Following! Always interested in exploring that side of the experience. Is anyone here a sugar daddy and if yes, how much are you generally spending on a monthly basis?
Also @hungry5love007 - how did you find that? :O
Hi Everyone,
I always wondered whether punting or SD more fun. I know its subjective and different person have different take, but wanted to know others opinion.
I was checking with a big dark skinned indian chick who is happy for SD arrange ment 200 per meet (redhotpie). Sounds great value but booking hotel, drink and other things does not seems convenient. Where as i can just go to a RNT and FS , spend the money and 1 hr and done with that.
Where and which sites you get SD's and how much usually you pay for SD per annum (also it's depends on others individual situation, just curious to know).
Following! Always interested in exploring that side of the experience. Is anyone here a sugar daddy and if yes, how much are you generally spending on a monthly basis?
Also @hungry5love007 - how did you find that? :O
Seeking Arrangement is your friend.
I have had several successful encounters from there over the years and an currently in a longer term arrangement with a girl who turns 24 next week.
You will NOT get quality for 200 a meet.
Think of SB's like private escorts, you are paying for quality and possibly exclusivity.
If you really connect with the girl you will move away from PPM and it'll be more like GF/FWB situation but you'll be buying her things and taking her out. Basically looking after her.
Watch out for scammers and people who are not even in Australia.
There are all sorts, I was contacted by this 18 year old who had given birth a month before. Not married but still living with the father's family. Asked me to take her shopping, also wanted me to have a child seat just in case she couldn't get any baby sitter. I said no thank you. She contacted me just last week on Kik, I said I have an arrangement. She had no luck yet. My advice to her, don't be completely honest and don't talk about child seats.
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I don't know why most of you blokes don't just go out and meet chicks in pubs and interests groups etc. Save a lot of issues that you guys are always talking about.
Its more efficient. Ive got two absolute stunners on the go at the moment (22 and 25) via seeking arrangement that started in october and november last year. I pay their rents, take them out to dinner on the weekend and the occasional gift so its setting me back about 1600 a week. Works out great for all of us. The older one has been buying me things here and there and has also been helping out with things like cleaning my place every week lately, which is a big plus. They both love sex as much as i do and the older one is asking to meet up more and more. Was only on the site for 3 weeks.
We started by setting times and dates for sex, thats all gone out the window now. I really only have two nights a week to myself these days so there is no shortage of the boom boom. Hard to explain, its almost like a flourishing relationship lol
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I couldn't be bothered going to clubs/pubs etc, and besides I'm 56, too old for that stuff.
I met my SB in very early 2020 just before the start of Covid, and I have to say it has been a very beneficial arrangement for both of us.
We are exclusive, she genuinely appreciates the financial support, and we are sleeping together at least 3 times a week.
When you find a good SB they are drama free and as said elsewhere here, they become a genuine FWB, and there is nothing like regularly fucking a girl that is 32 years younger than you.
The dating game has changed.
I was in the dating game pre 2019 and it sucks. Very rarely do people meet at clubs or bars. It's all apps, Tinder, CMB and Bumble to name a few.
Very time consuming, very hit and miss, some girls play hard to get, others sleep with you within the week. FWB from dating leads to her usually wanting more from you in terms of commitment. Having a wife/GF is good if she's easy going and not possessive. But in my experience they try to control you too much and want to know where your money goes.
I'm having more fun with my arrangement now. There are some seriously hot 18 to 20 year olds on the site, you just need to be able to give them what they want, especially at the start.
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Agreed about the pubs and clubs point. Those were where people used to go to hook up, but that was more out of necessity than choice. Very few people like to be in those social settings alone and without company including men and women. These apps allow you to hook up or at least get the ball rolling without needing to run that gauntlet.
Been married, got the badge and the scars.
Was psychology controlled to the point of being cut off from my family and friends for nearly 30 yrs.
As long as I was doing what she wanted, and seeing who she wanted to see, she was happy, so work was my escape and release, I have to thank her for that as that hard work has now allowed me to be able to afford my SB.
The psychological control has even poisoned my children to the extent I have had no contact from them for the 10 yrs since we split up.
I punted for quite a while, but was wanting a bit more, and the SB arrangement gives me that.
There is a bit of commitment, there is connection, and we both know that either of us can walk at any minute, so we put a bit of effort into making sure the arrangement works. A true FWB relationship.
I know that she will eventually walk away from me for someone closer to her own age, and I'll deal with that when it happens.
After putting up with marital shit for so long, I now live in the moment, and enjoy the company of a young lady who knows which side her bread is buttered on.