Reply With QuoteYou sound like a decent bloke bro.
You won't get any useful advice on this Forum. A bunch of cads here
So went on dating apps and met a few girls.
Kinda settled on one fairly early, quickly entered a relationship.
I was still active in the apps.
I was found out. She broke up with me.
First time I didn’t physically cheat on my gf, stayed away from hookers during this time.
Still feel shit I guess I deserved it.
Lessons for next time:
- don’t settle too quickly
- be committed physically AND emotionally
You sound like a decent bloke bro.
You won't get any useful advice on this Forum. A bunch of cads here
Don't be too hard on yourself.Originally Posted by niva321
Keep looking and you may find someone better.
A fool who knows he is a fool is farther along the road to wisdom than a wise man.
As long as you learn from the experience and know not to repeat the mistake then you will grow from it, and that's what life's journey is all about, learning and growing.
Keep it casualties as long as you can until you get a taste for what’s out there, then settle on the best.
Which dating apps did you try? Not Tinder or Bumble?
Why give up a forest for a tree. In any case, focus on making $ if you want AND have a chick stick to you. No money = no honey.
Dating has become too complicated these days. Too many dating apps that don't get you results and scammers taking advantage of people looking for love and genuine relationships. Not only this but many girls don't want to settle down straight away. They want to enjoy life, travel and pursue their careers. Others want to make money by being SBs for guys requiring companions and an outlet for sex or emotional feelings. It's not easy dating and finding the right person now.
This is probably the most succinct observation of our time. Girls want to have a great time and they want you to pay for it. They string you along and eventually dump you.
One of my friends drive a nice BMW way above his economic status to impress his "girlfriend". He spent a large part of his pay to entertain her every week. After a year or two she left him for Hong Kong. That was the last time he heard of her.
The experience left a deep scar on him. He never recovered from it.
Seeking.com is a lesson to be learned. How many girls there look for luxury lifestyle, expensive gifts etc?
I can see why, he drives a BMW...Crap,all you attract with these cars are repair bills.........
I think there's another way of looking at it, if you try to impress girls by flashing cash you'll attract girls looking for $$. There are plenty of dudes with no money and shitty cars picking up hot girls.
If you're going on one of those websites then you are looking at girls really only after money.
Some great responses here - Mr Cuteguy, Mr Sibon and sensei Mr Asiafever.
Women of today are in general are vain, selfish, insecure, materialistic and shallow. What all women have going for them is beauty, femininity, and a delicate, soft and sexual nature (which is magnetic to males), and most will use these traits to attract, play and manipulate men that have money and resources, are naive or beta, are horny and desperate, and are vague or ambiguous in how they communicate or socialise.
Sibon's BMW mate got played and he needs to wise up and learn from his experience.
He needs to stop watching Disney movies and Romcoms and learn the ways of the animal kingdom.
Chivalry is dead and buried. Girls wanting nice guys is a load of rubbish. If you try to impress girls with money or flashy items, they will dump you once you go broke or cease giving her the lifestyle that she could not afford to have on her own. No wonder guys turn to FS and RNT shops! Spend a few dollars and you're satisfied (well in most cases).
I mean you attract what you project... If your way of picking up chicks is to flash your cash then off course you'll be attracting Gold diggers...
What you use to attract women is what type of women you'll attract. I mean it's not rocket science.
Years ago I got dumped by this chick who I met on the dating site. I cannot remember the exact name of it but think Lavalife. We had had a few dates so went on to remove my account, the process was a pain so I removed my pics while they take up to 72hrs to shut down. Anyway she has logged on and it came up that I was updating my profile and she did her stack accusing me of not being serious with her. Probably a good thing as a few warning signs around her stalking and controlling there
A few years ago I met up from tinder and started going out with her, then funny enough we both met up again from another app. so we both were effectively still looking and found each other out. big deal, move on.
The 5 essential requirements required to win any woman over is to make them feel Safe, Feminine, Desired, Beautiful and Loved. If you can deliver on all 5 she'll be like putty in your hands and you'll get pussy on tap. The problem is once they turn into 300 pound nagging gorillas it's next to impossible to deliver on all 5 requirements. Ergo why these forums exist.
Getting life advice on a punters forum - fucking brilliant!
Love it!
DJ Khalid screaming -We the best, another one
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