies have more power, we guys just underestimate what normal girls do in their free time. Every single girl will have backup guy, I know this since few girls have asked me this already and I am their backup guy.

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    Like I said good on you! & thanks!

    Quote Originally Posted by juscruisin58 View Post
    I can assure you mine is not fictional.
    Costly ??? Compared to the shit I put up.with in a marriage, this is heaven.
    I guess I have been fortunate in business, worked bloody hard to make it happen and now am enjoying it. Sold my business to a bigger player in the industry I was in for a substantial sum.

    Scammers, one tip, never pay them for anything online like pics etc, or as a deposit for a lunch date or coffee. If they are not prepared to have an initial coffee and chat with you without asking for payment, walk away. Thats not how it works, any potential SB that asks for money upfront is to be avoided.

    If you have to "hide" your SB from anyone, you are in it for the wrong reasons and should stick to punting
    Hope I’m lucky with this one …having an SB during lockdown is always handy. Thanks once again for tips.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Vader View Post
    Nah, the real thing is better than paid sex.
    Real thing is better than paid sex, but more headache. Emotion game is never been easy. Pain and hurt will wait for you at the end .
    Sometimes you just have to accept that some people can stay in your heart but not in your life

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    Quote Originally Posted by Carissawhore View Post
    Being sugar daddy is for rich people, if I have money to splurge then I will probably have a expensive hobby such as fucking different escorts everyday instead of having one or 2 girls for long period, these girls most of the time are fucking someone else on the side without your knowledge so why go through fake BF/GF relationship when you can spend that money on beautiful WL's. Girls looking for sugar daddy will never be loyal, they are in it for money, who ever shows them more mula, they will open their legs for them. I think lot of punters here are very naive, more girls cheat in a relationship then boys do. I had too many female friends and all of them were cheating and none of their husbands nor BF knew, pussies have more power, we guys just underestimate what normal girls do in their free time. Every single girl will have backup guy, I know this since few girls have asked me this already and I am their backup guy.
    Sounds like you have 3 problems:-
    1/ Jealousy (I worked bloody hard to get to where I am)
    2/ Trust (My girl and I are exclusive to each other, the fact she lived with me during lockdown, and we spend more time together than apart confirms that. Maybe you need to learn trust rather than listening to a few random WL's
    3/ Understanding (if you understand what a Sugar Baby is, you would know it is not a fake BF/GF relationship, it is FWB (Friends with Benefits).

    The purpose of having a regular SB is a bit of stability and familiarity, rather than going hunting all the time. And I get my morning wood looked after on a regular basis.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Crusader View Post
    Its more efficient. Ive got two absolute stunners on the go at the moment (22 and 25) via seeking arrangement that started in october and november last year. I pay their rents, take them out to dinner on the weekend and the occasional gift so its setting me back about 1600 a week. Works out great for all of us. The older one has been buying me things here and there and has also been helping out with things like cleaning my place every week lately, which is a big plus. They both love sex as much as i do and the older one is asking to meet up more and more. Was only on the site for 3 weeks.

    We started by setting times and dates for sex, thats all gone out the window now. I really only have two nights a week to myself these days so there is no shortage of the boom boom. Hard to explain, its almost like a flourishing relationship lol
    That is just crazy!
    I will be homeless in 6 months if I started paying $1600 per week.
    Clearly, this is for executives and businessmen who are rich.

    Not saying you are doing anything wrong.
    Just saying personally I can't afford it.

    I have been on SeekingArrangement before.
    Hot ones will always demand higher money.
    Even if they ask $400 per week. That's a steady loss of $400 per week.
    With punting, there is no arrangement. I control when I go and spend the money.
    Once I left the scene for 3 months. There was nobody to tempt me with her come hither look or memories of past copulation with a hot teen.

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    Quote Originally Posted by storry_teller View Post
    Real thing is better than paid sex, but more headache. Emotion game is never been easy. Pain and hurt will wait for you at the end .
    Everybody's giving their opinion.
    Let me give mine.

    Do whatever floats your boat.
    There is no one right answer to this.
    If someone can afford it, go for the arrangement and bang as many hotties as you want.
    Anything that helps to get over you mid-life crisis (impending or otherwise).
    If you are happy with your partner, be with her.
    If you like to hookup at a bar (with no money changing hands), go for that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by juscruisin58 View Post
    Scammers, one tip, never pay them for anything online like pics etc, or as a deposit for a lunch date or coffee. If they are not prepared to have an initial coffee and chat with you without asking for payment, walk away. Thats not how it works, any potential SB that asks for money upfront is to be avoided.
    That is exactly true.
    I found that out the hard way with this Australian Born Filo on Seeking Arrangement (around 3 years ago).

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    Good morning gentlemen - thank you to whoever started this thread. I’m new to au99 but not new to Sugar Dating as I’ve been using SA and SDM for the past four years. I’ll try to add some value here for those who are curious or just starting out.

    I never pay more than $400 for a meet. Meets generally last 2-4 hours, depending on whether I’m having a good time.

    In saying that, I’m 40, look mid 30’s, keep myself fit, work in a professional environment, put up photos that reflect an upmarket experience, etc

    I paid $500 a couple of times in the beginning when I had no idea what I was doing, but have since had $400 as my cut-off. I aim to move this down to $300 over time.

    I pick the ones that seem like normal girls just on SA / SDM for a bit of fun, not pros, who have their own careers or are uni students with lower expectations. So money is not the deciding factor. A good time and the possibility of great sex with a decent sounding older guy is what they can expect - then the money is a bonus. It’s like a tinder date, without wasting their time with a possible psycho.

    A number of girls say no thanks. Then 2-3 weeks later they are back and interested when they realize its a good offer, and if they play their part, there could be multiple dates.

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    Quote Originally Posted by hungry4love007 View Post
    Best referral can be found here i assume..lol..if anyone want to share

    May be a section for SB review.
    Ther's a big review forum for Sugar babes on TNT. You don't need to be rich, had a few unreal SB meets on PPM basis for $400 - $500 less than those escorts on Scarlet Blue who only give you 1 hour for that price.

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    Quote Originally Posted by suckitbaby View Post
    Ther's a big review forum for Sugar babes on TNT. You don't need to be rich, had a few unreal SB meets on PPM basis for $400 - $500 less than those escorts on Scarlet Blue who only give you 1 hour for that price.
    Please tell, What is TNT??

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