Let me correct that slightly:
OP is at a restaurant, waitress explains what’s on offer and what’s not, waitress then takes the order. Waitress returns to serve the food.
The OP pinches the waitresses bum despite the waitress having explained earlier to OP that bum pinching is not allowed. Waitress gets offended and reports to manager and refuses to serve OP the rest of his food. OP demands a refund for unserved food and gets into an argument with the manager and the manager throw the refund money on the floor.
The OP then posted a similar thread in TripAdviser exactly as he did here and demanded a public apology, what would happen then ?
Ok, now what do you think will happen? The difference is that it is now an issue with OP’s behaviour and not the service provided. Do you think that anyone will care now whether the manager threw the money or not?