First time poster but long time punter so i totally understand that this could be a conundrum for some.
I've never been in this situation, but some of the lady's are so damn cute that i can see why some lads would get caught up in the moment.
My defence mechanism is to see it for exactly what it is.......she's not my girl, it's just my turn!.
PS: fun looking forum and enjoy reading all your input.