Obviously you have never experienced a real one. I have only been in Japan once and only for 20 hours, but my travel work mate took me to a soapland in Tokyo which accepted white fellas. I was in there for 4 hours and got the full service available (no fs, but definitely a better experienced). I have never had anything like it since. If Mr Stone recommendation above is even anywhere close, try it. There is nothing like warm to hot nuru gel and plenty of it, its truely nothing like oil.