I’ve only been ‘faked’ twice.
Once when the profile pics were from the pre-digital age, the other when the actual was nothing like the pictures.

So I’ve developed a routine that instantly shows up the fakes.
Since most comm is done by text messages, I always ask, very politely as a final question, for the WL to send me a pic of her holding a note with todays date.
1. If she does- she’s legit
2. If she balks and says no, for any reason, goodnight nurse
3. If she does but you can’t see her face or any other distinguishing features, it’s 50/50. I look for Tatts, jewellery or background items that may be in her profile pics.
Nothing worse than arriving at a joint with anticipation and a full sack only to find some dumpy frump.
Happy punting