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    Looking forward to OP's next adventures and successes.

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    #7, Petite Mute C WL

    As always not meant to be an AR but more a report on how things are going with my "issues". Not necessarily the best punt so don't really want to write an AR but people in the know can probably imply who the WL is from the title alone but feel free to PM me if looking for intel.

    #7, Petite Mute C WL

    Prelude:
    Not too much to elaborate on this time. I was feeling alright after my last punt (#6) but a bit apprehensive my issue was not fully resolved and it might have been a fluke. I thought it might be a good plan trying to pick a smaller WL and therefore smaller/tighter pussy. I was also looking to visit the much better regarded N5M and check out the establishment. First choice was booked out first day I tried making a booking. Second day trying to make a booking first choice was booked out again despite contacting mamasan within an hour of roster release (must be popular!) so went with 2nd choice who also is also very small, has some decent reviews and good looking photos/profile. Booked an hour during lunch period. 4 nights since previous punt.

    Arriving at N5M; seems pretty busy! Ran into 4 other customers while I was there: one entering at the same time, one inside the corridor (working something out with mamasan) and another entering whilst I was leaving. Mamasan showed me and the other customer to (separate) waiting rooms then a 15 min wait before I was shown to a room. The rooms seem much nicer (and newer) than 479 Ginza.

    The Girl:
    Age: Early 30s appearance. Not particularly old looking but not that young either.
    Face: 5/10. Chinese, not my type, kinda wide and flat but maybe to the liking of others.
    Figure: 6/10. Very short <150cm. Very short legs and extremely small feet. Not the best proportions. Tummy a tiny bit flabby and stretched. Photos seem either fake or heavily shopped but they didn't really show much anyway.
    Boobs: A 6/10. Small but still a little deflated looking.
    Ass: 5/10. On the small side, a little lumpy and flat.
    Communication: 6/10. Her being unable to speak or hear was more of a barrier than I anticipated. Having to stop and pull out a phone or otherwise try get her attention and make gestures really didn't help the flow but was able to manage still
    Service: 7/10. Pretty good service overall though. Not the best but still quite good.

    WL comes in and my first thoughts are: hmmm that face isn't really my type, looks a bit older and wow she is really short. Sitting down a bit of introduction/small talk via google translate then into the shower. Going into the shower I was fully hard but while messing around with the shower and waiting for her I lost my boner. She helped give me a wash and brought the mouth wash, pretty average shower service. I did a bit of DFK. She then also gave me a BBBJ while in the shower, which wasn't the most pleasant because standing there wet was a bit cold. Dried off and on to the bed. By then I was fully soft again.

    A bit more clumsy small talk on using google translate. She asked me to not be nervous and if it was my first time so I guess I must look pretty green and awkward still. She did some B2B massage and cat bath which got me going again. I also did a bit more DFK. Not sure if she was just trying to do pussy slide or playing around the entrance of her pussy but she was grabbing my bare cock and sticking it around her pussy while straddling me so I though we was going to BB so I stopped her and tried gesturing to use a condom. I think it wasn't fully understood and she got off, wiped me with tissues and went to BBBJ. The BBBJ was ok, it didn't feel particularly good or at any risk of making me cum but it was enough to get me harder.

    After a few mins of BBBJ I gestured for her to start the main course she cleaned me up with tissues and put on the condom. She then straddled me kneeling for some CG. Putting it in and leaning forward but quickly changing to a leaning back posture bending by dick back and pulling it down hard. I tried to move myself to to change the angle to be more comfortable for me but she reset herself back to the same position. So I gave up and let her go at it for a bit. Not longer after she changed to a squatting position leaning forward more and going much faster. This actually felt pretty good and I could feel myself getting closer to cumming. Unlike the last punt where I tried to let myself cum as soon as possible, this time I tried to hold back a bit mentally without getting her to slow down or change position. After what felt like less than 5 min of CG and about 30 min into the session I came in her pussy.

    She helped take the condom off and let me rest for a bit. I was still fully hard and I felt like I might have been able to go right again though. We lay down and had some small talk for some 5 min and I started feeling a bit of that post nut sleepiness. I asked her if we could try go a second time. By then though I was completely soft. She tried BBBJ for a bit then also a HJ but that didn't really feel good or get me hard again. So I gave up on trying for a 2nd time and asked her if she could give me a back massage instead for the remaining time but it seemed like she didn't really know what to do. That's when I had the idea to get her to le me finger her.

    I got her to give me a condom to put my fingers in then started playing with her pussy. I started playing with her vulva for a few min. She also started touching herself at the same time (probably trying to show me how to do it properly lol) and started grabbing my dick to jerk me off at the same time but again it didn't feel great. I then moved on to sticking my fingers inside her and exploring inside her pussy. By then she'd stopped trying to jerk me off and was grabbing the pillow and moaning as I rubbed her g-spot. That's when I got fully hard again. Noticing she excitedly got out condoms to go again but I wasn't sure there was enough time for a proper round and checked the clock, only 10 min left. I didn't really want to get started then blue balled and I also didn't want to get an extension. So I asked her if she's let me finger her for another few minutes but then she said no and got me to go shower.

    I got in the shower and started cleaning myself off then she came over and helped washed me a bit too. I also washed my mouth, finished showering, drying and getting dressed at a leisurely pace before leaving.

    After Thoughts:
    I did cum but I don't think it was a great session overall. Mostly, I didn't find the WL very attractive. Communication was clumsy and really broke the flow, as did her constant use of tissues. Not being able to keep the flow and momentum going or just dealing/begin ok with awkward and quiet in between periods is I guess something I could do better? Not sure how though, jerking myself off while waiting? lol

    The failed attempt to do a round 2 was disappointing but I can't really blame that on the lady. I think more than getting serviced with a HJ or BJ I find it much hotter to play with and explore the girl's body. I felt way more turned on fingering her pussy than I did from everything apart from her riding me CG. Maybe I should try finding a girl that's more willing to let me service her or I guess more "Dom" in proactively getting me to touch and play with her body? So far I've been mostly just letting the WL run the session which seems to result in them following their routine servicing but instead maybe I should be more assertive so I'll get to have more fun with their body?

    Otherwise I might be better off going for 45 min sessions for the time being seeing as I was able to cum within 30 min in the last two punts? If I think I can go 2 rounds I might stay at 60min or maybe a bit longer. I guess I've managed to reset my sensitivity to a more "normal" level of endurance now at least.

    I guess it's also a good sign with my delayed ejaculation issue that despite not feeling particularly physically attracted to the lady I was still able to cum. I do wonder if that was because she had a relatively tight pussy though? She felt kind of similar to the previous WL #6 (Ginza 479 - Dior) which I guess would indicate well above average pussy?

    Next Steps:
    I think next I want to try going to a WL with a more "average" pussy but hopefully still physically attractive and if I can, a WL that will let me touch her a lot. Even better might be a WL that will actively direct me on how to touch her and get her off.

    As always, I welcome thoughts, advice, tips and suggestions.

    TL;DR
    Didn't find the WL very attractive but was still able to cum which is good? Trying to find a WL that will let me touch her a lot. Also many thoughts and questions on how I might approach and carry out a session better.

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    As you have break the barrier, now you can look to good looking atrractive wl, to test if you have solved the problem.

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    Hey man,

    I don't need to be a rocket scientist to know who you're talking about lol. Glad to see I'm not the only one who doesn't find her particularly attractive.

    As you say, it's a good sign you were able to cum without being super attracted to the chick. Did you find her pussy to feel tight inside or just at the entrance? Until you get more comfortable with sex, I'd recommend seeing girls with decent communication skills (i.e. can speak English). In general, a lot of doors will open up when you're more comfortable in the room with the girl. You being at ease will put her at ease. Only experience can help that, but I'm sure there are plenty of tips to help: mine is to smile when you first greet the girl.

    If you have trouble booking at N5M, just get PKING to book on your behalf. He's Marrickville royalty by now.

    RE: touching, I usually do DATY or 69 and if they're getting into it, start testing the waters with a finger and see where it leads.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PKING2 View Post
    As you have break the barrier, now you can look to good looking atrractive wl, to test if you have solved the problem.
    Yes sir!

    Quote Originally Posted by FatStache View Post
    Hey man,

    I don't need to be a rocket scientist to know who you're talking about lol. Glad to see I'm not the only one who doesn't find her particularly attractive.

    As you say, it's a good sign you were able to cum without being super attracted to the chick. Did you find her pussy to feel tight inside or just at the entrance? Until you get more comfortable with sex, I'd recommend seeing girls with decent communication skills (i.e. can speak English). In general, a lot of doors will open up when you're more comfortable in the room with the girl. You being at ease will put her at ease. Only experience can help that, but I'm sure there are plenty of tips to help: mine is to smile when you first greet the girl.

    If you have trouble booking at N5M, just get PKING to book on your behalf. He's Marrickville royalty by now.

    RE: touching, I usually do DATY or 69 and if they're getting into it, start testing the waters with a finger and see where it leads.
    Happy to see you back! Thanks for the advice.

    When she was first putting it in it felt pretty tight at the entrance but then decently snug inside. She did use a bit of lube. When fingering her later she felt pretty wet too.

    Hopefully the next girl I'm looking at isn't too popular but we'll see lol.

    Seems like DATY is the best way to get good service in return from what punters here seem to think?

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    Quote Originally Posted by FatStache View Post
    RE: touching, I usually do DATY or 69 and if they're getting into it, start testing the waters with a finger and see where it leads.
    Yeah this is a good advice, but don't just shove your finger in. Play with her vulva while daty and try to just hovering your finger around outer vagina and sometime near the opening. As if you see the girl reaction, maybe breath heavier or trembling, push a bit your finger in while keep maintaining same move when you hovering your finger. And slowly2 insert your finger. And reach her g spot lol.

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    Actually I have a question, usually at the start of the session you need to shower right? I feel like I'd like to have some fun with the girl while her cloths are on and have fun undressing her before moving to shower together or other acts. Most of the time so far however I say hello to the girl then they get me to immediately get completely naked and go shower and then I'm on the bed naked. I feel like I'm missing out on an entire section of potential foreplay.

    What do people normally do? Any tips? I guess you could do the shower then get dressed again and go "from the start" like that?

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    Quote Originally Posted by gimmesome View Post
    I feel like I'd like to have some fun with the girl while her cloths are on and have fun undressing her before moving to shower together or other acts. Most of the time so far however I say hello to the girl then they get me to immediately get completely naked and go shower and then I'm on the bed naked. I feel like I'm missing out on an entire section of potential foreplay.

    What do people normally do? Any tips? I guess you could do the shower then get dressed again and go "from the start" like that?
    Some girls don't make you shower if you tell them you showered before coming and seem clean. For some girls, the undressing foreplay is part of their routine (wish J Rey would come back lol).

    You should straight up tell the girl you wanna take it slow and undress each other first. Some will make it sensual, others will just be awkward or perfunctory but that's okay. Trial and error.

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    Quote Originally Posted by gimmesome View Post
    Actually I have a question, usually at the start of the session you need to shower right? I feel like I'd like to have some fun with the girl while her cloths are on and have fun undressing her before moving to shower together or other acts. Most of the time so far however I say hello to the girl then they get me to immediately get completely naked and go shower and then I'm on the bed naked. I feel like I'm missing out on an entire section of potential foreplay.

    What do people normally do? Any tips? I guess you could do the shower then get dressed again and go "from the start" like that?
    My best sessions always have a decent tease and foreplay before the shower.

    1. As others mentioned always come clean and sharp. I don't go as far as dressing with Italian leather shoes and shit, but at least try to look appealing enough that she'd consider fucking me on the street.

    2. Enter the room with a good vibe and wash my hands straight away either in the sink if they have one or use hand sanitiser. Make sure she sees it.

    Sometimes I sit on the chair if they have one and get her to straddle me. Hands on and feel her up, DFK, dry hump and grind and start peeling clothes of eachother.

    Other times I take control and pin them to the wall. Again it's DFK and sliding (freshly cleaned) digits up her dress for a light finger blast.

    In my experience, I always read the room and the vibe and go from there. Most girls enjoy being lead, and it probably helps keep excitement higher for her when I bring a different "playlist" compared to the several fucks she had to give before me.

    Only my 2 cents

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    Quote Originally Posted by PKING2 View Post
    Yeah this is a good advice, but don't just shove your finger in. Play with her vulva while daty and try to just hovering your finger around outer vagina and sometime near the opening. As if you see the girl reaction, maybe breath heavier or trembling, push a bit your finger in while keep maintaining same move when you hovering your finger. And slowly2 insert your finger. And reach her g spot lol.
    Yep, will keep it in mind.

    Quote Originally Posted by FatStache View Post
    Some girls don't make you shower if you tell them you showered before coming and seem clean. For some girls, the undressing foreplay is part of their routine (wish J Rey would come back lol).

    You should straight up tell the girl you wanna take it slow and undress each other first. Some will make it sensual, others will just be awkward or perfunctory but that's okay. Trial and error.
    Thanks for the advice. Damn shame I missed Rey, sounds like we would have ticked a lot of my boxes.

    Quote Originally Posted by TwiceAweek View Post
    My best sessions always have a decent tease and foreplay before the shower.

    1. As others mentioned always come clean and sharp. I don't go as far as dressing with Italian leather shoes and shit, but at least try to look appealing enough that she'd consider fucking me on the street.

    2. Enter the room with a good vibe and wash my hands straight away either in the sink if they have one or use hand sanitiser. Make sure she sees it.

    Sometimes I sit on the chair if they have one and get her to straddle me. Hands on and feel her up, DFK, dry hump and grind and start peeling clothes of eachother.

    Other times I take control and pin them to the wall. Again it's DFK and sliding (freshly cleaned) digits up her dress for a light finger blast.

    In my experience, I always read the room and the vibe and go from there. Most girls enjoy being lead, and it probably helps keep excitement higher for her when I bring a different "playlist" compared to the several fucks she had to give before me.

    Only my 2 cents
    Great advice! thanks.

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    is it stress perhaps?

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    do you get nervous?

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    Probably a bit of everything (stress, nerves etc.) but I think the biggest things were just needing to stop wanking and consuming porn for a while. Last 3 punts I came so seems ok now.

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    OP, I'm somewhat pressed for time, but would like to read the thread to it's entirety eventually;
    Tell me, what was your porn consumption like when you first noticed you couldnt finish?
    Did your tastes gradually evolve into more shocking genres?
    Did you end up with death grip to self service?

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    Quote Originally Posted by StiFFFy View Post
    OP, I'm somewhat pressed for time, but would like to read the thread to it's entirety eventually;
    Tell me, what was your porn consumption like when you first noticed you couldnt finish?
    Did your tastes gradually evolve into more shocking genres?
    Did you end up with death grip to self service?
    1. Once every night before going to sleep most nights (~30 min, cum once or twice). Occasionally longer session up to 3 hrs, cum 3 times or more (once a week).
    2. Not particularly IMO. I mostly still do prefer vanilla and the same stuff I liked since late teens. Still not really into "extreme" stuff (or maybe even moderate stuff) e.g. rape, guro, cuck/NTR, degradation, tranny, midgets? Mostly just vanilla hentai with similar age girls, when I do use other more "Extreme" material is more in spite of the extreme stuff than because of it. With real people porn still vanilla, amateur and maybe "artsy" (Hegre Art?) but until recently was almost 100% hentai only. I have definitely got more "tolerant" and less easily aroused but that could also be other factors e.g. age, health, stress etc.
    3. Not really sure what you mean by "to self service". I didn't really have any other options for release until recently taking up punting? I think just masturbating regularly a significant amount and also using hentai dulled my sensitivity to "normal" sexual stimulus but seems abstinence is mostly sufficient to return it to at least a "functional" level.

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    Self service - Trying to describe masturbating without sounding like a prude heh.
    Point 3, I'm glad to hear you've awoken to just how warping porn can be.

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Sampler View Post
    All of the above is great advice, but i'll give you something to put in the back pocket to consider if all fails. Literally.

    Try a prostate massage and see if that will get you to climax, its a different sensation and orgasm type all together in my experience.
    There are a few MLs who can do it quite good as well.
    Sampler, the OP is just starting to realise he's a sexual being.

    You do realise asking him to go for a prostate massage is the equivalent of asking a good Christian man to play a sub in an SnM session when he's clearly been playing by Jesus' handbook and done nothing but missionary all his life, right?

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    Quote Originally Posted by gimmesome View Post
    This will be a recount of my disappointing first punt. I'll be trying to avoid identifiable info, not really meant to be an AR, more of a journal. (Feel free to PM if you'd like to exchange some info though.)

    1st Punt, Korean Model WL
    This is the very recent story of my first punt and first time with something other than my hand or a chunk of plastic.

    Prologue
    As explained in my OP, I'd been lurking and doing my research for over a month and finally had a relatively free weekend coming. I decided this was an opportunity and I wanted to seize it rather than wait for my next chance who knows when. As explained before, I was looking more towards agencies rather than a bordello, my reasoning being that going to a private apartment felt more exciting and exclusive than somewhere public that sees a lot more traffic. Actual privates seemed a bit too risky, particularly with my lack of experience. I looked for Asian girls (and agencies) since in my own experience (mostly looking at girls on dating apps) I generally found Asian (or especially mixed girls) more attractive so better chance of liking what I got even in the event she wasn't as expected, plus I always seemed to get more interest in return. I also pass the dreaded "Asians Only" restriction (hooray!) so low risk of facing rejection which seems to be a thing with a few of the higher end Asian agencies?

    I'd added the contacts of some agencies with girls I had interest in for some time but hadn't contacted them yet. That Friday night I messaged agency 1 for the first time. Said hello, said that I'm interested in getting something booked for tomorrow and got directed to website roster. I got told the main girl I'm interested in is on break (despite being on the roster). A bit of communication difficulty trying to ask about some other girls on the roster. This agency was not looking too great I message agency 2 but get a response saying they're done for the day. So I give up on trying to make further arrangements for the night.

    Next day around midday I try messaging both agencies again to see if I can get a booking. Agency 1 not particularly responsive. Agency 2 is better though, unfortunately the girl I was eying had disappeared from the roster; I presume due to being booked out or having stopped (probably could have asked but didn't). So instead I settled with another girl from Agency 2 which was available and located relatively close by. Not 100% my type from the pictures but not bad either. I also confirmed this agency had the policy of only 1 shot included: anymore was an extra and only available with a longer session. Not being 100% sure of the girl but also expecting that I would cum early, I decided to go with a shorter session without extras to avoid blowing my cash. Even then it was not particularly cheap (>$350, 40 min). It was a bit late to make a same day booking so I made the booking for tomorrow midday. The agent also confirmed with me this was my first time using such a service.

    Footnote, Rude mama/papa-san:
    I note that some people have said they had issues with the mamasan/papasan of these agencies and felt a bit of anti-non-Asian sentiment? I contacted them via Line which has my profile pic so they could probably see that I was Asian and I identified myself explicitly to agency 1 but they still came off as a bit rude. However, I don't think the rudeness was intended but more just a language barrier thing plus the mama/papa-san being a bit casual. All the communication was in English and agency 1 seemed to rely on google translate but in both cases I think they were ultimately pretty helpful and patient. I asked a load of basic beginner questions but they answered all my questions and I had some banter with Agency 1's papasan. Again, feels to me more like a lack of English skills, a causal attitude and likely them mimicking the sort of English customers use with them. Ultimately though, just speculation on my part.


    The session
    Sunday comes, I'm out of bed late and didn't get much sleep the night before. Not so much because I was nervous (I think) but more because my sleep cycle is complete shit. I also fapped the day before twice; as I mentioned before I was more worried ending the session early than not being able to cum at all. Anyway, on the edge of running late, I jump out of bed get dressed and and rush out without eating brunch. I speed walk my way over in 20 min. I manage to arrive on time at the apartment lobby a little sweaty but not exhausted or out of breath. I'm feeling a little tired (from the lack of sleep) and not so much nervous but "driven" with my goal to fuck this girl and have a good time.

    So going in, I'm mentally feeling good trying to not get my expectations up too high but looking forward a good fuck; though physically I'm probably not in the ideal state. I open the door to the apartment and see the girl for the first time. She looks pretty good!

    7/10 body. Not super slim nor fit but still fairly slim and well shaped. Pretty tall but still shorter than me.
    8/10 face. "Pretty" is how I would describe it. Definitely nice and above average but no so amazing as to make me fall in love.
    -C cup I'm really more of an ass man but she has some nice boobs, not really experienced enough to make an accurate judgement on boob size but I'd say a smaller C cup? On the smaller side of medium IMO.
    6/10 ass. Nothing wrong, but nothing particularly interesting. Good smooth texture, soft but not particularly big.
    Mid-late 20s. I felt maybe she's the same age as me or slightly older.
    Her English isn't great which made communicating things a bit difficult. She often said words in Korean and sometimes Mandarin, I guess she thought I might understand?

    She immediately tries talking to me in Korean which I cannot at all understand but I quickly clear up the confusion and we make a bit of small talk in broken English (I've never really been big on small talk). I hand over the cash and we move to the bed room. I try to get her so sit on the bed with me because I want to feel her body up a bit first which she awkwardly lets me for a little bit but then stops and gets us up, both naked (seeing her naked for the first time was pretty exciting) then takes me to the shower. She gives me some mouth wash then puts me in the shower. She rubs my body with soap and gives me a pretty good soapy reach around which gets me really hard then gets me to rinse off and towel off then wait for her on the bed while she does her own shower. While waiting for her on the bed I went soft. I also note she had a bite mark on one boob and on her waist (??) maybe would explain why she's not too keen being too touchy feely.

    When she comes in I want to try have some cuddly foreplay but she gets me to lay down and starts giving me a BBBJ. It feels alright though I can feel her teeth scraping my dick a bit, she seems to use tissues quite a bit to wipe off saliva and pre-cum. To my surprise, it really doesn't feel that simulating, particularly in terms of what I imagined a BBBJ would feel like. It feels kinda good but nothing like it's gonna make me cum, very "soft". So I lie there for maybe 5 minutes getting my dick sucked and really I start feeling kinda bored and not fully hard. Finally she stops and puts a condom on me and asks me "you want me top or bottom?"

    I opt for being her being on the bottom in missionary. This is also my first chance to get a better look at her pussy. In my curiosity I have a bit of a play with it, fingering and stroking it a bit. She makes some sounds but I'm not particularly convinced of the authenticity. When it comes time for me to put it in, between stopping the not particularly stimulating BBBJ, putting on the condom, moving into position and getting distracted seeing a real pussy for the first time I've gone soft again so she get's me to lie back done while she give me a BBBJ to get me up again then puts on another condom before getting back into missionary.

    I penetrate her and it feels pretty...meh. I'd describe it as sticking my dick in a warm wet towel with a condom on. It really wasn't that stimulating, I'd say bareback into an onahole feels 10x stronger by comparison. I'm pounding her in missionary while she makes small moans which again don't feel particularly real to me but hey I probably have a distorted expectation of reality from all the hentai/porn. Looking at her boobs jiggle, looking at her face, looking where I'm thrusting into her pussy, I don't feel particularly aroused, definitely not the same way I do with porn or even my own imagination. Pumping away for a couple minutes trying to change the pace doesn't really seem to change how I feel at all (also a bit worried about going too hard), not really feeling much emotionally or physically I start feeling the boredom creeping in again. So I ask to change position.

    She gets on top and starts riding me. Again, I'm not really feeling much. She tries bouncing on top as well as grinding her hips into me but to me it all feels pretty weak. So I'm just lying there starting to feel a bit bored, thinking of options to get my rocks off better. I think she starts getting tired so gets off my now fairly flaccid dick and tries getting me off in other ways.

    Back to hand job, then BBBJ again (teeth still included). None of it really does anything for me. She's starting to seems a bit desperate and confused about why I'm going soft how to get me off. I suggest to her a few things: sucking harder, squeezing harder (hard enough she surprised it isn't hurting me), different techniques but again, even though its bare HJ and BJ it feels kinda meh. We try pussy slide a bit then condom back on again and back to cow girl but it's all still pretty meh. We try doggy style which I thought I would like more being an ass man but still pretty meh. I look at her, I look at us in the mirror, but again I feel pretty meh and start getting bored.

    I stop and let me take care of her again. Again she seems to be getting pretty confused and flustered as to why she can't get me off. More HJ and BBBJ but I'm even less excited now than before. I also try having her on top with me thrusting up into her but again it felt pretty meh. I think I would have liked it if I could feel her body pressed against mine while I hugged her and fucked her from underneath but she kept her body arched and away from me. Again, communication was a bit difficult.

    I found the most exciting (or at least the most interesting) thing for me was using my hands to play with and explore her pussy lol. She put a condom on my finger and let me finger her while I jerked off. Ultimately though we ran out of time and I didn't cum. She helped me shower again then I got dressed and left. Total time ended up being over an hour, about 40% of the time inside her, 40% BJ and other outercourse, 20% shower and other stuff.

    Epilogue:
    So leaving the apartment and taking a walk in the park my feelings were mostly disappointment that I didn't achieve my goal of having a mind blowing fuck let alone not even cumming but also surprise that the experience was so boring? unstimulating?

    I informed mama/papa-san of my experience for which I only blamed myself. They expressed their pity and asked if I had time for another punt that day and recommended some other girls with top notch service reviews and a discounted price. I was feeling like I needed some time to reflect and didn't want to go emptying out my wallet before I figured out what the problem was and how to solve it (I might see if I can still take up that discount offer at the later time though). I also felt a bit guilty that her lack of success with me might damage her self-confidence and her standing with mama/papa-san despite it not really being her fault but at the same time watching her desperately trying to get me off without success tickled a bit of a sadistic thread in me.

    Reflecting on it, I came to some of the conclusions already mentioned here. Probably over stimulated, I had wanked twice the day before after all. I was probably tired and stressed from work and lack of sleep so I should take better care of myself before my next time. Things probably could have gone smoother if I just let her completely take the lead; particularly considering my inexperience. I probably would be better off getting some experience with MLs first which would be more of a passive experience and also do much cheaper.

    I didn't mention it above but while I was fucking her, staring at her body and trying to get myself aroused, the memory of my mum popped into my head a bit . That really cratered my libido but I mostly managed to push it out and continue. On reflection, that made me think I might have a better time with a non-Asian girl so I can avoid those obtrusive thoughts lol.

    So after wanking that night (successfully, confirming the plumping still worked) I decided I'll abstain for a bit until I could get a booking with a ML and see what that experience is like... TBC

    Again thanks for reading my yarn. I would greatly appreciate any tips, advice or just perspective from a more experienced punter on how it sounded like.

    TL;DR
    Girl seemed pretty good but I probably wasn't in a great physical state. Tried some different things but nothing really worked for me. My main feelings in the bedroom were a lack of stimulation/arousal and boredom.
    Was this the AR for Yesel or some other girl?

  19. #139
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    Sounds like you need to reset your dopamine receptors. They've been fried from your excessive porn and wanking habits.

  20. #140
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    personally, if i dont cum, it doesnt hang me up. theres a whole hour or more of fun to have, and if i let missing a few seconds ruin it, then it takes all the rest of it away. out of all the things I do in a punt. the only one I can do myself is cum. i prefer to leave my finish as late as possible (and only once) in a couple or more hour session, rather than as many as possible so its a hazard of the punt. but i can say that looking back on all of them, i remember the fun, and the girl, bu I couldnt tell you which ones i didnt cum. dont over think it, just enjoy the ride

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