I used to punt often 2-3 times a month so not couple of times weekly person. But I would either go to a massage place or look for privates. With few ordinary experiences with ltime wasted I kind of was put off and stopped. The same time I also got opportuity to travel to South East Asia where I was able to make FWB who would spend time without asking for money upfront. My last punt with a WL was in Singapore in Jan 2019 and was not the same as I was drunk. I tried the Saigon Princess massage last year. It was allright but nothing that would get me to start again. I guess covid is partly responsible also.
So alltogether distraction is important if someone wants to reduce punting. I would say best thing will be to start a investment plan whether it is $100 per week or $1000. You will be surprised how quickly it grows to 10-20 000.
+1 Sound advice Mr Johnisfun1969
If people are throwing away too much money on punting, WLs, MLs, or SBs then I suggest you start working on your body game, your mouth piece, your masculinity, your intellect, your interests, your finances, your time, your hobbies, your business or career etc and in no time you’ll be attracting plenty of ladies and you’ll be fucking them for free….in fact they’ll be the ones chasing you especially if your sex game is also on point.
Ultimately every woman has some form of baggage the tip is to find one that travels light.
Anyway the moral of the story is to work on the “self” and not the “selfie”
As a side note, punting should be used for
- releasing unresolved sexual tension and stress
- developing and improving your sex game
Good suggestion.DA and JIF. However I also suggest labelling that savings account as money for fun and satisfaction. This could be saving up for an overseas trip, shouting a trouble friend a fancy dinner out, a new bike or to buy yourself and your better half some great looking sexy clothes. Now that I have recently acquired a girlfriend (unfortunately long distance) I spend my former punting money on sex toys and sexy lingerie for her. When in town we go bra shopping as she has 16Fs and you wouldn't believe how much a good balconette bra costs these days. I get to enjoy at dinner from the other side of the table.
If you don't have a girlfriend, label the account "sexy honeypot fund" for when you eventually acquire one that you want to hang on to. The less you punt the more money for spoiling you have down the track
Strong advice, invest in yourself and reap the rewards later
during lockdown it was constant easy saving money. after lockdown once I begin it’s draining my savings, it’s hard to stop bcoz when you have that free time outside work/activities the urge just kicks in mind. even in public when I see girls outfit. blows my mind. No matter how often excercise too. I try to focus myself find a wife but don’t know where to start or i’m just being picky.
I don’t know why i prefer to go regular shops than discovering new shops with uncertain service. Any recommendations for great legit massage in eastern sub? that will reduce my intensity and cost less.
I control by strict budgeting. But once I hit my saving goals, I will spent it without any guilt.
FOR THE ONE WHO CAN COTROL YOUR LUST
THE LORD SMILES ON YOU
THY SOUL SHALL BE SAVED
FOR THE ONE WHO LETS HIS LUST CONSUMES HIM
THOU ARE THE SAVIOUR BEYOND SALVATION AND PITY
CONFESS THY SIN AND FREE THY SOUL
OR WALK THE VALLEY OF DARKNESS ALONE
MAY FEAR BE WITH YOU
For me it's the temptation that I wrestle with. During lockdowns not problem. Total abstinence and not a thought otherwise. Doors n legs open and I couldn't help myself.
Lay off the porn and service sites and obviously this forum is a good start
Only new to it in recent times but after my initial splurge I have now not punted for close to two weeks so I think I am able to control it.
Mind you I am kinda saving up for a feast of sex over Christmas.
The best thing to take your mind off it is either go full on celibate or regularly jerk off.
Not saying which route I have taken