Hi Exstar - I think your comments re money saving in particular are spot on.Originally Posted by exstar
You will come across scammers and time wasters on Seeking, just as you do amongst the professional WL / ML class. Knowing how to avoid them is just one benefit of having a group of SDs sharing intel on scammers and we could easily do it on here.
The upside of Sugarbabes is that it is much harder to get sucked into a bait and switch.
I think a mad influx of new SDs is unlikely. It seems like they are all down at Number 5 although no one seems to send in reviews, so perhaps that should be the question for the detractors.
As you can see from the stats regarding the ratios of active SDs to SBs there is a long way to go before there is a market imbalance. So I think you are safe Exstar!
I don't mind a bit of banter Dire Straits. I even sent a polite PM asking the individual to keep on topic. Hopefully good manners will prevail.
I find it interesting that the forum has WLs on here. It would seem to be a conflict of interest for punters? In my experience it only ever results in blow ups and arguments. Case in point.
Welcome back to the topic.
As a punter shouldn't you be excited about more choice? Or more value for money options? Competition is great for you as a consumer.
Would you really want just one grocery store to shop at, or one restaurant to eat at? Of course not. Monopolies are bad for consumers.
The more information sources for you, the better. The more men punting Sugarbabes, the better it is for you as it means less competition at your favourite shop.
The only reason to not want more competition is because you are either a WL, or you run a shop, or you are getting kickbacks to send someone to a shop. Which is it?
Very poor choice of words and use of adjectives here.
Can't understand why so much agro and hostility here.
Some dude talking about the sugar baby scene.
Big deal, let him go for it. If you are interested, then tune in, maybe you will learn something, if not then go to another thread.
Is he using the Forum to brag? Yes of course he is.
Is he using the Forum to boast about his exploits? Yes of course he is.
Is he enjoying the attention ? Yes of course he is.
But hey, 99% of the guys on this Forum do the same thing.
Lets be honest with ourselves, we are guys who pay girls to suck our dicks, nothing more, nothing less, we can call ourselves punters or sugar daddies or Calathumpians but its all the same thing, and it's all good.
So we should welcome this long lost brother who comes from distant lands and give him a meal, and a cup of Arak and fermented mare's milk and a warm place by the fire rather than turn him away into the cold wintery night and wet snow.
What has happened to our sense of hospitality? What have we become? Has 2 years of covid hardened our hearts? Is this what our ancestors would want us to become? Savages who turn away a brother?
Yeah OK, there are probably other Forums that are more specific to the sugar baby scene where he can post, but the sugar baby scene is just sugar coated punting so its totally appropriate for it to be discussed here.
And FFS there are threads in this Forum about sport, TV shows, politics and all sorts of non punting shit and that's the beauty of this Forum, is very open and relaxed, not like some other fascist Forums around.
Enjoy!
I think its been awesome!
I got onboard and loving it, it is a better form of escorting imv. I don’t feel like the dude is ego based, he is providing his experiences as most of us do.
Nothing to brag about here we are all paying for sex!
HEAPS of guys on here with agendas pushing stuff. Blokes repeating the same top 5 for the last 5 years, they are just promoting MLs for their own gain!
Others maintaining threads for shops for discounts or free service, why the fck else would you waste your time doing that.
As above. If this thread on the sugar scene interests you, then stick around and read/learn/contribute… If not, do yourself and everyone else a favour and jog on please.
You sound like some jealous obese middle aged woman who has been scorned by a bad breakup lately, and by the sounds of things, need a good romp to get over it.
Fuck it, I'll take one for the team and volunteer, if it means you leave us alone. PM me Where and when you want to meet, Celine. Want me to bring my gimp suit as well? Ball gag OK? What about paper bags?
Back on topic, do SBs who indulge in the fun illicit activities openly advertise, or is it more like life, get to know em first?
Thanks Rooter. What I would give for a cup of fermented mares milk. Sounds better than squirting :-)
Hey Stiffy - I think every woman on SA, apart from the very small number of innocents who turn up, understands that sex is on the cards. Say 95% know this is so.
Some proportion of them will be pros - also advertising on E&B and the like. If that is what you are looking for, I'd just go to those sites.
Some proportion will be flirting in the grey area between escorting and thinking they are not yet fully escorts - I've seen girls on SA who came on as a Sugarbabe and then later seen them pop up on Locanto or E&B. If you get them before they become pros, you can score big time as you lock in an experience and an arrangement rate that others who come later don't get.
Then there are the girls who think it's a bit of a kink fantasy to have guys pay them for sex (the escort "fantasy")
The girls who are sick of bad tinder dates and would like a little more romance and a little "gift" for their time
The ones who don't conflate sex with love and who just love to fuck but don't want to be labelled prostitutes
The ones who have serious older man crushes / daddy issues
There's a long, long list of the different types you find on SA.
Unlocking who they are is where the magic is. Treating them all as a carbon copy might get you some hits and some fucks, but I find the individualised, personal approach to each of them more interesting, for me anyway.
Appreciate the informative write up Benny, but I was trying to descretely ask if any Babes would be open to doing lines from a 7 inch erect shlong.
Enjoying this thread. It's not an avenue I've ever explored but def sounds interesting.
Bloody hilarious Stiffy. As for your question - I'm sure they are. I just don't look for that myself. There do seem to be a lot of party girls on SA. A few have asked me to bring something stronger than a bottle of wine...
I got banned from SA for violating their rules. Apparently I was trying to procure sex in exchange for money. I’d actually had three sugaring arrangements from the site, one that continues to this day as an affair rather than a paid exchange.
Tried to re-join but their system knocked me back.
Tough to hear Buckjoe
The Sugaring Sites are pretty ruthless with that. All it takes is for a girl to report you and then the admins to ban you.
Have you tried a fresh email address (not the same email source provider - e.g. if you were on gmail, sign up to another free site) and credit card details?
Long time lurker here, I just signed up to Seeking.com thanks to this thread … wish me luck boys… lessgo!
Be interesting to hear how brothers have managed with the wonderful insight from Benny.
Benny do those stats you posted include bots? I read some sites use those as a way to get SDs to sub etc.
I'm interested to know how you juggle your personal life with your SD life. I'm always too concerned how I might bump into someone I know etc. Ever had a close call where the two worlds collided?
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Hi mate - it's a good question. I don't think we will ever know how many bots are on any site? Social media, or wherever. Have you seen any direct claims or evidence of that with Seeking? Be good to read about it if you have.
In my 3+ years on SA I've seen plenty of scammers, just as you do in any form of punting. But you learn to pick them out and there are sites with lists of profiles that are scammers. So you can avoid them.
I won't give you my personal tally, as that would be considered bragging, but I wouldn't be talking positively about it if I wasn't a satisfied consumer of the Sugarbabe product.
Re those stats, regardless of the numbers, I think directionally Sugaring is becoming more mainstream. It will be interesting to watch how it influences social behaviour.
There are always risks and close calls. Just like there are in any form of punting.
My close calls have never been having a woman I've slept with turn up in at a social event or in business, or even be connected to me by degrees of separation. That all comes down to shot selection I think. I've never actually recognised anyone on SA that I know, whereas I have seen people I know on Tinder and Hinge.
Leaving a packet of kamagra / viagra or an unused condom wrapper, or a hotel key in my jacket pocket is the closest I've come. And once I stupidly took home a girl's purse after a night of sex - it found it's way into my briefcase somehow and I had to return it the following day.
Not punting in the suburb where I live, or women in the same industry as me and picking people who seem normal and not psycho all lowers your risk. Working and travelling around the States is also helpful. Fortunately there are Sugarbabes in every suburb and there are hotels in just about every suburb. Just keep it simple.
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