welcome to the club, just remember sex is an addiction like gambling and drugs and can ruin your personal and work life if you let it,
so the first thing always have a budget, pay your living expenses first and don't have any large amount of credit card debt,
never punt near home or work unless you can be discrete, and keep it a secret never brag what you are doing as it can back fire, you could end up loosing your job, girlfriend or wife,
in terms where to start, start with your appearance and treat it like a date, so make shore you are clean and tidy and no body oder or bad breath, it turns the girl off and you get bad service,
first place for RnT and you if are nerves try Vitality Charm massage, at Broadway, next to the shopping centre, its all inclusive in the price and the girls do covered CBJ for an extra $30 so damage for 1 hour $155, the shop is clean and have private showers in the room,
in your local RNT near the train station, 1hour massage is $60, than $20 hj, $50 naked HJ, but you can touch the girls, and $100 for sex, but most places only have a hot towel to clean you up and no shower facilities,
for full service try meditating or being relaxed before you start if you are too excited you are going to blow your load really quickly,
most shops are the same they have a bed and a shower in the room and you pay around $150 for an hour out west, just check their websites
if you don't like going to a parlour, try a private escort on sites like www.escortsandbabes.com.au you pay a bit extra but business is conducted in a private apartment and you can treat it like a date where you are going to her place for some fun,
we are all nervous when we try something new, but the key is just to relax and enjoy the moment,