They're probably married blokes who are having a bit of fun without actually cheating.Originally Posted by Carissawhore
They want someone to care and love them just like anyone. To them is a job and some BF/hubby/family might think the same that they girl is doing a job to make money fast.
But then some BF are jealous then is a different story. I know one working for 18 month in western suburbs and gone back to her hometown and bought a apartment with her husband and have a son now.
Some WL are actresses. Tears could just be one of their weapons to hook.
The chance for relationship with WL ending well is 1 pc. It is a much bigger punting.
treating them nicely is rule number one, but keep in mind they have a choice to work a normal job and ger 20 bucks per hour as well.
It's hard to go to a normal job after earning $10k a week tax free.
There's other way though.
I know plenty of Thai girls working 3 to 4 normal jobs earning up to $3k a week after tax. That's a very good salary even though the hours are long. Students do lots of cash work too.
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WLs have total contempt for customers.
They see them either as losers who need to pay for sex, cheaters on their wives and girlfriends, players, definitely not trustworthy, definitely not husband material.
The thing with WLs is that they are only human and want real companionship, love, family etc.
But where do they find a guy?
Well this is their dilemma.
Because of the nature of their work and the hours it's hard for them to meet nice guys who are not punters.
And it's also highly risky because they have to create a whole alternative life story for themselves; work, friends etc and it is very difficult and highly stressful trying to get away with this. Or they can be honest with a potential boyfriend and tell them they are a WL, knowing that 99% of guys will end the relationship, or just use them for sex and dump them.
So the only guys they meet are punters. They meet punters all the time and the punters know what they do.
So they try to find the best one they can.
But of course they have zero respect for punters.
As for the punters well they either just want to use the WL girlfriend for sex, or live off her earnings, or want to try and save her and expect her to live on $500 per week, or have no respect for her, or want to live the brothel fantasy 24/7, or don't want to introduce her to family and friends etc.
So the relationship is basically doomed from the start.
Many WLs plan is make money to get through uni, or buy a property, or live a party lifestyle while they are young, and then get out of the industry while they are still young.
Working as a WL in a different country for example for a short time, and then coming back home, get a normal job, find a guy who knows nothing about her past.
too true rooter. I can't have summarized it better myself.
White knights are the ones that creep out a ML I have gotten to know a little. Same same if they are in the industry out of desperation or for a beneficial income. They just don’t want to be belittled.
That is exactly what the WL told me. She told me she had no time to meet guys outside of work. So punters are the only guys thats available to her. So all 3 previous bf are punters and jerks.
Perfect analysis, especially about the drop in income. Hard to buy your LV bags with $500
Some WLs who have been working for more than 2 years in the industry will start hunting for husbands if they're not studying courses approved for PR application. Depending on cultures some will ask their customers directly while some others will drop hints.
I had a WL who hinted at me to ask her out during our first session. This was around last year. Unfortunately I was over dating WLs so I tested her resolve with difficult questions - would she be able to accept me frequenting shops even after we're married, what job will she look for once we're married and will she be okay not having as much income as she is having atm? She said she'll think about it, however on the next few sessions she tested to see if I'd be okay that she continues being a WL when we eventually get married - my obvious answer is no.
With other WLs I sometimes pop the question about their future to see their responses. Those working only 1-2 days a week in only one shop are usually busy with their final year at college, some are studying PR approved degrees so they're not desperate to find a husband, others will either keep changing their courses to stay longer while hoping a husband will suddenly appear out of nowhere and will go back if they have exhausted all options. And depending on their upbringing some will desperately marry anyone available regardless of their looks and money while some are much more conservative and will choose their husbands carefully by doing rigorous shit testing.
And obviously in the punter's gene pool only 1% are good looking, good mannered and rich enough for any WL to agree on.
I'm not super good looking or super rich, I don't flaunt Patek Philippe watches when I visit shops so there is no way WLs know that I am rich enough for them. However, the ones that I had dated and the ones who had "asked" me if I want to be their husbands were usually the type who are desperate to stay here.
You would think that if the WL was desperate for PR you'd get a chance to give them empty promises for free sex and dump? You're wrong. WLs, like normal girls are also smart and manipulative. They'll make you prove your worth by making you visit them during their work days - if they work 5 days a week then they'll expect you to see them 5 times or more each week, otherwise she'd play you and say you're not rich enough for her golden pussy.
My ML ex made me see her 4 times a week. And I have to buy gifts & dinner on top of it. My monthly expenditure on her was roughly $2.5k, and she was emotionally draining at the same time. So glad I stopped dating her, now I'm able to afford a Grand Seiko watch every 3-4 months lol
Why would anyone go down this route. If anything you should be dictating terms and conditions if you are providing the PR via marriage. You should be ask for a lump sum a weekly cut and fucking her friends. What you are providing is far more valuable! Happy to negotiate on your behalf Hahhaha
I wouldn’t go with the Grand seiko poor re sale watch man. Get yourself a Panerai nice statement piece.
I agree bros... still shocks me that there are people out there that feel like just because it is a WL/ML they can treat them like shit... look in the mirror bros you aint smelling like roses either and secondly we all human, that is someones mom/sister/girlfriend/wife and who are we to pass judgement on what type of work they do ffs we the ones paying for it. We should at the very least respect them as i am pretty sure in other circumstances some of these WL/ML's would be way out of our league. I really do wish em all the best and the very least I can do is be one less a-hole they have to deal with.
relationship with wl/ml does not work. trully, does anybody wanted their gf to continue working as ml/wl? it's like, oh, how many guys will be fucking my gf today? or, oh, how many dicks will my gf be holding today?
bro, I have heard of many stories that pimps their GF / wife out and then get their money to spend on drugs and gambling etc. and the guy dont work.
Currently there are a few MLs that I know, has with BF with no job.
How do you do 3-4 jobs a week? You would be working 24 hours a day.
When I was 20 years younger and better looking I used to think about dating some of the WLs. Back in the old days before I went RNT only. The oddest story was a very pretty young Chinese girl who just wore jeans and a T shirt in the line up. Classic starfish root including the famous line Is it over yet? Anyway off the back of that stellar performance I had to ask her so why are you working here? Her mindless answer To pay off my boyfriends debts!
Or another Indonesian girl who was so great in bed and I was so young and naive that after the sex I just blurted out would she go out with me! And smart girl she was laughed in my face and correctly said she could never go out with a guy who visits places like this.
I have heard so many weird stories from WL's over the years. One told me that she has a customer that loves BDSM. Another one that has never had sex with her but wanks off just looking at her then blows on her face. Some customers will book the girl with their mate, no intercourse, wank and get double BBBJ then do double COF/CIM.
I was at a city shop and talking to the papasan about stuff. We get along well and the shop was busy but had time for a ciggie. He was telling me about his dealings with customers especially the weird customers. He did tell me about this one time a customer removed the rubber in doggy and the girl was in tears afterwards. Another where the customer put some sort of substance on the girls pussy and she was like wtf. Of course, they got banned from the shop. The worst is when a WL was with a customer and she said no anal. What does the customer do ? He started pounding her anal. She just continued with it and had to go home afterwards.
When I heard this, it really enforced what I already knew.
I found myself confronted with a long lost daughter reappear as a WL. She is out of the game now with her house paid off and a husband and child. I got a call in the middle of the night asking me to pick her up from a place and when I turned up her and another girl had quit. I couldn't leave the other girl just standing there and so said can we give you a lift. My daughter and I drove the girl to her friend's place. This girl couldn't believe I was really my daughters father, that I knew what she did (I just found out btw) and still came when she needed me. That I wasn't screaming and yelling about it. It ended with her all teary wishing her parents still spoke to her. I felt so sorry for the girl. It was a slap in the face for me, but before my divorce I had told my daughter that she was living her life not me and that whatever she did she was still my daughter, (despite her mother's poison in her ear, she knew I still loved her) Plus I had in my younger days punted my way around SE Asia and Australia with the navy. I couldn't be on my high horse. But it brought home to me these women are someone's daughter, sister, mother even. They aren't there to be disrespected or looked down on. They provide a service we want of them, so we have no cause to get high and mighty. I treat all ML and WL decently and where in the past I've been a regular I and my money of course have been popular despite being fat, bald and ugly. I've been invited out back to share food, help with homework for the students, talk about tourist spots to see and even gone out for meals with them and their friends. I only punt now and then now but still get waves and hellos if I run into one of the girls.
Some punters are fucked. Please treat the girls with respect.
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