Sugar dating

[BennyB]

I have finally decided to give seeking a go. Wonder what would you guys already are champions and had a good success on platform choose your headlines and descriptions when setting up a profile. I read through few the website infos and want to make sure m not striking any norms but still convey the message about self and my intentions.
still trying to get the foothold on this newly suggested universe 😉😉😉

The most important suggestion from is you will attract what you advertise.

So if you have photos showing you are dressed like a slob, or look creepy, then that’s what you will get. Think about what the girls want to see and if you are not sure then send me a note. A few members have been in touch regarding their profiles.

[BennyB]

If I can also add, there seems to be new waves of girls signing up every few months, and they come and go. So if your not keen on paying the monthly membership, sign up for just a month, get the kik contacts of those that interest you and take it from there, then cancel your SA account.

In a couple of months either reactivate or sign up on a new profile. I’ve been on the site for a few years, and would normally just reactivate my account… however this time around I created a new account new photo, tweaked some details and have had interests from different types of girls I wouldn’t have got responses from before - so how you present yourself really has an impact.

That’s a really good point Exstar.

If you wait long enough between renewals SA will also send you discount codes for 25 - 33% off your membership if you re-sign. I know a lot of guys on TNT share those around when they come up.

[BennyB]

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very happy to see finally SB or seeking is getting some solid discussions and here are my two cents:
* i have started using seeking back in 2016 and i think that was the best time to find gems - i had over 100 to 200 SB up to date mostly around 20yrs and all ethinicity and mostly in sydney
* i have slowed down during last year partially due to covid but more due to the changes in SB industry - its a bit like bitcoin that the best time to buy would be when it started and unfortunately its not the best time now - there are way too many "experienced" SB now especially compared to 2016 and not to mentiom scammers or professionals etc - no disrespect but this means the value has deteriorated significantly
* to me it feels like the best time for private was 2011-13 and for SB was 2016-18 - again im talking about the chance of finding gems
* happy to share some of my experience further if anyone is interested - i have been using this forum a bit but has not really contributed much

Really interesting observations you make ASDF. What would you recommend as the next wave, if not Sugarbabes?

Privates aren’t getting any cheaper and service isn’t getting any better?

[ASDF]

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Really interesting observations you make ASDF. What would you recommend as the next wave, if not Sugarbabes?

Privates aren’t getting any cheaper and service isn’t getting any better?

hahaha thats the million dollar question mate and i would love to hear from anyone that has any insight!

perosnally i think theres still a lot more potentials with SB industry if it can somehow discourage the professionals or some apps etc that is targeting a niche market

[BennyB]

hahaha thats the million dollar question mate and i would love to hear from anyone that has any insight!

perosnally i think theres still a lot more potentials with SB industry if it can somehow discourage the professionals or some apps etc that is targeting a niche market

I know a few sex workers that signed up to SA (Euro brothel girls and also Privates) and for different reasons:

- to find an alternative marketing channel
- to find guys that want more than a 30 minute fuck and go
- to help them through lockdowns (some were advertising their onlyfans through SA)

in a post lockdown world in Sydney and Melbourne, it will be interesting to see how many will drift off the sites.

In Brisbane and GC, which did not see lockdowns, I found very few professionals on SA up there. Hopefully the same will happen in Sydney and Melbourne.

[ASDF]

I know a few sex workers that signed up to SA (Euro brothel girls and also Privates) and for different reasons:

- to find an alternative marketing channel
- to find guys that want more than a 30 minute fuck and go
- to help them through lockdowns (some were advertising their onlyfans through SA)

in a post lockdown world in Sydney and Melbourne, it will be interesting to see how many will drift off the sites.

In Brisbane and GC, which did not see lockdowns, I found very few professionals on SA up there. Hopefully the same will happen in Sydney and Melbourne.

interesting but not surprising i guess for Brisbane and GC - but i feel like the demand in syd will probably still be there at least in the short term unless for some reasons the economy is totally gone and unemployment is going through the roof...

[BennyB]

Absolutely, as in the girl I'm with, had stuff all information in her profile, the thing that attracted me is she is a country girl and also was in my area which is the Newcastle region. She seemed shy and a bit reserved when we were messaging.
When we met she was as nervous as one could get, and admitted I was her first ever meeting with a SD.
That made me work harder to see where we could go, and over the last 2 years it has been a journey of discovery with her.
She was happy to meet for coffee with no strings attached, and had very few preconceptions unlike a lot of the "professional" SB's

Good work by you to connect with her before the wolves and slobs had scared her off.

Can you remember how long she had been on the site before you connected with her online and how long it took to get an in person meeting with her?

[BennyB]

Just another form of prostitution for the "more money than brains club"..............That's gotta get a bite

We’re all on here to celebrate prostitution.

Which part of that did you miss?

[warwick1]

We’re all on here to celebrate prostitution.

Which part of that did you miss?

None Einstein , it's been around for thousands of years, nothing to celebrate............

[BennyB]

Mate, you should write a book... so many insights and I believe you just seeded the thought of SB to so many in our forum including me... I have just enrolled in Secretbenefits and got few messages.. hope i can convert a few...

Someone already beat me to that sadly.

Regarding Secret Benefits, watch your shirt. You can burn through a lot of credits for very little return. It’s not yet a mature business model.

[juscruisin58]

Good work by you to connect with her before the wolves and slobs had scared her off.

Can you remember how long she had been on the site before you connected with her online and how long it took to get an in person meeting with her?

She had been on the site for about 4 days, and I was the first guy who didn't suggest we go straight to kick, as too a lot of girls, that means sex discussion is the first topic "top of mind"

We met up within the first week just for coffee and to assure her I was real, and see if we liked each other, then a couple of days later head dinner.

[Riff888]

@celine0202 would love your opinion on this subject.

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[gthgrt]

For those who have recently made the switch.

In your opinion, how much would someone have to be spending per week/month on ML/WL's, to make the switch to SB's a reasonable choice?

Has your weekly/monthly spend increased since switching to SB's?

Have you seen or thought about seeing an ML/WL since you started seeing SB's?

[ASDF]

For those who have recently made the switch.

In your opinion, how much would someone have to be spending per week/month on ML/WL's, to make the switch to SB's a reasonable choice?

Has your weekly/monthly spend increased since switching to SB's?

Have you seen or thought about seeing an ML/WL since you started seeing SB's?

i actually kept track of all the expense i spent and its around 25k to 30k pa on SB in total or averaging around 500 to 600 per meet when i was quite active.. im by no means very generous if at all and quite picky with the SB like no upfront payment etc. This is definitely a lot more expensive compared to previously even with when i was seeing the medium to higher end private

[BennyB]

For those who have recently made the switch.

In your opinion, how much would someone have to be spending per week/month on ML/WL's, to make the switch to SB's a reasonable choice?

Has your weekly/monthly spend increased since switching to SB's?

Have you seen or thought about seeing an ML/WL since you started seeing SB's?

Hi Gthgrt

Your question assumes that someone punting has already reached a mature level of equilibrium in their punting and is clear on how much they are spending.

I would approach the question differently - and ask how how much discretionary income can you free up by revisiting where you are currently spending your cash. There is so much money that we leak on a weekly or monthly basis that could be better spent / invested elsewhere.

When I started out, I was probably spending $150 a week on hand jobs. Then I went on a private WL spree and was spending the current equivalent of a few thousand a month. That became unsustainable eventually - especially as I was quarantining funds from prying eyes at home.

I fell on that book I mentioned early on in punting Sugarbabes and it made me rethink a number of spending categories. I ended up free up a lot of cash flow by just not spending it on crap I did not need and by reducing wasteful spend in other categories. I now spend about $25-30k per annum on Sugarbabes. That's not on one girl. I feel like I'm fucking at least 15-20 different girls each year. I like the variety.

You have to figure out what you can free up and what you want to spend.

[gthgrt]

Hi Gthgrt

Your question assumes that someone punting has already reached a mature level of equilibrium in their punting and is clear on how much they are spending.

I would approach the question differently - and ask how how much discretionary income can you free up by revisiting where you are currently spending your cash. There is so much money that we leak on a weekly or monthly basis that could be better spent / invested elsewhere.

When I started out, I was probably spending $150 a week on hand jobs. Then I went on a private WL spree and was spending the current equivalent of a few thousand a month. That became unsustainable eventually - especially as I was quarantining funds from prying eyes at home.

I fell on that book I mentioned early on in punting Sugarbabes and it made me rethink a number of spending categories. I ended up free up a lot of cash flow by just not spending it on crap I did not need and by reducing wasteful spend in other categories. I now spend about $25-30k per annum on Sugarbabes. That's not on one girl. I feel like I'm fucking at least 15-20 different girls each year. I like the variety.

You have to figure out what you can free up and what you want to spend.

When asking the question about, how much someone would have to be spending on ML's/WL's before it would be worthwile to make the switch to SB's. I was hoping for an answer like - If you aren't prepared to spend at least $? per ?, then stick to punting. Intead you advise me to free up as much cash as I can.
It seems that your answer is that people should ignore what they currently spend on punting, don't try to put a base value on the SB experience, just free up as much cash as you can before joining in.

[Riff888]

When asking the question about, how much someone would have to be spending on ML's/WL's before it would be worthwile to make the switch to SB's. I was hoping for an answer like - If you aren't prepared to spend at least $? per ?, then stick to punting. Intead you advise me to free up as much cash as I can.
It seems that your answer is that people should ignore what they currently spend on punting, don't try to put a base value on the SB experience, just free up as much cash as you can before joining in.

It depends on how your relationship progresses.

When I first met my main SB, it was $600 for the first visit then $450 ongoing meets.

This turned into $350, then it was transfer $100 here and there.

I've been giving her just $200 lately but I do transfer money to her on days I don't see her so on average $400 per week.

Punting 3 times a week was about $750, probably more now if I see Leena.

Just try to connect and see if you click with the girls.

Trial and error too I guess.

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[gthgrt]

It depends on how your relationship progresses.

When I first met my main SB, it was $600 for the first visit then $450 ongoing meets.

This turned into $350, then it was transfer $100 here and there.

I've been giving her just $200 lately but I do transfer money to her on days I don't see her so on average $400 per week.

Punting 3 times a week was about $750, probably more now if I see Leena.

Just try to connect and see if you click with the girls.

Trial and error too I guess.

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Thanks for the response Riff888

[limbi8888]

Hi Gthgrt

Your question assumes that someone punting has already reached a mature level of equilibrium in their punting and is clear on how much they are spending.

I would approach the question differently - and ask how how much discretionary income can you free up by revisiting where you are currently spending your cash. There is so much money that we leak on a weekly or monthly basis that could be better spent / invested elsewhere.

When I started out, I was probably spending $150 a week on hand jobs. Then I went on a private WL spree and was spending the current equivalent of a few thousand a month. That became unsustainable eventually - especially as I was quarantining funds from prying eyes at home.

I fell on that book I mentioned early on in punting Sugarbabes and it made me rethink a number of spending categories. I ended up free up a lot of cash flow by just not spending it on crap I did not need and by reducing wasteful spend in other categories. I now spend about $25-30k per annum on Sugarbabes. That's not on one girl. I feel like I'm fucking at least 15-20 different girls each year. I like the variety.

You have to figure out what you can free up and what you want to spend.

Any chance you can PM the link for this book?

[BennyB]

Any chance you can PM the link for this book?

Sure I can PM you. Cheers