Yea I mean it feels a bit embarrassing when you're seeing a WL but I forget about it after a while and punt again.Originally Posted by juscruisin58
Looks like I'm not alone with these kind of symptoms. But yes, for me if it's with a new girl I will have the same problem. After a few session with the same girl and as my body gets familiar with hers, I will regain my mojo.
If you can get hard with masturbation, then it's mostly likely psychological.
Does anyone have the problem with when you’re hard but as soon as the WL pickles your balls you loose erection?
I stick to MLS then it doesn’t matter what state my old fella is in.
Performance anxiety with new sexual partners, while not openly talked about, is well accepted (at least in medical community). Pretty normalPickles your balls? As in put them in a jar and add vinegar or am I missing something?
I read somewhere a while back that if you can get an erection regardless of if its from watching porn, from a ML, WL, your partner or morning wood, then its not a physical problem but a mental problem. If its a physical problem, you cannot get a hard on in any scenario. I'm also pretty sure if its a physical problem, you will struggle to get an erection even with the help of a blue pill.
For us partnered punters performance issues may also be brought on from feelings of guilt.
Yep, this has happened to me a few times. It’s purely psychological and almost always an indication that this relationship is not going to work out (like some kind of weird warning sign).
ED is defined as not being able to get and maintain an erection long enough to reach orgasm, and it can happen due to physical or psychological problems. The ED meds are actually meant for people with physical problems, not those with psychological ones.
During diagnosis of ED, the doctor will ask you if you can jerk off to porn and successfully cum. If you answer yes you can cum, they will classify you as having psychological ED and might not even prescribe any meds to you. That's what happened to me when I tried to get a script for spedra through Pilot.
I think taking ED meds itself somewhat gives you the confidence and therefore feed back into relieving the psychological ones.
Have the same experience when the environment is not clean or don't feel comfy to be naked
If that was going down a soft cock would be the least of your problems. I think he meant “tickled”
The other thing I find is the WL or Ml when the decide to end the session they start to jerk you off. Although you may have a decent errection but during the session it could go down. This does not work for me. I may not get turned on again by looking at the naked body. I sometimes need some gentle soft caressing, maybe the girl whispering on my ear or even nibbling the earlobes. Breathing or whispering into the ear. But it’s hard to explain or teach these girls in shops. I know when this happens by session is going from bad to worse. It’s time to clean up and leave. I probably won’t repeat the same girl again.
I hear you bro. I also think, the ability to recover a session when this happens is what separates a great courtesan from a mediocre one. They’ll know when it starts to happen, for sure. Some continue without doing anything special, some even make it worse by doing the wrong thing, but a select few know exactly the right buttons to push to help me over the line.
lmao, this is too funny
I knew this thread wouldn’t end well.
Ok Brad Pitt! Lol
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