is punting considered cheating?

[woodland]

I dream of the day where having sex with somebody is as casual as grabbing a cup of coffee with them
where marriages are redundant and kids are born out of incubators.

[FB24]

Hey lads! I know I might get some mixed opinions but I’m curious to know everyones take on this, would you consider punting cheating towards your partner/wife? Why yes/no?

In my opinion, yes its cheating

[Mickeydrippen]

I have noticed a lot of members seem preoccupied by rear door parlour entries. This is in a city of 5 and a half million. Wonder if they know what there wife would think.

[apokalypse]

speaking of cheating had a session with this ML who is married offer a fuck for $100 but i'm thinking about it..got her phone number and ask her out and in hotel. She said can't do at home because of husband.

[apokalypse]

I'm beginning to feel like this lol. I've had friends inviting me to go clubbing at The Argyle just so that they can learn from me how to pick up chicks.

it's about confidence really...as introvert simply can't do it. i always got a hug from my date but mind went blank didn't move on...i could pick up alot of chicks not being introvert.

[Aphantom]

Modern day cheating is too complicated. Even just talking to another girl without having sex can be considered cheating if done intimately. If that's the case then I've actually cheated more than I thought because I've had intimate conversations with colleagues and third party clients more than the amount of girls or WLs I've had sex with.

What is intimate conversations? Sometimes it involves a bit of sex talk, sometimes we share some feelings, talk about things only shared between husbands and wives, the only thing we didn't do is say "Do you want to start a relationship with me and have sex later?"

Totally agree with this. I have a female friend overseas with whom I’ve never slept. However we both admitted later that we had a crush on each other when we first met.
That led to frantic texting for about a year. So we know everything about each other’s sex life, preference, errogenous zones etc. More than our spouses know in fact. She even asked me to go over so that we could consummate it, but I didn’t take up her offer.

[Labia Vortex]

I don't see it as cheating....a lot of woman do though....not a need know behaviour

[ynot_tony]

Totally agree with this. I have a female friend overseas with whom I’ve never slept. However we both admitted later that we had a crush on each other when we first met.
That led to frantic texting for about a year. So we know everything about each other’s sex life, preference, errogenous zones etc. More than our spouses know in fact. She even asked me to go over so that we could consummate it, but I didn’t take up her offer.

Cheating can be either emotionally or physically or both

[mikael66]

no matter how you flip it, it is cheating if you have a wife. if you have gf, it is not cheating but exploring.

[priapus1966]

Only if you get caught.

Rogeryou repeated the same point and I agree, but would take it a little further: If punters are gunna punt, they at least owe it to their SO's to be discreet. You don't want to upset her, and she doesn't want to be upset, so you owe it to her not to get caught. Get your ducks in a row so that when you are asked 'what were you doing in such and such a place at a particular time?' Have your answer ready.

[rooter]

Yeah, of course its cheating.
If you accept that moral paradigm then its cheating, Absolutely its cheating.
But you don't have to accept that moral paradigm.

[hunglow]

yep, cheating!
so is jerking off to porn without your partner.
so is thinking about someone else while fucking the mrs.
so is thinking about fucking someone else without touching your junk.
so is........
its all cheating man!

[Blackbird68]

Hey lads! I know I might get some mixed opinions but I’m curious to know everyones take on this, would you consider punting cheating towards your partner/wife? Why yes/no?

Depends if youve discussed boundaries with your partner.

They way I see it for myself is that there is absolutely no emotional attachment to WLs. I try not to see the same WL more than twice, even if the service was the best. It's simply a service hahahaha

Is that cheating?? i mean if you want to get into the details sure .... but if not, youre simply exchanging money for a service.

Theres no emotional attachment and theres no feelings (for me at least)

[cplurt2]

So here's is the deal. The definition of cheating is this:. to practice fraud or deceit:. So if your partner would want to know you're doing this so they can break up with you then yes it is cheating. If your partner says "I don't have the energy to have sex with you all the time you can have a girlfriend and you decide girlfriends are too expensive so you punt instead that's simple economics. If your partner full on says wear a condom and don't bring anything home anytime you bareback whatever you're cheating.

[dannyboy]

Definitely not cheating...

[moonlighta]

Thats a tuff discussion but may be best to be sure. Each person has their own values and so would say we and others would say no.

[Ninjas1018]

I think it's an acceptable form of cheating as there is (supposedly) much less likelihood of forming that emotional bond required in a partnership.

[yuikara3]

It's cheating if its not something accepted by the couple with communication I guess. And if the line is crossed to what's accepted than it would be defined as cheating on your partner.

[asiafever]

It's cheating if its not something accepted by the couple with communication I guess. And if the line is crossed to what's accepted than it would be defined as cheating on your partner.

Summed it up pretty much. If you have not discussed it and your partner would be pissed if they found out, or if your partner did it and you'd be pissed, yes it's cheating. Justify it to yourself however you like but that's what it boils down to.

[cplurt2]

Coming to a forum where we talking about banging babes lixking the slit and having threeaomes surely isn't the best place to calibrate your moral compass. Most of us motherfuckers lost em or gave em to our kids