Sugar dating

[hiduba]

Gents without offending anyone its clear some don't like the discussion on Sugar Babes. Its not for everyone we get it. But I am new to this style of punting and me and some of the other guys are finding the posts from BennyB, Rifff888 and now hogansheros_breakout infrmative and good value. If you are not enjoying this then try another thread. Its become painful to read all the comments not related to Sugar Dating. Thanks.

Spot on. I love all the informative tips and suggestions and experiences shared by forum members. Can we all decide to agree to disagree and not attack each other’s posts / comments just because their thoughts / experiences differ from yours?

[BennyB]

Thank you. I appreciate some voices of reason on here.

Back on topic.

[Nthnrr]

Agreed. Keep on topic.

[Riff888]

Good to hear Riff888 you are having fun with the Taiwanese. You have been sharing good intel on these girls and it’s been helpful. From your earlier comments I am finding most girls are prepared to accept 500 mark. Some may go below but they may or may not see you.

Mate I think your message box may be full I tried to send a message but would not go.

Thanks for letting me know, I've cleared my mailbox.

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[scottie2222]

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[hogansheros_breakout]

out of date now..

[kiddoh]

Sharing a bit of experience being in SB for more than a month...

My Profile setup in SA was based on inputs from the thread and some other forums as well. Thanks to Benny, Riff, & Rogyeryou..

In total had 2 good punts and 2 bad punts. Overall experience it's a mixed bag as of now.

Lessons learnt based on good and bad punts.

- Initial chat and screening help a lot. It gives us good insight into what we are getting into.

- Set clear expectations on what you need and what is provided.

- Don't book for expensive hotels as they are only in for only for few hours. I used day-use and booking apps etc., Also have Airbnb as an option. - There was a no show as well after initial confirmation, the reason was a bit dumb but was able to meet the next week. I wasted money on hotel booking felt a bit horrible. ( Try to book only on the day that too few hours before the event don't book too early)

- Don't assume stuff as such. Sometimes they take you for granted. Always be firm on your expectations upfront during chat or in meet sessions.

- Some SBs ask you to carry your own kits such as lubes and doms. - I did have some backup Doms but without lube, the session was not eventful. Again SB didn't inform me of that during the chat... Point 1 will help.

- Check on arrangement timing as well some are real clock watchers & spend less time ( or communicate that they can be available only for an hour or so because of their commitment etc., after/during session commencement) - I failed miserably on this one. Hoping to do better next time on setting up the expectation.

- I haven't paid anyone for meetups. If they ask for money it's not worth the team. I did pay for coffee catch-ups/dinner.

- try to get WeChat or Kik Ids it helps a lot to communicate properly.

A good note is that lot of Uni Students, are in their final year, moving back to their own countries etc., & wanted to make some money before moving out/settling in so it's always flooded.

Overall, it's the same as our regular go-to places only thing is that the menu is not predefined and it's kinda vanilla based on SB and how you will manage or have arrangements with them in subsequent visits.

Note: Few SBs are in for making money in the short term, so they are also working around the clock...

[Riff888]

Sharing a bit of experience being in SB for more than a month...

My Profile setup in SA was based on inputs from the thread and some other forums as well. Thanks to Benny, Riff, & Rogyeryou..

In total had 2 good punts and 2 bad punts. Overall experience it's a mixed bag as of now.

Lessons learnt based on good and bad punts.

- Initial chat and screening help a lot. It gives us good insight into what we are getting into.

- Set clear expectations on what you need and what is provided.

- Don't book for expensive hotels as they are only in for only for few hours. I used day-use and booking apps etc., Also have Airbnb as an option. - There was a no show as well after initial confirmation, the reason was a bit dumb but was able to meet the next week. I wasted money on hotel booking felt a bit horrible. ( Try to book only on the day that too few hours before the event don't book too early)

- Don't assume stuff as such. Sometimes they take you for granted. Always be firm on your expectations upfront during chat or in meet sessions.

- Some SBs ask you to carry your own kits such as lubes and doms. - I did have some backup Doms but without lube, the session was not eventful. Again SB didn't inform me of that during the chat... Point 1 will help.

- Check on arrangement timing as well some are real clock watchers & spend less time ( or communicate that they can be available only for an hour or so because of their commitment etc., after/during session commencement) - I failed miserably on this one. Hoping to do better next time on setting up the expectation.

- I haven't paid anyone for meetups. If they ask for money it's not worth the team. I did pay for coffee catch-ups/dinner.

- try to get WeChat or Kik Ids it helps a lot to communicate properly.

A good note is that lot of Uni Students, are in their final year, moving back to their own countries etc., & wanted to make some money before moving out/settling in so it's always flooded.

Overall, it's the same as our regular go-to places only thing is that the menu is not predefined and it's kinda vanilla based on SB and how you will manage or have arrangements with them in subsequent visits.

Note: Few SBs are in for making money in the short term, so they are also working around the clock...

I hear you.

From talking to this really hot girl, too bad the sex was basic.

She had some good insights on SBs like, oh this girl's job is SA. Basically professional SBs, hopefully everyone gets regular tests.

I also found out my regular Taiwanese girl is supporting her son back home.

There are a lot of young mums out west and two girls live in the same block. It was causing issues between them so I blocked them both.

I'm starting to miss Leena, hopefully I'll see her soon

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[rooter]

I like to keep an open mind and check out this thread and the other similar one every now and then and everytime I do I thank my lucky stars I dodged a massive bullet with this Sugar whatever. It's like a marriage without the benefits, punting without the benefits, casual sex without the benefits, fuckin life without the benefits.
It just seems like the worst of all the worst, Except for bratwurst of course which is quite tasty.
I admit, I am an unusual person, maybe it's just me, maybe I am missing a neuron, or a strand on DNA or whatever, but I just do not get it.
I am sure there are guys out there having the time of their lives and good on them!
Hey if it works for you. Enjoy!

[BennyB]

I like to keep an open mind and check out this thread and the other similar one every now and then and everytime I do I thank my lucky stars I dodged a massive bullet with this Sugar whatever. It's like a marriage without the benefits, punting without the benefits, casual sex without the benefits, fuckin life without the benefits.
It just seems like the worst of all the worst, Except for bratwurst of course which is quite tasty.
I admit, I am an unusual person, maybe it's just me, maybe I am missing a neuron, or a strand on DNA or whatever, but I just do not get it.
I am sure there are guys out there having the time of their lives and good on them!
Hey if it works for you. Enjoy!

I think it's interesting to get a different perspective. There are guys for whom sugar dating is a slam dunk and guys who find it hard work. There's nothing unusual in that Rooter - it's just different.

What are your thoughts about what you don't like about it?

[Johnisfun1969]

I like to keep an open mind and check out this thread and the other similar one every now and then and everytime I do I thank my lucky stars I dodged a massive bullet with this Sugar whatever. It's like a marriage without the benefits, punting without the benefits, casual sex without the benefits, fuckin life without the benefits.
It just seems like the worst of all the worst, Except for bratwurst of course which is quite tasty.
I admit, I am an unusual person, maybe it's just me, maybe I am missing a neuron, or a strand on DNA or whatever, but I just do not get it.
I am sure there are guys out there having the time of their lives and good on them!
Hey if it works for you. Enjoy!

Mate it’s definitely different style of punting. The goal is still to get laid. But costs a lot more also. The girl expect a certain amount. Then the cost of dinner and drinks. This girl I met in Brisbane ordered 2 x cocktails at $20 each and two deserts after dinner. We complain about extras charged by Caucasian girls for DFK or bbbj. Hahah

I was having doubts over the weekend as I could not get a girl to meet me in the day. So I went to 42 Buffalo Road. Booked a Asian girl for 250 had two pops. Taken care of my blue balls but was missing that intimacy I had with the 2 x girls in Qld last week. I regretted the decision.

For some of us who enjoy the chase as well as flirting and then making it out with a decent looking girl. It works. But like punting there are abs ones where you don’t connect or have a cancellation. It’s sucks.

[hogansheros_breakout]

out of date now..

[hogansheros_breakout]

out of date now..

[Johnisfun1969]

I have the hotel on standby. I know which place I will go, if things are looking good I'll book on the fly during dinner. Yep I've also previously had an empty hotel room go to waste.

Timing...always the professionals will try to cut on time. I just deduct money from the agreed amount which was part of the agreement.

Condoms I just grab from Chemist Warehouse $6.15. Due to my situation I throw the remaining box after each session

I had the same thing. This girl wanted to order 2 x cocktails as she was not sure which one to have. Then with dessert wanted to try two but did not even touch the second as she was full. But then wanted to gome home early as she was sleepy. I think she would be the proffessional know how to wiggle out. Thanks for sharing guys its normal and the girls try tricks.

[kiddoh]

I have the hotel on standby. I know which place I will go, if things are looking good I'll book on the fly during dinner. Yep I've also previously had an empty hotel room go to waste.

Timing...always the professionals will try to cut on time. I just deduct money from the agreed amount which was part of the agreement.

Condoms I just grab from Chemist Warehouse $6.15. Due to my situation I throw the remaining box after each session

Thanks for input! Will be prepared next time!

I do throw the box as well. Moreover I got comment on what I have to buy for next visits as SB like it flavoured and particular about some brands! Hmmmm

[hogansheros_breakout]

out of date now..

[Johnisfun1969]

the idea of someone buying two cocktails is crap. if the girl doesn't respect money then I move her on. that's why she's fucking guys for money.

Yes mate but I am new to this and she was my third girl I met. We kept messaging each other before the meeting for week or so. On the day on the meet I am not sure if its true she had to take her cat to vet and she found she had cancer. So I went little easy and hgave in. But what pissed me off is after round one she says she is sleepy and wants to go home. I wil give her a second chance. Next time call her to the hotel and order take away. She is really tall and young.

[BennyB]

Thanks for your thoughts Kiddoh

Just a couple of observations from me if that is ok?

In total had 2 good punts and 2 bad punts. Overall experience it's a mixed bag as of now.

Not unsurprising. It's early days - just like you probably did not have the four best WL punts of your life at the start (a bugger if you did!)

Initial chat and screening help a lot. It gives us good insight into what we are getting into

I can't agree more. I always have a pre-meet. Even if it is just drinks at the bar before going upstairs. Although preferably I would have at least a longish evening over dinner and drinks before going to bed. I personally like the dating and seduction aspects of it - so I keep in vague on text about what is coming next - I like to let that unfold on the evening or in the pre-meet

Set clear expectations on what you need and what is provided

Beyond the fact that I would like us to get intimate if we both click with each other, I don't push hard on this. Again, I like the journey of discovery and, If I can get them in the right head space, then all the good things follow. I want to open them up sexually and get them to do more than they have done in a long time, not the half arsed stuff they have been doing with their 20yo boyfriends and tinder dates.

Don't book for expensive hotels as they are only in for only for few hours. I used day-use and booking apps etc., Also have Airbnb as an option.

Again depends on what where and how. If punting in your own city yes. When I am interstate I am bringing them back to my corporate hotel and making a big deal of it for them. Dayuse is great because you can cancel up to an hour beforehand.

Don't assume stuff as such. Sometimes they take you for granted. Always be firm on your expectations upfront during chat or in meet sessions.

Remember if you talk to them like escorts, that's probably what you will get in return. Some are escorts obviously, but you can weed those out.

Some SBs ask you to carry your own kits such as lubes and doms

Well that's because they are not WLs. And you are the experienced, thoughtful man they thought they would find on SA. Not the tinder date down the road?

I haven't paid anyone for meetups. If they ask for money it's not worth the team. I did pay for coffee catch-ups/dinner

You are spot on here. My time is just as valuable. If not more. I'll be considerate but I don't give people money for chat.

try to get WeChat or Kik Ids it helps a lot to communicate properly

My thoughts are slightly different. I'm probably punting different girls. I like ones who are already working - usually early in their careers and want a bit of fun on the side. I prefer to take them to text or WhatsApp - that is what most normal non-punting / non-SW girls are using. I appreciate WeChat is more commonly used amongst Asian men and women.

Overall, it's the same as our regular go-to places only thing is that the menu is not predefined and it's kinda vanilla based on SB and how you will manage or have arrangements with them in subsequent visits.

I'd experiment with some different approaches. I have probably had some of the kinkiest D/s, DDlg, powerplay since I started punting Sugarbabes. Genuine kink is as mental as physical. I find it really depends on where you take their minds.

(hahaha - I said a "couple of observations". I clearly enjoy the topic too much �� )

[kiddoh]

Thanks for your thoughts Kiddoh

Just a couple of observations from me if that is ok?



Not unsurprising. It's early days - just like you probably did not have the four best WL punts of your life at the start (a bugger if you did!)


(hahaha - I said a "couple of observations". I clearly enjoy the topic too much �� )

Yes, indeed it was a couple of observations but still valuable inputs for my next punt. haha ha .... How come you have the patience to respond and clarify each pointer..

Hopefully, I will be able to filter on stuff properly. Hoping to start working in the city rather than work from home in the coming months. hopefully, that will help for pre-meetups etc.,

Cheers mate.

[BennyB]

Yes, indeed it was a couple of observations but still valuable inputs for my next punt. haha ha .... How come you have the patience to respond and clarify each pointer..

Hopefully, I will be able to filter on stuff properly. Hoping to start working in the city rather than work from home in the coming months. hopefully, that will help for pre-meetups etc.,

Cheers mate.

Having good people to do the work helps and I enjoy the topic so I make the time on various forums.

Re returning to the city - having a normal routine should make a big difference. Have a think about how you can build in some time buffers so your wife / partner doesn’t mind if you are not home for dinner each evening.