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    Quote Originally Posted by PKING2 View Post
    1. Should be above average face, I know beauty is in the eyes of beholder, but this will help this bro
    2. Should be has vagina muscle training. As this bro said she cannot feel anything.
    3. Should be willing not using too much lube
    4. Should be have pse mix gfe style. Because he exposed to porn which is the move a bit hard to perform by girl sometimes. Maybe he will get more aroused by the move. While the gfe style make his mind more relax.
    5. Non smoking girl, and no bad mouth odour.
    Thanks for making a list. So far my only real desire and difference between good and bad punts in terms of picking ladies is appearance (face, age, slim) and smoking. Not so sure how much 2, 3 and 4 would help but willing to try.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Stefana View Post
    Just a side thought bro , but have you thought of a career change to being a porn star
    Me or the OP?

    Pretty sure @gimmesome situation is the plot of a JAV porno.... young guy, bit picky, frustrated he can't get a load off so he dabbles in titty bars and rentals without luck.

    Spoiler alert

    His caring mother gives him the wildest bareback fuck of the century and he sprays her down like she was on fire

    I have hope for @gimmesome...

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    Quote Originally Posted by GoldfishMan View Post
    That's a good improvement, gimmesome, but still no cigar.

    I have a piece of advice which may be a bit "leftfield". Try to procure some Viagra / Kamagra (they're the same thing) and take a very very small dose (eg. 25 mg) before your next punt. There's a thread on this forum about buying it, check that out.

    What this will do is it minimises the dependency on your brain to maintain a good erection. Hopefully this will allow you to fuck to completion before you start getting soft.

    Of course the best thing to do is to get a real GF and experience real love making.
    Hmm not sure Viagra/Kamagra will help a huge amount. Lately I've managed to stay hard while penetrating at least. I guess I could be harder still? I'll have a look, would prefer if I can find more "legit" sources and reduce the risk of taking something dodgy.

    Yeah would love a real GF but again not really sure how to go about that. Maybe joining a sport? I haven't tried that yet. Could push myself to try solo pick up at night clubs or bar but that seems pretty far out of my comfort zone or experience.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TwiceAweek View Post
    Try this technique with MLs only if you have some rapport...

    Simulated BBFS. You can try this in different positions, doggy and mish work well so you can grab onto tits and ass. While in position the ML grips your cock close to her pussy (lotion required) and you thrust away at your own pace while tricking yourself into thinking your gonna creampie her when actually you just nut on her belly.
    Ha thanks TwiceAweek. Sounds fun. If I can get a chance I might see if I can get an ML to let me do intercrural.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Wotan View Post
    This is all so analytical. It beats me how many of you actually connect or ‘click’ with anyone. I think it’s possible that for most potential girlfriends who come in contact with the OP, he would come across as just too much hard work. I respectfully and non-judgmentally suggest that you share this issue with a GP or psychologist and get referred to a good sex therapist. You could probably get the ball rolling by sharing some of what you have posted here. The bottom line is that a good, full life requires emotional as well as physical sustenance.
    Thanks for the advice but not really sure what you mean by "analytical" or how being analytical is a problem or a bad thing and also not sure it's something to be "corrected".

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    Quote Originally Posted by Stefana View Post
    Just a side thought bro , but have you thought of a career change to being a porn star ��
    lol. I might have some trouble staying hard for duration of the filming or doing cum shot scenes

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    Quote Originally Posted by TwiceAweek View Post
    Me or the OP?

    Pretty sure @gimmesome situation is the plot of a JAV porno.... young guy, bit picky, frustrated he can't get a load off so he dabbles in titty bars and rentals without luck.

    Spoiler alert

    His caring mother gives him the wildest bareback fuck of the century and he sprays her down like she was on fire

    I have hope for @gimmesome...

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    You're fking wild man

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    Also had another pretty bad punt with a WL today. Will do the write up when I have time.

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    All in good fun mate. We're rooting for you

    Literally

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    Just saw this thread and only read the ops first post.

    But i had the same issue with my first time.
    A friend ive been flirting with offered to take my virginity at my mid to o late 20s.

    Had a half chub the whole time.
    And never even came close to finishing.
    Which i could attribute to two main things.
    The girl was a little more on the plus size than what i prefer.
    And i accidentally came in the shower, the day before the deed.
    Happened when i was first trying out wearing a condom. Was just too tight, haha.


    My solution?
    Tried going to rnts and brothels.
    Tried each of them once.
    Both times, i never had a raging boner for more than 8 seconds.
    Which made it a bit hard for fs.

    Those two times, the girls were both very amazing, my type.
    I came, even just a few seconds after the very lovely wl hopped on me in cg.
    However, the mls cbj was not really doing it for me, so i had to imagine a few stuff, which helped me finish.
    Both times only came once and couldnt get hard again.
    Which imo, cumming too quick and not being able to get hard again for the 1 hr session, which was less than 15 mins of play.

    Wanting to get more experience and try more girls, i decided that i want to get more out of the session than my first ml and wl sessions.

    Ended up getting kamagara jel, even before getting prescription viagra.
    And ive never looked back since.

    Ensures that i dont have to worry about keeping my erection up.
    And it is even harder than when i tried really hard to keep an erection without the medicine.

    I usually am okay finishing once during an hour session.
    But ive been able to finish 3 times in an hour.
    Once per hour, for 3 consecutive hours.


    Not worrying about the erection helped me in being able to concentrate on what turns me on and what turns the lady on as well.

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    You just about answer your own question, but you can’t see it for yourself. Step back a bit. Nothing needs to be corrected.

    https://medium.com/curious/6-problem...e-51e5f67de9c0

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    Bro gimmesome
    I approved you to see the wl that I pmed you.

    I will explained it later. She fucked me real good today lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by TwiceAweek View Post
    Me or the OP?

    Pretty sure @gimmesome situation is the plot of a JAV porno.... young guy, bit picky, frustrated he can't get a load off so he dabbles in titty bars and rentals without luck.

    Spoiler alert

    His caring mother gives him the wildest bareback fuck of the century and he sprays her down like she was on fire

    I have hope for @gimmesome...

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    It was meant for OP
    Haha , although I do find your porno plot line very intriguing 😄

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    Quote Originally Posted by gimmesome View Post
    lol. I might have some trouble staying hard for duration of the filming or doing cum shot scenes
    Haha , good luck bro
    Hope you find the right one to help you out in these "hard" times 😂

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    Had my booking at N5M with T Naomi today stuffed up. Booked a few days ago no worries. Turn up and the host was like she doesn't work today!

    I took a look at the line up, nothing grabbed me by the cock. Paula looked ok, but I really wanna confirm the hype on Naomi.

    Anyway, way off topic except now I can't cum today either

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    Quote Originally Posted by TwiceAweek View Post
    Had my booking at N5M with T Naomi today stuffed up. Booked a few days ago no worries. Turn up and the host was like she doesn't work today!

    I took a look at the line up, nothing grabbed me by the cock. Paula looked ok, but I really wanna confirm the hype on Naomi.

    Anyway, way off topic except now I can't cum today either

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    How many days ahead did you book?


    Like I understand booking a day ahead for popular girls who get booked out as soon as the rosters appear but booking days ahead, a shop couldn't with 100% certainty determine that the girl will work that day. Don't most post confirmed rosters the night before. Even then a girl could just smoke bomb.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TwiceAweek View Post
    Had my booking at N5M with T Naomi today stuffed up. Booked a few days ago no worries. Turn up and the host was like she doesn't work today!

    I took a look at the line up, nothing grabbed me by the cock. Paula looked ok, but I really wanna confirm the hype on Naomi.

    Anyway, way off topic except now I can't cum today either

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    You need to go home bro, last Sunday as well, I didn't book. But k miyu was available after I msg them, rock up there, the customer wants to extends. Saw Christine, but she not my type, so I just went home lol.

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    Booked on Tuesday for a Thursday session so not excessively early IMO.

    Even still, if she doesn't regularly work that day just tell me which days and I'll work with that.

    Better again, if a mistake was made (happens to the best of us) just msg back and say so before I trek out and waste an afternoon.

    It's all good though, I wasn't salty. I parked myself at the Bob Hawke pub down the road for a few hours with mates for giggle.

    Has to be said, the staff were genuinely apologetic and the manager girl came after me when left the building to make sure I was OK and to apologise.

    The build up to slobbering over these F cups is immense!

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    Quote Originally Posted by TwiceAweek View Post
    Had my booking at N5M with T Naomi today stuffed up. Booked a few days ago no worries. Turn up and the host was like she doesn't work today!

    I took a look at the line up, nothing grabbed me by the cock. Paula looked ok, but I really wanna confirm the hype on Naomi.

    Anyway, way off topic except now I can't cum today either

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    Mate you seemed very keen or horny to see Naomi if you made a booking a few days early. How would you know if she was working a few days later when N5M doesnt post weekly rosters as Kyoto206 or Sakura?

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    #5, Rushed K WL

    As usual, not an AR but feel free to PM if you want details.

    #5, Rushed K WL
    This was a punt with a different K WL from the same agency as the K Model WL from my first punt.

    Prelude:
    So after my pleasant but not completely successful punt with the Slim T ML (#4) I was feeling optimistic for my next punt, looking to wait a bit for tension to recover but otherwise keeping an eye out to for rarer punts with highly recommended or otherwise appealing WLs that work less often. There was this other K WL at the same agency as the K Model WL (#1) I went with for my first punt that was recommended by mamasan and seemed to have some interest around her (but no proper ARs) but she doesn't work "full time" and so is only available somewhat rarely. Her profile didn't have any major red flags though the only picture of her didn't really show much. Previous times she'd been available she was also at an agency location far away from me. So when I saw she was available that day at a nearby location I made a booking for that afternoon keen to not waste the chance.

    The Girl
    Age: She looked at least late 20s to me. Not really shining youth but definitely not old. Her profile had early 20s
    Face: 5/10. Average, slightly chubby Korean face. Not pretty but not particularly bad either. Definitely not model like or as good as #1 and significantly lower than indicated by the photo.
    Figure: 4/10. Short (average Asian woman size) <160cm. Not particularly good proportions, short legs. Most notably she had a bit of a flabby stomach. Not that I would call her "fat" but she not nicely, aesthetically distributed plumpness in a "curvy" way and also didn't look to me like post-prego loose skin but she had flabby fat and skin on her stomach.
    Boobs: C+ 6/10. Probably the biggest boobs yet, natural. Nothing particularly nice or special for me though, not perky but not particularly saggy.
    Ass: 5/10. Pretty average, nothing of note.
    Communication: 6/10. Her English seemed a bit limited but no major trouble communicating what we were doing.
    Service: 6/10. Pretty good skills. I think her BBBJ and HJ were pretty good. CG was alright but need to take some points off for rushing.

    As with my first punt, arrived at the apartment and was let in. Said hello to the lady and handed over the cash. Firstly notice her face isn't the greatest but she does seem to have bigger boobs. Enter the bed room and get undressed. Thats when she takes off her dress and I see her flabby tummy for the first time, hmmm not great but hopefully we can work with it. I don't feel particularly turned on having a perv at her body. Into the bathroom for mouth wash and shower. She gives me a rub down but it's not nearly as nice as #1. Gets me kinda to half chub but not feeling particularly aroused by the lady or her service at this point. I go back to the bedroom and dry off while she finished her own shower.

    By the time she comes in I'm completely soft again. She starts off with some caressing my body and my groin along with some nipple licking and sucking. I think I'm actually starting to feel ok with a bit of nipple play but sometimes she also suck a bit hard and I find it kinda painful. I'm semi-hard and she starts rubbing me with her tits, this is particularly hot and feels pretty nice too. Unfortunately it doesn't last particularly long and she moves on to BBBJ. She a pretty nice BBBJ not like the first WL with teeth and a lot of stopping to wipe off precum. Really nice and slow. Holding it in her mouth and really rubbing me hard with her tongue. It's pretty nice stimulation but as pretty much always so far, maybe good enough to get me harder but not anywhere near enough to make me cum. I notice she's also in a bit of a weird position which hides most of her body, kneeling on the floor with her body bent over and lying on the bed, maybe more comfortable for her or maybe she was trying to hide that stomach?

    After quite a long BBBJ we move onto sex. I ask her to try being on top first. She rubbers me up and applies some lube (first lady to actually use lube right way) then mounts me. She arches her back to stretch out her belly so I at least don't have to watch her flabby tummy bouncing around lol. Her vagina doesn't really feel like anything different which is to say isn't really getting me off but it does feel a bit more pleasurable than previous times. She tries out this and that, squatting, kneeling, grinding none of which get me particularly closer to cumming and once she gets tired she lets me take over. I start off in missionary for a while and try a few different things out, again nothing feeling particularly good. She wraps her legs around me a bit moaning but it's not that arousing coming from her. I start getting tired of that and move to doggy. I notice again this position tends to feel a bit nicer and I can feel a bit more tightness. I think I can even actually feel a bit of pleasure. After a while I try changing things a bit, using different angles playing near the entrance more which feels a bit nicer. However while I'm going at it an alarm goes off. A few moments later she asks me "can you please try cum"? Well no shit I'm trying.

    Doing doggy was feeling good but not enough to make me cum in the next 5 min. So I pull out and ask for HJ. She start jerking me off vigorously, too vigorously it makes it kind of painful and being rushed too I lose the boner which I had maintained from the start of touching to that point (~30min). I was about I suggest she let me FIV while I jerk off but she say oh no out of time, she has another booking today and rushes me off to shower and get dressed. I comply and give myself a quick wash, get dressed and leave.

    After thoughts
    I think her service, particularly with her BBBJ and HJ was better than previous ladies, so as advertised there. Her service was higher tier but that's really pulled back down by the rushing at the end. I guess maybe the mamasan was a bit concerned I was a time hog due to going over time last time without cumming and also asking if they'd still provide the discount they offered last time (they didn't honour it and said it wasn't the girl's problem) so maybe mamasan gave some instruction to the WL or something? Again though, the biggest negative of the experience was not finding the WL physically attractive, less so the service and rushing.

    Good to get some more experience with different WL but not really enjoyable and no real progress or new outcomes a a result of the punt so not a good one.

    Next Steps
    So still need to get onto trying out some personal recommendations from brothers. I'm thinking taking a trip out to N5M might be worthwhile, otherwise there are also more recommendations at Ginza but I've been burned a bit there once already. Given how much visual stimulus (hot girl) seems to be important to me I'm thinking maybe going more towards PSE with a hot girl might be better?

    If the next punt I'm still having issues and the girl isn't the problem then I think I'll definitely want to visit the GP and get a referral to a specialist. Some recommendations and experience with ED medication has been given but I'm not too keen to go running out trying to get those without a prescription. I've got a family history of heart issues and I also already have pretty low blood pressure normally so probably don't want to just go out and use ED medication without proper medical assessment. Many gels and tablets also seem to include active ingredients for premature ejaculation and making my ejaculation even more delayed is probably the last thing I want.

    I'll also make a note here as I have before but more clearly, some brothers seem to have taken to punting to try self-medicate for sexual dysfunction and other issues. In my case however, my goal getting into punting was to enjoy punting and these issues have been discovered as a result of wanting to go punting. This is NOT I have issues and I'm trying to over come them by punting. My overarching goal here is the have some good punts but in order to do so I need to overcome these issues. None the less there ARE issues and if they aren't getting resolved with what I can do with myself and WLs then I clearly need to get some additional professional help.

    Cheers. As always, keen to hear thoughts, advice and recommendations.

    TL;DR
    Not a great punt. Service was a bit better than others so far but it ended being rushed with no happy ending. The biggest minus of the punt for me though was her flabby belly and overall not finding her particularly physically attractive.

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