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Being forced to take a week off before the end of the Fin Year to balance the books.
This sucks because it's not enough time to do some real travel, and I need to keep some leave for an actual trip later in the year.
I really hate doing the sit by the pool thing.
Eyeing off some two for one travel deals if anyone has a suggestion for a travel partner who could make it interesting.
I'll come with you
Nice one faruk, LOL, thanks.Originally Posted by faruk
Give bro travelmate a pm...
waynek
Waynekerr by name, waynekerr by nature.
He only interested in traveling to Taiwan 🇹🇼
Travel companion is not that different to a sugar daddy agreement... normally the value is low, they charge you an arm and leg for free travel and doing jack all. Many couples fight and break up during getaway trips let alone with someone you have never met.
The mistake a lot make is to think that because they're paying for room and board, plus travel costs, there will be a big discount on services rendered. What they don't see is the girl has a place to live, however crappy, she can fix her own meals, and she's NOT working at the hourly shop. IF you can compensate her financial loss to a MUTUALLY agreed upon extent, you might have something. Just remember, it's a BUSINESS, and she is ON THE JOB, with due salary expected.
Yeah I agree.
You are better off traveling solo and catching up with girls as you go along and being totally free.
Cellphone/internet/social media has killed the travel girlfriend vibe. Now they spend half their time on the phone, on social media, staying in touch with other guys or lining up the next one.
And agreed too. Nothing worse than dragging along someone who doesn't want to do what you want to do, when you want to do it. The "it's too hot, it's too cold, too far, too early, too late..." The advantage of traveling solo, especially in your own country. It can be done, but with someone you KNOW.
Hah, I'm the opposite. I guess I am biased by past experience. Many years ago, I was married and having an affair with a hot 9/10 girl I'd met outside of punting. I used the term affair loosely because this girl, FMD, just didn't want to "consummate" said relationship in a hotel or any rented room. Not even in the car. I can make-out with her as much as I liked, feel up any part of her hot body whenever I got a chance to do it like when we went for a couples massage during the few minutes we had to change into the massage gear. But sex? That's a firm NO, unless I can think of a better idea. The worst thing was I got 100% vibe that she was also very keen on fucking me.
Everytime I went out with her I had a stonking boner leaking precum, only to end up with blue balls at the end of the evening. Fark it was driving me nuts.
Lo and behold, I had a golden opportunity to travel alone. It was to attend the wedding of my old mate. Instead of going directly to my mate's wedding, I made a detour to a nearby country to stay for 4 nights and booked passage for my GF. I swear, those were 4 of the most memorable sex-filled days and nights of my life. No regrets ever, best thing I've ever done for myself. I think we only spent half a day total outside of the hotel room!
But if the girl were to go on a holiday herself she would have to pay for it and she wouldn't be earning any income during that time anyway. So if a guy is willing to pay for her holiday then she should see it as a free trip that otherwise would've cost her.
Good luck with that. Because it's not a free trip, she will be doing what HE wants, when he wants, where he wants. Sure, he might make some allowances, but human nature, he'll start to think, "hey, I'm paying for this... so it should be my decision when there's a disagreement. And she's thinking I'm not being paid a salary, so why should I? Because when she goes on a trip by herself, yes, it costs her, but she's independent. There is no such thing as a free lunch...
As in, he wants to go hiking. She wants to stay by the pool. Why should he be paying if he's not going to have her company, and she's thinking why should I have to go hiking when I don't want to, it's only a hotel and food, plus gas, train ticket, plane ticket. That's chump change when you consider her hourly rate multiplied by 24... even by 8, but then, she's not with him for just 8, but 24...
The fantasy is great... until it hits reality. Like Rooter said, she has her own ideas of what's entertaining... and what she owes you. Don't believe? Travel with someone, then see...
Not all is lost, you just gotta understand that you can't just grab any girl and go on a trip with her and expect her to be all hot and bothered just because you're paying for her holiday. Gotta make sure you've already got chemistry with said girl before you go through with it.
Remember, on a holiday, you're likely 2 strangers in a strange land and she has to be in the same room with you every day for X number of days. If there was no chemistry to begin with, it could be a recipe for disaster!
Was there a thread about hiring a tour guide and some extras ?
A fantastic question OP; the general rule of thumb:
For work related travel, go solo, punt to your hearts delight and/or find a SB at your destination.
For international holiday travel, go solo, punt to your heart's delight and/or find a WL/SB at your holiday destination to be your tour guide.
If holidaying locally at some tropical island resort, you gotta take a FWB. If a FWB is not an option and you must take a WL/ML or SB expect to pay $$$ as the chick will miss out on income during the time she's away from the shop.
As Goldfishman correctly points out - chemistry and compatibility is fucken key, remember you are literally two strangers living as a couple so be prepared for unexpected shit like her taking big dumps, leaving the toilet seat down, farting, burping, blowing snot everywhere, leaving hair everywhere, morning or dragon breath, looking like a witch without her makeup etc etc. also check the regularity and timing of her menstrual cycle - the last thing you want is for her to be on the rags all week.
If you must holiday solo, go on one of those 'love boat' beaver patrol cruises and you're guaranteed to get some action; and quite possibly a threesome - single women always travel in large packs or with a girlfriend, they love to party and will be up for anything on the high seas.
Fuck all that overrated stereotypical 'sit by the pool' holiday getaway destination shit you see on telly and go for something different, extreme and impressionable - understand that the journey is more important than the destination. If you plan it right, chicks will literally be asking/begging you to take them on another trip.
If the chick is high maintenance, flakey as fuck, a princess or a primadonna, tell her to get fucked! and she can stay at the shop and suck cocks all day
Lol, dragon breath!! So true bro... I find younger girls tend to have less of this problem than older ones.
100% agree with what other people mentioned that you need to have chemistry etc.
The only way for this travel thing to work is that you two would have to be around the same age and can atleast talk to each other naturally, almost as if you could date or be friends atleast, Otherwise it will just feel weird and forced like you both know it's business with rules and regulations when you want it to feel natural between the both of you where you can partake in her activities she organised for the day and her partake in yours etc, last thing you want is to have a awkward convo whilst eating dinner at a restaurant or even worse pay for her shit and still have to pull out your wallet before you go to bed for the night But if you okay with that then go for it.
If she is a WL that's younger than you and treats you as one of her older nice and sweet customer then I wouldn't even bother as she will look at you as a paying customer still, if you are same age atleast and you can vibe together then you would have a better experience.
I have done the holiday with a WL and have also been asked to come visit another when she goes back home to Thailand next year, this was only possible due to our chemistry otherwise if we didn't have it then I would even waste my money or time.
Some very valid points about the age difference, language mastery, and communication skills, as the holiday won't be just about pounding away 24x7 with a PYT. If you are lucky enough to experience that, then kudos to you as you have ridden a unicorn in the land of Nirvana.
Other things to consider.
Don't fucken give her any details or an itinerary of the trip. Keep it really vague and mysterious - chicks love the romance, intrigue and mystery. Leading up to the trip throw her some breadcrumbs and decoys to throw her off the scent; and they'll start to overthink and fantasise about the trip and by the time you see them at the airport they'll be dripping wet.
Be a gentleman and do tell them what they need to pack or wear for the trip eg a g-string, a thong, swimsuit, hat, elegant evening dress, high heels, gym gear, walking shoes, puffy jacket, mittens and scarf etc etc. This just adds to the mystery of where you're taking her and will keep her wet and lubricated.
Don't forget about the portable entertainment with hours worth of pre-downloaded porn (music playlists is optional).
Double Adaptor speaking the truth! Wise words Sir! Amen.
What's the go to situation if this happens? Just one week without sex?
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